I travelled to another city yesterday and had booked a hotel. Saw a friend early afternoon for some shopping. Then I met up with someone I'd been speaking to on a dating app.
She was larger than her photos showed. Fine, not a dealbreaker in itself.
We went to the bar. I got a GnT. She ordered a double rum straight up and a pint of "the strongest lager you have".
We had another round of the same.
I was already feeling off however on the way to hotel (to drop some stuff and go straight back out) she bought a bottle of wine (to avoid having to pay for drinks in bars).
At the hotel she poured a large glass of wine into a tumbler and topped it up with red bull 😧.
She then tried to convince me not to out but to stay in the hotel room for the rest of the evening.
At this point I told her I was very uncomfortable with her drinking and that we were clearly on very different pages and I didn't want the date to continue.
I tried to be supportive and give her the chance to talk about her (obvious) issues but she just kept shaking her head.
She left. I offered to call her a taxi but she declined.
I went out and this morning saw that I had 3 missed calls and 19 whatsapp messages from her.
It wasn't nerves btw as she herself said she didn't view it as a first date but rather us "finally meeting" after a few months of chatting.
She seemed very normal before yesterday. Very intelligent with a professional job etc.
WIBU?