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To actually hate people who say bought instead of brought

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GentleButter · 08/04/2024 21:41

Why?
WHY DO PEOPLE SAY BOUGHT WHEN THEY SHOULD SAY BROUGHT?
It's unbearable.
I cannot bear it when someone says it.
I'm polite, so I have to use every muscle in my throat and mouth to stop myself from screaming "But you didn't BUY it! So WHY are you saying BOUGHT????"
It happens constantly.
I was in a meeting at work. Someone said "Yes, I bought this issue up the other day" internally, I screamed "But you didn't BUY this issue, so WTF are you saying you BOUGHT it?".
This goes on and on all around me.
Worst of all, my own husband says it, which is insufferable. No amount of me correcting him will make him understand the nonsense of saying 'bought' when he should say 'brought'. And he went to private school, so he was well educated and he still can't get it right. There's no excuse.

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Judd · 08/04/2024 22:19

ThereIsIron · 08/04/2024 22:10

What did the other meeting attendees say when you screamed?

The OP says she screamed internally so the other meeting attendees were unaware of this.

Zebresia25 · 08/04/2024 22:20

HundredMilesAnHour · 08/04/2024 21:47

Almost as bad as people who seem incapable of understanding the difference between borrow and lend.

“Can you borry me a drill?” (or similar) when I lived in London 😱

BettyShagter · 08/04/2024 22:20

Berlinlover · 08/04/2024 22:12

I’ll ignore your bad grammar then.

That's the spirit!

You're learning to act like an adult on the internet 😁

abracadabra1980 · 08/04/2024 22:21

I have never heard anyone say this. Sometimes it can be because they have misheard a word when young and it has not been heard or spoken, very often, therefore nobody corrects them. My ExH mispronounced the word chimney as chimley until he was corrected at 21, purely because he'd misheard it.

scruffydogstinks · 08/04/2024 22:21

People who say 'less' when they mean 'fewer'.

Also people who say everythink instead of everything.

Also people who use double negatives not even thinking about the logic of what they're saying. For example saying "I didn't do nothing" when they actually mean "I didn't do anything".

Jitterybugs · 08/04/2024 22:21

You should of brung it up at the time . It’s too late to drawer attention to it on here now.

BingoMarieHeeler · 08/04/2024 22:22

Fazed and phased! See that one on here all the time. ‘DH is not phased’ 😵‍💫

LoopyLooooo · 08/04/2024 22:23

happyfishcoco · 08/04/2024 22:12

I can't stand seeing mistakes! But whenever I point them out, people get upset with me.

Don't do it then unless they've asked you to mark their work.

Kta7 · 08/04/2024 22:23

GentleButter · 08/04/2024 22:12

Why do you struggle??

Present tense: Buy
Past tense: Bought

Present tense: Bring
Past tense: Brought

It hurts my head that people get this confused.

It's
So
Easy.

Oh for crying out loud - we all have different strengths, surely that’s not a tricky concept to grasp?

Berlinlover · 08/04/2024 22:23

BettyShagter · 08/04/2024 22:20

That's the spirit!

You're learning to act like an adult on the internet 😁

My post clearly went over your head.

GentleButter · 08/04/2024 22:23

LaCerbiatta · 08/04/2024 22:15

All of these, but lately people being unable to turn a word plural without using an apostrophe drives me mad. How??

"My daughter did her GCSE's." Her GCSE's what???? Why do people not know how to pluralise a word?? Is it not the most basic thing??

Oh God this is so true.
I see this all the time too!
I work in a professional setting and there are signs up at work saying "This way to the toilet's". I feel like writing across it "The toilet's what?" And another sign saying "In case of emergency's". When I saw this I lost the will to live. Never mind the emergency. Just spell the bloody word correctly.
I see it all the time outside of work to. An apostrophe instead of a pleural spelling.
What is going on with these people?

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BingoMarieHeeler · 08/04/2024 22:24

IBegYourBiggestPardon · 08/04/2024 22:08

I always struggle with the 2 so try to find ways around not having to use bought/brought

Brought as in bring. So just remember the R.

Bought for buy.

BettyShagter · 08/04/2024 22:25

Berlinlover · 08/04/2024 22:23

My post clearly went over your head.

Yes, let's pretend it did.

Either way, ignoring poor spelling and grammar by strangers on the internet (unless you genuinely can't understand them), is the adult thing to do.

GentleButter · 08/04/2024 22:26

YeahComeOnThen · 08/04/2024 22:14

@GentleButter

it grates, it's annoying...
but HATE? That's a bit strong.

Teach your DH the ditty. Start planning the new patio !!

Yes.
Hate.

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annieloulou · 08/04/2024 22:27

Prolly instead of probably.

I done them letters instead of I’ve done those letters (hospital admin office).

It learns them instead of it taught them.

MummaMummaJumma · 08/04/2024 22:27

I hope everyone’s proofing their posts. The hunters are out tonight 👀🍿🍿

BingoMarieHeeler · 08/04/2024 22:27

Also ‘textses’ instead of ‘texts’. Hear that one all the time.

My boss used to say ‘generally’ instead of ‘genuinely’.

StormySpanielz · 08/04/2024 22:28

ThursdayTomorrow · 08/04/2024 21:44

Present and presant
Affect and effect

Presant?

I’m really hoping this is some genius response to the tedious predictability of this thread we have seen many times before.

SoundTheSirens · 08/04/2024 22:29

Reign it in.

No! It’s a phrase from horse riding, not the monarchy.

Fromage · 08/04/2024 22:29

Mostly I notice, and don't care if it's people chatting on the internet etc. As long as you get your meaning across, we all understand what's meant.

But occasionally it drives me mad.

Currently I am going squinty and twitchy eyed about people saying 'apart' when they mean 'part.'

grrrrrr

DuplicateUserName · 08/04/2024 22:29

annieloulou · 08/04/2024 22:27

Prolly instead of probably.

I done them letters instead of I’ve done those letters (hospital admin office).

It learns them instead of it taught them.

My sister got a bottle of shampoo from the vet with 'For the treatment of canine minge' on the label 🤣🤣

Hoping it was just a typo!

fashionqueen1183 · 08/04/2024 22:30

kikisparks · 08/04/2024 21:58

Draw instead of drawers does it for me.

Even worse is people on selling sites selling ‘Chester draws.’

How just how?!

Sobersally · 08/04/2024 22:31

I can’t cope with people saying ‘borrowed’ in the wrong way .. eg ‘he borrowed me a pen’ and ‘can you borrow me a pen?’ Gahhh

Tadpole2 · 08/04/2024 22:32

I noticed two elderly family members saying "corvid" (pronounced as in the crow family of birds), instead of "covid" to refer to the Corona virus at the start of the pandemic. I was too polite to correct them and then the moment passed and they are still pronouncing it corvid. Wish I had corrected 4 years ago.

ScotttCheggg · 08/04/2024 22:35

I hear lots of people saying “generally” when they mean “genuinely”.