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to think cutting benefits will increase crime

296 replies

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 13:25

because people need money, you know, for food and rent and stuff. I'd be prepared to break the law before seeing my children without food, or homeless, wouldn't you?

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IvorTheEngineDriver · 20/04/2024 20:59

Who cares? History has shown that just because a politician comes out with a soundbite to try and rally the troops, it doesn't necessarily mean that there will actually be anything more done about it.

YANBU, but I seriously doubt if things will come to that.

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 21:05

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 19:33

As in companionate love? Marriage? A bit weird.

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Compassion for other human beings.

TheHateIsNotGood · 20/04/2024 22:39

Similar to you @caringcarer I also have a ds that I have fought tooth and nail for, my only birth child now 22 has autism. I won't tempt fate by saying here that he's landed a great opportunity, but he has.

Meanwhile, there's me..the supporter, advocate, fighter, mother...now where do I fit into the grand scheme of things? I'm 61 and sacrificed everything to ensure as best I can that my son can live without me.

I work for whoever will employ me and not many will/do - just like Yosser - gissa job.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/04/2024 22:42

Luxell934 · 20/04/2024 21:05

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Compassion for other human beings.

That isn't what you typed. You obviously didn't know that companionate is a word.

Maybemaybeebee · 20/04/2024 23:37

caringcarer · 20/04/2024 18:33

Yet they are still removed and earning money each month.

Do you mean employed? Yes, they are but some weeks it is very little income so not reliable. Nearly all of the workers are young adults who live at home or have no commitments so they can afford to take this type of zero hours job. I wish that employers would just employ people on proper contracts tbh. Having said that, I am pleased that they managed to find work in the end, we were at the point that they were going to have to apply for Universal credit.
Also my DC does have a disability, so there can’t be many companies that guarantee an interview near me, as they applied for a large amount of jobs and only got 2 interviews.

Anyway, I am not going to convince the people who think it’s easy to get a job that it’s not, I can only give my personal experience. Location may be a large factor as well.

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:11

Solgrass · 20/04/2024 17:19

@srailfonaidraug

Curious….what do you think is going to happen after the next election? That goes out to all the Tory bashers by the way.
Do you think the Labour Party will adopt different policies?
What exactly do you think they will do?

You’re barking up the wrong tree with that one. Starmer’s Labour are nothing more than the Tory puppet masters’ backup plan.

After forty years of slow-burn Thatcherite failure, expect no valid solutions or excuses from either of those two circus sideshows.

That tories continue to gaslight voters with the same lies and deflections, clearly with considerable prevalent success, only goes to show the patent stupidity of much of the electorate.

Latenightanxiety · 21/04/2024 08:18

Why don’t they just get them helping in the community? Not full time but equivalent to their benefits and their physical abilities. Cleaning grafity, litter picking, befriending the elderly. Then those who can work are gaining skills and credentials too do they actually have something to put on their cv or talk about in interviews.
I know they tried something similar many years ago but they tried to make it too many hours (way more than minimum wage) and it also saw companies like Asda benefiting from free labour rather than community/charity projects.

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 08:26

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:11

You’re barking up the wrong tree with that one. Starmer’s Labour are nothing more than the Tory puppet masters’ backup plan.

After forty years of slow-burn Thatcherite failure, expect no valid solutions or excuses from either of those two circus sideshows.

That tories continue to gaslight voters with the same lies and deflections, clearly with considerable prevalent success, only goes to show the patent stupidity of much of the electorate.

It was rhetorical questioning

Tiptoptum · 21/04/2024 08:27

Latenightanxiety · 21/04/2024 08:18

Why don’t they just get them helping in the community? Not full time but equivalent to their benefits and their physical abilities. Cleaning grafity, litter picking, befriending the elderly. Then those who can work are gaining skills and credentials too do they actually have something to put on their cv or talk about in interviews.
I know they tried something similar many years ago but they tried to make it too many hours (way more than minimum wage) and it also saw companies like Asda benefiting from free labour rather than community/charity projects.

Because, like last time, it would be used to take advantage.
If there are jobs like this that need doing, then make it a proper paid position, with benefits of work and entitlements to sick pay/pension etc. Don’t try to use it as some way to appease people who “need to see them doing something for their benefits” It doesn’t factor in family or childcare, how they would get there etc, etc, which is where it always falls down.

Also, I would not want someone forced to befriend my mum in order to get their benefits. Ditto when “so many care jobs” is thrown into the mix, I don’t think that’s a line of work to force claimants into either

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:38

Nospecialcharactersplease · 20/04/2024 16:15

Correlation is not causation. Shoplifting rates most likely fell during the pandemic because no fecker was going to the shops (non-essential ones weren’t even open). Not because hard up mums suddenly had a bit extra.

If you look at people convicted of shoplifting in the magistrates courts, it’s nearly always driven by addiction, not poverty.

And what exactly do you think addiction is driven by, a sense of adventure??

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:40

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 08:26

It was rhetorical questioning

Read more like an assumption to me.

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 08:42

A rhetorical question to make statement. That’s the point

Willyoujustbequiet · 21/04/2024 08:43

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 15:53

the OP implied that people on Pip do not drive.... just because you get pip it does not automatically imply you are unable to work is the point i am making.

i work with at least 3 people who receive Pip and drive and work... so get off your high horse.. I am disabled, I drive, I get PiP.

so no im not suggesting anything other than NOT ALL ON PIP ARE UNBLE TO GET A JOB

Then in some ways you are very lucky as being able to drive is one of the most commonly used reasons for the DWP turning down a PIP application.

