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He said I don't appreciate him for this reason...

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Daydreams80 · 05/05/2024 14:57

We have been seeing eachother on and off for a few years. We always end up back together at some point and I know I should probably end things altogether. Anyway when we were messaging he askd me to send him a photo. I didn't send it because I had not seen him for a while and I kinda thought he didn't deserve it at that point because I felt that he had not put much effort into us lately.

Anyway a few weeks later I messaged him and then sent a photo (not showing my face as you can never truly know what they could do with your photo). He didn't reply to my message so I then quickly deleted the photo before he had seen it as it just didn't feel right iykwim.

Since I deleted the photo ever other message is "resend the photo". I have not and he has been very off with me and saying that I don't"appreciate him".

Can I have your thoughts please. How would you respond? Deal with it?

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wutheringkites · 05/05/2024 21:04

Daydreams80 · 05/05/2024 20:48

I repeat - I have not sent him nudes. And want fodder? Shouldn't a man want to wank over someone they are attracted to? 🤔

You need to work on your self esteem

Babadook76 · 05/05/2024 21:04

Daydreams80 · 05/05/2024 20:48

I repeat - I have not sent him nudes. And want fodder? Shouldn't a man want to wank over someone they are attracted to? 🤔

So what are you on about? What did you send a photo of then?

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 05/05/2024 21:19

Shouldn't a man want to wank over someone they are attracted to?

You're right. Nothing wrong with being wank fodder.

But being "only" wank fodder is gross, and that's what you are to him. Just something to wank over. Is that what you want for yourself?

Dacadactyl · 05/05/2024 21:44

Daydreams80 · 05/05/2024 20:48

I repeat - I have not sent him nudes. And want fodder? Shouldn't a man want to wank over someone they are attracted to? 🤔

I have a feeling this is Eggbert and Beatrice back again.

The photo will have been of a curtain or something.

Babadook76 · 05/05/2024 21:56

Dacadactyl · 05/05/2024 21:44

I have a feeling this is Eggbert and Beatrice back again.

The photo will have been of a curtain or something.

Yes, I’m not sure why this hasn’t been deleted along with the other moronic threads

Dunkinn · 05/05/2024 22:11

What is there to appreciate, exactly?

peakygold · 05/05/2024 23:04

Tell him you want a nude photo of him first. And then block him when he sends it. That will mess his head up for a bit.

Daydreams80 · 06/05/2024 00:02

@Dacadactyl

" I have a feeling this is Eggbert and Beatrice back again "

Who/what is that? I must be missing something here.

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