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To actually hate people who say bought instead of brought

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GentleButter · 08/04/2024 21:41

Why?
WHY DO PEOPLE SAY BOUGHT WHEN THEY SHOULD SAY BROUGHT?
It's unbearable.
I cannot bear it when someone says it.
I'm polite, so I have to use every muscle in my throat and mouth to stop myself from screaming "But you didn't BUY it! So WHY are you saying BOUGHT????"
It happens constantly.
I was in a meeting at work. Someone said "Yes, I bought this issue up the other day" internally, I screamed "But you didn't BUY this issue, so WTF are you saying you BOUGHT it?".
This goes on and on all around me.
Worst of all, my own husband says it, which is insufferable. No amount of me correcting him will make him understand the nonsense of saying 'bought' when he should say 'brought'. And he went to private school, so he was well educated and he still can't get it right. There's no excuse.

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belleager · 10/04/2024 16:39

ColleenDonaghy · 10/04/2024 15:13

Where's she from? My mum used to jokingly say azoo, azed and possibly azip for zoo, zed (as in the letter) and zip as did my maths teacher. All from Dublin I think it's an old Dub usage?

The world would be poorer without usages like d'azoo

https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowUserReviews-g186605-d189068-r409357814-Phoenix_Park-Dublin_County_Dublin.html

I think younger, media-savvy generations know this applies only to Dublin zoo.

Someone told me about a similar habit in Bristol - a final letter in words like Tesco etc? Was it Tescol's? There is definitely something.

ColleenDonaghy · 10/04/2024 16:41

CloudywMeatballs · 10/04/2024 16:32

We do use both advice and advise in the US. But practice and license are always spelled that way.

Sorry, yes, I meant for practic/se and licenc/se.

OneBadKitty · 10/04/2024 16:47

Skellington! Grr!

MsLuxLisbon · 10/04/2024 16:49

OneBadKitty · 10/04/2024 16:47

Skellington! Grr!

Ha, that's how I pronounced the word skeleton when I was five!

OneBadKitty · 10/04/2024 16:50

MsLuxLisbon · 10/04/2024 16:49

Ha, that's how I pronounced the word skeleton when I was five!

DH says it- it drives me mad and makes him sound thick.

LanaL · 10/04/2024 17:04

I always get these mixed up!

But , I understand how annoying it can be ! For me I get a silly amount of rage when I see people write “collage” instead of “college” or “of” instead of “have “ ( I would of preferred …. ) and probably the most annoying “what” instead of “that” or “which” - like “ I did something what I wouldn’t have done “ or “ he got into the school what he wanted “ …. Urgh I hate it!

GentleButter · 10/04/2024 17:19

Hadjab · 10/04/2024 12:08

Plueral?

I've had pleurisy twice - I wonder what the plural of pleurisy is 🤔

I've already explained this.
Do read the full thread.

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GentleButter · 10/04/2024 17:21

ASighMadeOfStone · 10/04/2024 12:27

It's fun when Muphry gets them, though! As he always does. The OP of this thread has made some absolute shockers.
Almost makes it worth it.
Weird though, isn't it...has to start a thread over bought/brought, yet can't spell "plural" or use commas. Funny old world.

Do read the full thread.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/04/2024 17:21

Plurals that really make me want to correct someone, although I never do:

Baby’s, family’s, party’s, etc. But you then also get people using the plural as a possessive - ‘The babies pram…’. 😩
And
Box’s
Bus’s
Christmas’s
Elf’s

ASighMadeOfStone · 10/04/2024 17:29

GentleButter · 10/04/2024 17:21

Do read the full thread.

Oh, trust me. I have.

Cocorico22 · 10/04/2024 17:36

ColleenDonaghy · 10/04/2024 13:00

Surely they meant ignorant as in rude, which is an accepted meaning?

nah it was very clearly ignoring people = “ignorant” behaviour

either way, could be a regional variation 🤷‍♀️

MoonWoman69 · 10/04/2024 17:45

Can you be more "pacific"... AAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!
No I can't, I'm not the bloody ocean!!! 🤬🤬🤬

TinkerTiger · 10/04/2024 17:46

dickdarstardlymuttley · 09/04/2024 16:55

Where is my dyslexic tribe on here?!

Right? People on this thread are proudly displaying their ableism and ignorance.

Hadjab · 10/04/2024 18:02

GentleButter · 10/04/2024 17:19

I've already explained this.
Do read the full thread.

I read the full thread, doesn’t make it any less wrong…

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 18:41

ThursdayTomorrow · 08/04/2024 21:44

Present and presant
Affect and effect

“That begs the question “ meaning “that prompts the question” instead of the correct usage meaning to anticipate the answer of the question. It’s more often wrongly used than correctly.

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 18:42

MoonWoman69 · 10/04/2024 17:45

Can you be more "pacific"... AAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!
No I can't, I'm not the bloody ocean!!! 🤬🤬🤬

Yes that’s another that sets off my internal intolerant pedant .

Allfur · 10/04/2024 18:43

Presant?

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 18:45

Oh and anti-botticks ( antibiotics)

1stTimeBoyMumx · 10/04/2024 18:57

GentleButter · 08/04/2024 22:23

Oh God this is so true.
I see this all the time too!
I work in a professional setting and there are signs up at work saying "This way to the toilet's". I feel like writing across it "The toilet's what?" And another sign saying "In case of emergency's". When I saw this I lost the will to live. Never mind the emergency. Just spell the bloody word correctly.
I see it all the time outside of work to. An apostrophe instead of a pleural spelling.
What is going on with these people?

@GentleButter you’re on a very high horse for someone who can’t use ‘to’ and ‘too’ correctly 😶

GettingStuffed · 10/04/2024 19:00

MiffedandMiserable · 08/04/2024 22:02

My mum says Peter bread instead of pita bread. Makes me want to claw my ears off.

My DH says that too , totally annoying

myfavouritecolourisnotpink · 10/04/2024 19:00

My DSDs often ask for 'stake' for tea 🤣

Most of these mentioned annoy the hell out of me too...

Will you borrow me? is one of my favourite peeves 🤣 and aaaarg... where, were wear... two, too, and to

However, reading this (for me, extremely funny thread) makes me grateful to have had a good primary school education and to be brought up in a 'well spoken' area so at least when I became a horrid teenager and spoke in 'slang', I still knew how to spell and form sentences correctly (hopefully most of the time anyway)... my DSDs didn't have that luxury and although bright and successful adults now... their sentence structure and SPaG is awful...

I'm good at translating poorly written English as I'm used to it but I do feel I am allowed to have a private scream (or laugh) once in a while! Like another MNs post, if you don't like the thread, buzz off 🤣🤣 😘

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 19:20

1stTimeBoyMumx · 10/04/2024 18:57

@GentleButter you’re on a very high horse for someone who can’t use ‘to’ and ‘too’ correctly 😶

She has hasn’t she ? Which one are you looking at?

StMarieforme · 10/04/2024 19:26

nimski · 08/04/2024 21:43

I have a friend who does it the other way round and says 'I brought this top at the new shop in town' drives me nuts!

Edited

Yes that's the misuse I hear, not the other way around way round!

ColleenDonaghy · 10/04/2024 19:43

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 19:20

She has hasn’t she ? Which one are you looking at?

"I see it all the time outside of work to."

Calliopespa · 10/04/2024 19:47

ColleenDonaghy · 10/04/2024 19:43

"I see it all the time outside of work to."

Oh yes!