The Cass Review into child’s gender services is out. For those of us who have been following this for years, it really is a No Shit Sherlock moment. All of our beliefs and fears for what is happening to vulnerable children (mainly autistic, traumatised or same-sex attracted girls) is set out in black and white.
https://cass.independent-review.uk/home/publications/final-report/
So,
Every doctor, psychologist and therapist who ignored evidence and went along with this medical scandal and who set a child on the path of no return to future infertility, osteoporosis, increased heart disease and dementia risk, lower IQ and foreshortened life span;
Every school counsellor who felt they were Rosa Parks, whispering secrets to vulnerable kids and damaging the parent-child relationship;
Every teacher who adopted gender ideology and actively poured poison into their student’s ears;
Every teacher who shut down a student who wasn’t toeing the party line;
Every teacher who made girls feel ashamed for not being happy about sharing toilets with boys;
Every social worker who damaged the parent-child relationship and threatened parents with consequences for not affirming their child’s trans identity;
Every child’s friend’s “cool” parent who claimed their home was a sanctuary from the child’s bigoted parents;
Every autism organisation staff member or volunteer who swallowed the nonsense whole and damaged a generation of autistic girls;
Every person who cut off friends when they raised concerns about trans ideology and kids;
Every Facebook group moderator who blocked members raising the mildest questioning of gender ideology, then out up the sickening virtue signalling post about “no hate allowed”;
Every single person who chanted “protect trans kids” without knowing a single thing about the issues;
Every sports coach who allowed boys into the girl’s teams and berated objecting parents and girls as bigots;
Every separated parent going along with the child’s trans nonsense to get back at the other parent.;
Everyone who has ever donated to Mermaids;
Every single person who blindly believed that a parent’s doubts about transitioning their child were based on transphobia and bigotry, not love and concern;
Everyone who has ever told a child that society hates them because of their trans identity;
Every parent who didn’t do their due diligence and happily went along with their child and who enjoyed the attention of having a trans child;
Every politician (pretty much all of them) who decided to ride this one out, even though they could see the harm occurring in real time
This disaster, ruining the lives of a generation of children, is on you.
AIBU?
Have you damaged the life of a child?
LargeSquareRock · 10/04/2024 03:24
Final Report – Cass Review
https://cass.independent-review.uk/home/publications/final-report/
Am I being unreasonable?
1148 votes. Final results.
POLLGuavafish1 · 10/04/2024 03:58
I'm not sure you can conclude all that from the report.
PineappleTime · 10/04/2024 04:07
Have you read the report?
Guavafish1 · 10/04/2024 03:58
I'm not sure you can conclude all that from the report.
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 04:37
Can this be moved to the GC feminism board?
Hoplittlebunnyhophophopandstop · 10/04/2024 04:34
I’m a proud TERF but OP your post is hyperbole and is the exact thing the report says has made this issue more difficult to explore. We need to drop the need to win or be ‘on the right side of history’ and look at ways to move forward in a way that doesn’t alienate people.
Lougle · 10/04/2024 04:42
I think that's a bit harsh. Most people are doing their best with the information they have. Hopefully, most people will adjust their views once the report is more widely known about.
I'm fiercely GC but to suggest that all of those groups of people were willfully damaging children is unfair. They were just trying to support them, without the knowledge that they were harming them.
Guavafish1 · 10/04/2024 04:58
I can't imagine they would prescribe puberty blockers without discussing the effects on the child first.
LargeSquareRock · 10/04/2024 04:43
Why? There are threads there already analysing Cass.
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 04:37
Can this be moved to the GC feminism board?
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 05:03
In that case why did you feel the need to start one on aibu?
Trans topics don't need to be everywhere on MN.
LargeSquareRock · 10/04/2024 04:43
Why? There are threads there already analysing Cass.
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 04:37
Can this be moved to the GC feminism board?
Guavafish1 · 10/04/2024 05:15
They would have explained the side effects of the drug, relative to the effects on adults and other conditions.
They will receive puberty blockers in clinical trial capacity now.
LargeSquareRock · 10/04/2024 05:10
Topics about the massive failures in safeguarding children belong everywhere.
If you get butthurt about it, scroll on.
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 05:03
In that case why did you feel the need to start one on aibu?
Trans topics don't need to be everywhere on MN.
LargeSquareRock · 10/04/2024 04:43
Why? There are threads there already analysing Cass.
Josette77 · 10/04/2024 04:37
Can this be moved to the GC feminism board?
Guavafish1 · 10/04/2024 05:56
I do believe they can, especially as the data is limited in this field.
RecycleMePlease · 10/04/2024 06:09
They would have explained the side effects of the drug, relative to the effects on adults and other conditions.
When I was a child, being very short, I went to my GP (with an adult) to explore any options.
I came >< this close to taking hormones to increase my height. All they did was give me and my parents a leaflet on them. There was no sitting down and discussing (and no internet at the time). I read the leaflet. Decided being short was better than the common side-effects.
Or in pregnancy, being obese, the consultant wanted to prescribe me aspirin. Again, just gave me a leaflet and told me to take them. I read the leaflet, did my research, decided that in my case it wasn't the right plan to take the aspirin.
If you think doctors take the time to sit down and walk people through the side -effects - of basic or complicated drugs, then I'd suggest that you've either been lucky with your HCPs, or haven't ever been on them.
MultiplaLight · 10/04/2024 06:21
Most of those on my list are professionals who should be up to date in child development and safeguarding.
Teachers had no guidance. Literally none. You've seen what happened to teachers who openly disagreed with transitioning students.
Your list unfairly apportions blame. It is rude and unhelpful. It will get people's backs up and further divide within the GC movement.
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