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AIBU?

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Is it a townie thing? Or am I just anti-social?

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oObyeOo · 18/05/2024 18:09

I live in a very popular part of the UK that basically triples in number the summer months.

It’s the Lakes, so it’s ruralish and lots of space if you know where to go. Yet despite this space…. Like today for example….

Me and family (dh & 11yr old dd) are sitting on the lake shore, really long section of beach. Lots of space as only us and another family approx 20mtrs away.

Another family with younger kids approx 1 and 4 come and sit RIGHT next to us!… About 2 meters away. There’s a whole fucking beach!

Why?!

I think it’s a townie thing… when you live surrounded by people you feel safer/more comfortable next to people.

Whereas if you live rurally you prefer your space more.

OP posts:
BoudiccaOfSuburbia · 19/05/2024 16:14

Gwenhwyfar · 19/05/2024 12:18

It's been established by research that urban dwellers stand closer to each other than rural ones even when there is space so I don't see why OP is having a hard time for mentioning where the people are from.

Possibly because the thread is not about standing closer to each other in any sort of context where you might stand near people ( queue, talking in the street or on a lakeside beach etc)

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 19/05/2024 20:53

I'm a Londoner & would sit as far away from you as possible love x

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 19/05/2024 20:56

Saschka · 18/05/2024 19:19

I reckon it’s the same type of person who insists on talking to strangers on the bus.

So definitely not Londoner. Sounds like something people from Manchester or Liverpool would do Grin

Hmm. Londoner here born & bread. I'd not sit near you on the beach! But I'll chat to AMYONE on a bus. Stop generalising FFS

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