'Where was my invite?' is rude and aggressive

[Wearygirl]

I hate it when you are in a group chat online or in person and someone mentions they've been somewhere and someone else 'jokingly' says 'where was my invite'
I think its so rude and aggressive and there's no answer to it. It makes the person being asked so uncomfortable and awkward.

I have 2 different friends who use this line all the time and it drives me mad (maybe also because neither of them ever suggest or organise anything)

An excellent reply when you don't know how to reply 😀

I agree it's (generally) lighthearted as opposed to aggressive / rude,

BUT I still hate it.

The what time shall I come over? "joke"....like, what's the reply to that?

Other than an awkward "haha", I never know what to say to those jokes.

There's lots of lazy "jokes" like that that just make me feel awkward cos they just kind of stop the conversation....can't think of any of the others off the top of my head

I'd tell her that's why she doesn't get invited

I've never seen it before but I'm pretty sure it's an oyster

I think laughing is an appropriate response to someone's joke.

There's nothing awkward about that.

I've only heard this as a joke when it's clear it's not their thing, like my nan saying it about me going clubbing back in the day. If you used it not as a joke I'd think there's something wrong like very insecure.

And as I used to say either it's not for you or I don't know its not my party.

@Josette77 but I don't find it funny. That's the point. So it is awkward.