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Draping sheets etc over child’s pushchair

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notedbiscuits · 09/05/2024 22:27

A bit of warm weather and seen my pet hate - parents who drape a towel, sheet, muslim cloth over their child’s pushchair.

Don’t they realise that this makes the area under the covering warmer? Plus babies can’t regulate temperature well.

They are better off with a clip on parasol. Then the air circulates.

Why do parents still do this habit of draping material over the pushchair?

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As476 · 10/05/2024 10:32

I’ve done it with a damp muslin. Pegged to the pushchair hood. That way any air underneath was cool, and it had huge gaps at the side. My son always had/has really really fair skin like me and is capable of getting sunburn in the shade like me. When I was little I got sunburnt so badly I blistered. I wasn’t going to risk that happening to my baby

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 10/05/2024 10:37

Slow cooked babies 😳

The hyperbole-ometer is going full throttle on this thread.

Excited101 · 10/05/2024 10:46

Snoozeshades are the best. Not that expensive, especially if second hand. And specifically designed.

ILikePistachios · 10/05/2024 11:57

It was 20°c here yesterday and I saw a probably 4/5 year old asleep (I hope) in a pushchair (another pet hate of mine) with a fleece blanket folded and draped over her 🙄 the poor kid was as red as a tomato

WhiteLily1 · 10/05/2024 14:53

Oh get a grip. Cooking to death.
A light muslin hanging loosely over the top to shade the sun isn’t going to harm the baby.
a thick blanket tucked in at all sides on a boiling day yes, but I don’t think many people would be doing that

Rachie1973 · 10/05/2024 15:23

HcbSS · 10/05/2024 08:59

It gives me the absolute rage
I will judge and would say something. I’d rather have an offended mother (literally couldn’t give two hoots about that) than a dead baby.

I’d tell you to fuck off and laugh I’m afraid.

HcbSS · 10/05/2024 17:05

Rachie1973 · 10/05/2024 15:23

I’d tell you to fuck off and laugh I’m afraid.

Lovely. What nice language to use in front of a small child. So incompetent and potty mouthed.

Rachie1973 · 10/05/2024 18:05

HcbSS · 10/05/2024 17:05

Lovely. What nice language to use in front of a small child. So incompetent and potty mouthed.

I’ll let my supervising social worker know next time I see her.

Pin0cchio · 10/05/2024 18:09

They do it to try and block out light and visual distractions to encourage a baby to sleep.

Neither of mine would have slept with only a parasol - too interested in the world around them. I bought a special sun block pram cover designed to allow air flow & keep the temperature underneath cool.

penjil · 10/05/2024 18:25

LimeSqueezer · 09/05/2024 22:36

Muslin. Muslims don't have special cloths.

They do. The women wear them on their head, no?

Bushmillsbabe · 10/05/2024 18:37

Starsandflowers · 10/05/2024 00:16

I think it's not for you to judge unless the baby is clearly in distress.
I think most mothers have heard that draping things over the pram can make the temperature in the pram rise but they make their own risk assessments.
I myself have done it. With all 3 kids at least once. Tbh unless it's a proper heatwave in the UK 30 degrees plus.. draping a muslin over part of the pram is not going to harm your baby...
When I've done it I've made sure there's a big gap for air to circulate. I've just positioned it to try and keep direct sunlight off babies skin.
Those parasols are useless pieces of crap imo you just end up repositioning them ever five minutes then they eventually snap.
I was thinking today with the sun that I wish there were just extentions of pram hoods you could buy that made the pram hood stick out much longer straight ahead.. and sort of arched at the sides..
Someone should get on inventing those!!

They did, Uppababy prams and buggies have that, one of the reasons why we bought it

NoCloudsAllowed · 10/05/2024 18:50

Meh. Prams are basically plastic buckets, on a hot day they're not a good place for a baby anyway.

Bl00msburySet · 10/05/2024 18:59

Absolutely wasn’t the case with my pram. It was so much cooler with a muslin draped over the top and a gap at the bottom. I checked several times. I think mothers know how to protect their own babies and are on it. 🙄

Inkyblue123 · 10/05/2024 19:05

I’m struggling g to see the difference between a Muslin cloth being draped over a buggy and the approved sun shades which some of which are not nets .

Bl00msburySet · 10/05/2024 19:08

Inkyblue123 · 10/05/2024 19:05

I’m struggling g to see the difference between a Muslin cloth being draped over a buggy and the approved sun shades which some of which are not nets .

The other costs ££££ and has a catchy name. Same as a lot of baby equipment that is suddenly deemed vital when parents have coped for years without.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 10/05/2024 19:12

I use the snooze shade that the first poster posted, together with a pram fan

OtsyBotsy90 · 10/05/2024 19:23

ProjectKettle · 10/05/2024 00:19

Someone has invented it already. I have an uppababy, which has it built in, but you can also buy ones like this if your pram doesn't have one.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Universal-Sunshade-Foldable-Pushchair-Breathable/dp/B0BX8KJTQ6

Thank you for that link!!!! I’ve not seen these before.

Crabble · 10/05/2024 19:24

I did it when my first daughter was born because I was out and couldn’t get the parasol to stay in a place which shielded her from the sun and a Muslin was all I could think of to protect her from the glare of the sun. genuinely didn’t know it was dangerous till the people I met up with that day told me

GordonBlue · 10/05/2024 22:23

NoCloudsAllowed · 10/05/2024 18:50

Meh. Prams are basically plastic buckets, on a hot day they're not a good place for a baby anyway.

Yeah they should be walking, lazy bastards.

Biffbaff · 11/05/2024 21:28

echt · 09/05/2024 23:00

Do you have link to the original research?

No because as it turns out, it was a Swedish newspaper article and not even actual research. The lady who invented the Snoozeshade wrote about it.

Biffbaff · 11/05/2024 21:33

SemperIdem · 09/05/2024 23:06

Do you also think that putting babies to sleep on their backs rather than their front and not using cot bumpers is just “being judgmental of mothers capable of making their own risk assessments”?

No because the findings on this are actually statistically significant and many babies have sadly died from unsafe sleep practice. Show me the stats where thousands of babies have died over decades and continents from a draped muslin on the pram and I might review my thinking around this.

Biffbaff · 11/05/2024 21:37

soupfiend · 10/05/2024 07:08

Parents are not always capable of making a good risk assessment, so whats your point?

And its parents, not mothers solely.

My point is, it hasn't actually been proven to be dangerous, the statistics don't bear out when it comes to injuries/fatalities so it's actually a common misconception rather than sound advice to parents.

My comment about mothers was about people judging mothers for this, not it being only mothers who do the draping.

Theoldcuriosityshop · 11/05/2024 22:04

Back in the dark ages i.e 60s-70s when we had the big prams,we always had lovely canopies to fit over the pram.