So all in all the cinema trip probably cost at least £100? I understand your point about quality of life but many people can't afford to go to the cinema so it is considered a relative luxury.
I know that sounds incredibly harsh but it sounds like the trip was excessive both in terms of how much it cost and also the strain it put on the PA. I have a disabled relative so understand the importance of them having enriched lives but there needs to be a balance somewhere. It is unaffordable and unsustainable to be funding this for him whilst expecting other people to work long hours on minimum wage with no consideration given to their quality of life or the fact that cinema trips are a distant fantasy when you can barely afford rent and food
1 The cinema entry for my son was about £10
2 The PA ticket is free with a CEA card
3 Social services want my son to get out and about to do activities and lead a normal social life - my son would rather stay home
4 his cinema ticket was paid for by us
5 However there are expenses for the PA eg food and drink
7 Getting him out involves expanses eg he might need an Uber to get back
The cost is the facilitation of the trip not the cinema ticket for him. he pays for his own ticket ( we do) and food ( we do).
I can immediately create an expense above and beyond pip. I have no desire to carry on caring for some stupid comments like this.
He is high needs and moreover in some form of care they will be duty bound to take people out like my son without these daft comments. However the care costs alone are more than 1800 per week and this crazy argument makes me want to give up.
Just to wind you up his life skills costs £35,000 per year makes his pip seem cheap! Really the government are doing a great job winding people up about PIp.