Concerned about BF who is travelling. No contact and hasn’t been on his phone

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He was travelling with friends but they’ve left to go somewhere else and he’s stayed in Thailand. No contact with isn’t normal and Today it’s been 21 hours since he was last active on any social media’s. Would you be worried not sure what to do?

YABU - you dont trust him already, this won't work. FWIW - its totally possible to go to thailand and not she everything moving you know? Have you ever been to Thailand - there is SO much culture to see, temples to visit, places to see. Surprise - sometimes, there is no phone signal in these far out places.....

Op, please don't take an notice of all the negative posts assuming he's run off with someone. He's split up with his mates who appear to just be interested in nightlife and shacking up because he is actually interested in visiting some of Thailand.....that's a a good thing!!

OP do not listen to all the negative man-hating shit on here and please don't let it impact your relationship! Totally plausible about the phone signal and good for him if he wants to branch out from the nightlife etc, if he was cheating he'd probably be more inclined to stay in touch with you so it didn't look suspicious! Honestly don't let any of the paranoid comments impact you

They are pushy with women as well, walking up a road in Hua Hin an my husband and daughter were in front, bit of a gap. Fair play to them for leaving my husband alone who was with a young teenager but they just transferred their attention to me .

OP: had he anything to hide, I doubt he would have raised suspicion and alarm by going out of contact.

There are as many posts here testifying to bad and patchy signal as there are to men behaving badly, and it sounds as if he has left partying to his mates while he explores the country.

I know Thailand pretty well although we tend to stay well away from the tourist hot spots and the associated goings on like phuket etc, so I can't blame him for getting out of those places, they're very far removed from the real Thailand.

Phone signal can be iffy so if he is travelling it's fair enough to expect his communications not to be as regular as normal but he should be telling people where he is going and how long for in case he does run into problems.

I was in Hua Hin when I was very young, there was only one hotel there at the time. I'd never go back now. Such a shame

best post. It's true though, if you trust him, it's all totally plausible. If not, doesn't matter how much he messages you or stays in contact.