It diminishes a violent act that is so awful for the victims. It is rape.
If someone is behaving in a way that appears it might lead to rape then they are potential abusers or appearing capable of assault. They are not yet rapists.
Remember when Kiddy fiddler was used to discuss sexual abuse of children? That was insulting too.
If you use the word, why?
I suppose my AIBU question is am I over reacting but tbh I feel what I do and if you disagree that is fine too. I'm seeing it used more and more on here.
AIBU?
Why are people using the made up word rapey?
BirthdayRainbow · 16/04/2024 21:39
Am I being unreasonable?
397 votes. Final results.
POLLZanatdy · 16/04/2024 21:49
Not heard anyone say it but if they are totally agree with you. It’s rape. End of
BirthdayRainbow · 16/04/2024 21:53
It makes it sound cutesy @GrumpyOldCrone like the term kiddy fiddler. Kiddy is a lovely word to describe a small child. As soon as you make it KF it is a contradiction in terms.
WonderfulUsername · 16/04/2024 21:55
No it's not 'end of'. I think that's the whole point of the word.
I've never heard anyone describe an actual rapist as 'rapey', just very questionable sexual behaviour that makes one think they could end up as one eventually.
Zanatdy · 16/04/2024 21:49
Not heard anyone say it but if they are totally agree with you. It’s rape. End of
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