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To ask how into 'stuff' are you?

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Missmarple87 · 15/04/2024 15:18

Seems like a weird question and I'm asking from an impartial position because I find it so intriguing! I suppose I'm also asking because how much we should spend Vs save is a point of discussion in my marriage 😉 .

At a party at the weekend of people all in professional jobs and with decent amounts of disposable income (I know you can't know about people's finances, really, but it's clear most have some cash left over at the end of the month). From conversation it was clear that some really liked 'stuff', ranging from the latest tech to fashion to interiors stuff to cars etc. and that acquisition was important to them. Others clearly weren't into at all - completely genuinely just not bothered (old phones, old cars, old clothes). Others weren't into it as a point of pride e.g. my old car, despite being able to afford a new one, is a status symbol in itself.

Where do you stand on this?

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FourLeggedBuckers · 16/04/2024 13:18

In that case, I must be absolutely minted. Probably titled too…

Either that or I’m just feral…

RaraRachael · 16/04/2024 13:45

I'm not interested in stuff. We have a big enough house, decent car and money in the bank. Since I've retired, I spend nothing on clothes. I get my hair done every 6 weeks and go for a massage the same. Those are really my only treats.
I see people posing in photos with certain branded bags and tbh I've no idea what any of them are.

I am definitely in the minority where I live as it's very "Look at me" and materialistic.

Peonies12 · 16/04/2024 15:06

I prefer spending money on experiences. You won’t remember stuff in your last moments. And I’m very mindful of how we treat the planet.

Janetime · 16/04/2024 15:59

Peonies12 · 16/04/2024 15:06

I prefer spending money on experiences. You won’t remember stuff in your last moments. And I’m very mindful of how we treat the planet.

what experiences are you doing that are so major you will think of them in your last moments?

daffodilandtulip · 16/04/2024 16:12

Depends which stuff. I hate clutter in the house but I like nice useful things - a certain crockery brand, a nice mug, a nice candle, flowers, quality bed linen - things that serve a purpose and make you feel nice. I like nice clothes and decent shoes but buy classic stuff that I keep for years, not fast fashion. Buying a book makes me happier than reading on a kindle. I've got more disposable income than I used to have, but I haven't really changed my buying habits.

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