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Accidentally lied to friend about holiday

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WildBeaker · 10/05/2024 10:03

I came back to work yesterday after going on holiday to Las Vegas last week. My friend asked me how it was and asked if I went to the Grand Canyon. I wasn’t really focusing, had a mind slip and said yes even though I didn’t go. She started talking about the different parts of the canyon and I thought it would’ve been weird to backtrack so I just nodded along. She suggested to pop round to mine to see our photos/videos over the weekend and I’m panicking because obviously I won’t have any of the Grand Canyon and if she finds out I never went that will be so embarrassing. I’m wondering whether to say I forgot the camera on that day or would that sound too weird?

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tomatino · 15/05/2024 20:49

I was there in March - AMA.

My memories can be yours!

Lwrenn · 15/05/2024 21:00

We all just zone out when exhausted.
I once was so in the zone I starting casually limping alongside a fella with a genuine limp.
Wish I knew why, wish I didn't keep it going awkwardly, but I'd stopped paying attention and when earth came back to me, I had developed a wee limp. Absolute twat I am.

When were knackered we do these things. My eldest asks me when I'm tired for all sorts of shite he knows if I wasn't half asleep I'd never agree to, don't sweat it.

cottoncandy260 · 15/05/2024 22:12

Timeforanewnam · 10/05/2024 14:46

I think most of us have done something like this in our lives. Try not to worry.

if it makes you feel any better, just after I had had my second baby, a lady who lived locally saw me in the local shop and asked me what I had.
I told her I had a girl .
I hadn’t it was a boy 🤪
I realise straightaway, but I couldn’t say anything, in case She thought I was bonkers.
Unfortunately, she started asking me what the name was et cetera. Luckily I managed to tell her my other child’s name.
I still think about how daft it was that I couldn’t remember what I’d given birth too . Never mind 🤪

I remember doing similar when I had my firstborn. He was about 3 days old and someone asked what his name was and I replied with the name of my friend’s baby as this was the name I’d been used to saying until my own was born!

Luckily I didn’t know the person well so never saw her again to let her know I’d forgotten my own baby’s name and it was actually something different.

We all come out with random shit sometimes. Especially with tiredness. Think you just have to be honest and say you made a mistake. Would be too weird to keep up the lie going forward.

PrestonHood121 · 15/05/2024 22:33

who pops round to see photos of anywhere in 2024?

Rewis · 15/05/2024 22:38

I'd go with full on gaslighting. Say you never said such a thing. She made it up. Does grand canyon even exist? Denydenydeny. Or you know. Just say what you said in the op.

ChampagneLassie · 15/05/2024 23:13

EmilyTjP · 10/05/2024 12:00

Also, who on earth asks to come round to look at someone’s holiday photos?! 😂

this! 🤣

T1Dmama · 16/05/2024 10:03

Just text her and say ‘sorry I think I have the impression we’d been to the GC, I must’ve misheard your question and then when you were talking about it didn’t have the heart to say anything!’

Don't lie more

unhappywskid · 16/05/2024 17:29

I'd go with what some people have suggested here, just come clean, it was a genuine mistake, it could've happened to anyone.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 16/05/2024 17:31

VickyEadieofThigh · 10/05/2024 10:08

If friend mentions it, say "No, we didn't go." If she says "You said you did!", say "Did I? Blimey, jetlag, eh?"

This.

Don't overthink it.

unhappywskid · 16/05/2024 17:36

Changinforaday · 14/05/2024 18:12

Was going to say exactly this. Are we in 1985 perhaps?

I found it unusual too. I honestly thought no one did that anymore, since there's social media and stuff.

daisychain01 · 17/05/2024 04:57

EmmaGrundyForPM · 16/05/2024 17:31

This.

Don't overthink it.

C'mon 90% of MN threads are a direct result of someone "overthinking" stuff 😂

akasalishsea · 17/05/2024 20:15

WildBeaker · 10/05/2024 10:03

I came back to work yesterday after going on holiday to Las Vegas last week. My friend asked me how it was and asked if I went to the Grand Canyon. I wasn’t really focusing, had a mind slip and said yes even though I didn’t go. She started talking about the different parts of the canyon and I thought it would’ve been weird to backtrack so I just nodded along. She suggested to pop round to mine to see our photos/videos over the weekend and I’m panicking because obviously I won’t have any of the Grand Canyon and if she finds out I never went that will be so embarrassing. I’m wondering whether to say I forgot the camera on that day or would that sound too weird?

Just tell your friend your mind was boggled with work demands and that you apologize for not listening to her fully and then have a good laugh over it.

Grrrpredictivetex · 19/05/2024 13:19

We went on helicopter trip. Tell her weather changed so you had to return sooner rather than later so no photos unfortunately.

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