Willyoujustbequiet · 21/04/2024 08:54

everydaywonderful · 20/04/2024 16:40

and if you have never had your nails done, never drink or smoke, don't have a flat screen TV or games consul....

Not everyone has outgoings that can be cut! I am surprised you think getting your nails done every week is a common thing. I've only ever had my nails done for medical reasons. I think I know one person off the top of my head who regularly gets their nails done. I don't think it is normal

And you have countless posts on here saying people can't manage on £100k and that the 'squeezed middle' are really suffering. Many nod along in agreement.

Yet those same people expect people to manage on minimum wage/zero hour type contracts. The disconnect is very real.

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:57

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 16:45

how are you accessing this forum out of curiosity? what are you using? so for example i am sat at home on my mac book using my full fiber internet connection?

you are either on a PC, LAPTOP or SMART PHONE. you won't be in a public place because you'd have to pay for that and you can't afford it.

i smell a rat

Are you actually being serious? You were telling people earlier to “get off their high horse” and then you come out with accusatory rubbish like that?

Never mind telling other people what to do, wind your own neck in you charmless individual.

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:58

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 08:42

A rhetorical question to make statement. That’s the point

Only when there is one.

Willyoujustbequiet · 21/04/2024 08:59

queenofcruises · 20/04/2024 16:45

how are you accessing this forum out of curiosity? what are you using? so for example i am sat at home on my mac book using my full fiber internet connection?

you are either on a PC, LAPTOP or SMART PHONE. you won't be in a public place because you'd have to pay for that and you can't afford it.

i smell a rat

You need internet access to claim benefits and log into UC.

Because its a requirement many providers have a social tariff so it's free or substantially reduced cost.

Beezknees · 21/04/2024 09:00

Latenightanxiety · 21/04/2024 08:18

Why don’t they just get them helping in the community? Not full time but equivalent to their benefits and their physical abilities. Cleaning grafity, litter picking, befriending the elderly. Then those who can work are gaining skills and credentials too do they actually have something to put on their cv or talk about in interviews.
I know they tried something similar many years ago but they tried to make it too many hours (way more than minimum wage) and it also saw companies like Asda benefiting from free labour rather than community/charity projects.

Because if those jobs need doing, pay people a proper wage to do them!

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 09:01

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:58

Only when there is one.

So you don’t agree with my statement that there would be no difference with the Labour Party in charge?
Odd because that’s exactly what you wrote earlier. Interesting

T1Dmama · 21/04/2024 09:02

It will increase mental health, increase poverty, and probably crime too yes.
a lot of people signed off sick are people who physically just can’t work anymore and the change in benefits won’t change that, they’ll just be off sick and without benefits and living in poverty… getting sick or depressed and ending up in hospital or dead!
I absolutely hate our current priminister who sits in his mansion with his millions of pounds judging the working the class and considering us all lazy

Nospecialcharactersplease · 21/04/2024 09:04

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 08:38

And what exactly do you think addiction is driven by, a sense of adventure??

Addiction is very often driven by poverty, of course. Powerlessness and low self worth make people vulnerable to drug taking. I never said otherwise - do you have comprehension problems, or did you intentionally misconstrue my point?

The fact remains that a decline in shoplifting rates during the pandemic was likely due to multiple causes (not least the fact that many shops were closed and the ones that were open intentionally limited footfall). Not because mums had an extra tenner.

everydaywonderful · 21/04/2024 09:07

Latenightanxiety · 21/04/2024 08:18

Why don’t they just get them helping in the community? Not full time but equivalent to their benefits and their physical abilities. Cleaning grafity, litter picking, befriending the elderly. Then those who can work are gaining skills and credentials too do they actually have something to put on their cv or talk about in interviews.
I know they tried something similar many years ago but they tried to make it too many hours (way more than minimum wage) and it also saw companies like Asda benefiting from free labour rather than community/charity projects.

because this takes away paid work from others

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srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 09:07

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 09:01

So you don’t agree with my statement that there would be no difference with the Labour Party in charge?
Odd because that’s exactly what you wrote earlier. Interesting

I don’t agree with your pointless assumption, by disingenuous rhetoric, that I support Labour.

So I told you so…and you evidently don’t like being wrong.

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 09:16

Nospecialcharactersplease · 21/04/2024 09:04

Addiction is very often driven by poverty, of course. Powerlessness and low self worth make people vulnerable to drug taking. I never said otherwise - do you have comprehension problems, or did you intentionally misconstrue my point?

The fact remains that a decline in shoplifting rates during the pandemic was likely due to multiple causes (not least the fact that many shops were closed and the ones that were open intentionally limited footfall). Not because mums had an extra tenner.

“If you look at people convicted of shoplifting in the magistrates courts, it’s nearly always driven by addiction, not poverty”.

“Addiction is very often driven by poverty, of course. Powerlessness and low self worth make people vulnerable to drug taking. I never said otherwise”

Do you have problems comprehending your own self-contradictions or just the fact that you can’t insult your way out of being called out on them?

Solgrass · 21/04/2024 09:22

srailfonaidraug · 21/04/2024 09:07

I don’t agree with your pointless assumption, by disingenuous rhetoric, that I support Labour.

So I told you so…and you evidently don’t like being wrong.

That doesn’t even make sense.

quote:’ Starmer’s Labour are nothing more than the Tory puppet masters’ backup plan.’

Thats what you wrote.

So my statement that it would be no different under Labour was correct wasn't it? unless you genuinely think that Labour will abandon this policy?