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SOxon · 09/04/2024 12:10

WearyAuldWumman · 09/04/2024 01:13

I'm in Scotland. Have never voted Tory in my life.

Theoretically, I get my pension in 3 yrs.

love the moniker, lol, reminds me of my Nan’s self describing, thanks

cardibach · 09/04/2024 12:23

GoodnightAdeline · 09/04/2024 10:54

No because OP is always in the wrong and I go into it with that mindset 😄 most people IRL hold similar views to me.

You know how politics works, right? The people getting the mist votes in each constituency get the seat then if they get the most seats that party governs? So if most people didn’t want the triple lock/decent pensions one of the major parties would probably say they didn’t support it? And yet they don’t…

Everanewbie · 09/04/2024 12:29

Undertherockpool · 09/04/2024 11:21

I think you are trying to reach a false goal when comparing with the state pensions of European counterparts. If you take into consideration that UK companies provided separate pensions to their former employees whereas EU employers paid extra into the state system to boost the pensions of their former employees, UK pensions are on average the same as EU pensions.

By keeping the triple lock the country will ratchet up to the most generous EU state pension of all, despite the UK pensioners And their employers having paid in far less to the state pensions than their EU counterparts. This is where the UK runs out of money.

It isn't my goal, but an apparent goal indirect goal of the government to increase state provision. I am not sure that the lack of private provision on the continent is a reason to suppress SP here in the UK.

I do think that there is a point that a theoretical triple locked SP becomes such a good deal that people stop making private provision as a result. Triple lock will need to go as soon as there is a sniff of that.

My view is that SP should provide survival level provision for those that are, at a population level, unable to work any more due to old age. Luxuries are for those that make provision in their working life, as the sacrifice of delayed gratification ultimately pays dividends. But the problem historically, is that SP hasn't even met survival thresholds given rents, food price inflation and so on and a few years of the uber-generous triple lock is slowly but surely bringing the SP to a reasonable level. But indefinite triple lock will dis-incentivise private provision and become unfair to the working taxpayer.

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 12:34

I really don't think that the triple lock pension is going to deter many people from making private pension provision if they are able to do so. I can't imagine anyone thinking that £221 per week will give them a luxurious standard of living!

SOxon · 09/04/2024 12:59

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 12:34

I really don't think that the triple lock pension is going to deter many people from making private pension provision if they are able to do so. I can't imagine anyone thinking that £221 per week will give them a luxurious standard of living!

£221 is enougn to keep a pensioner ticking over ? for food, utilities, clothing, etc.,

however does not allow for running a car, holidays, treating grandchildren, many
of the now perceived luxuries younger, more able working people take for granted.

It is astonishing how fast savings are eroded or indeed used to supplement a meagre pension.

How are pensioners without a private pension supposed to replace white goods,
carpet, boots, or yearly coach trip, hairdressers, bottle Baileys, birthday presents, etc etc without robbing Peter to pay Paul.

Private pension provision was not always possible, saving hard was the order of
the day for many people of modest means.

Everanewbie · 09/04/2024 13:05

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 12:34

I really don't think that the triple lock pension is going to deter many people from making private pension provision if they are able to do so. I can't imagine anyone thinking that £221 per week will give them a luxurious standard of living!

No, I’m sure it won’t. But the advantageous annual increases which are the best of 3 worlds, might, in time if left unchecked.

MumblesParty · 09/04/2024 13:05

It always makes me laugh when people say "it's not fair, the government give pensioners what they want, because they're the ones who vote".

There is a simple solution to that, for the younger generations.......they could vote too! But no, they prefer not to, because....well actually I have no idea why. I presume the millions of non-voters have a reason. But you can't complain that the people who exercise their democratic right to vote are statistically more likely to get the government they want.

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:06

1dayatatime · 09/04/2024 09:46

@Eventingmum

"The thing is though by increasing the pension they are moving some pensioners into the "tax" bracket as the tax bands haven't increased, so some pensioners will now be paying tax on there pensions, which is appalling."

Why is it appalling that a pensioner with a pension of say £15,000 per year pays tax on the proportion above £12,500 when it's presumably not appalling that a single mother with two young children with a salary of say £15,000 also has to pay income tax on the proportion above £12,500?

Agree, but the injustice is that income thresholds have been frozen, despite inflation running at 11% for quite a while.

Pensioners also have not benefited from NI cuts but have been hit by energy costs as they tend to use more (inside a lot more than working folk) and feel the cold a lot too.

So whilst it s ok that private pensions will be taxed, its not ok that the state pension is, also very inefficient too.

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 13:09

The state pension alone isn't enough to keep us ticking over. Our monthly direct debit for energy is £450 per month, council tax is nearly £300 per month, as well as all the other outgoings, so we will hardly be living in the lap of luxury on our pensions. However, we are fortunate in that we have paid off our mortgage, which was at interest rates which people of the OPs generation have never experienced.

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:10

@aLFIESMA

This thread has left me in tears, when I was young we were proud to think our OAPs would be able to have a nice warm retirement. Meal out once a week, coach trip in the summer and pair of good winter boots

what country have you been living in?

10s of '000s used to die from the cold every winter, still do but a lesser extent.

Pensioner poverty has always been a thing in the UK, meals on wheels first done to try an address it.

The UK makes a thing of talking about how it cares for pensioners (and veterans) whilst doing the exact opposite.

Nicetobenice67 · 09/04/2024 13:11

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:10

@aLFIESMA

This thread has left me in tears, when I was young we were proud to think our OAPs would be able to have a nice warm retirement. Meal out once a week, coach trip in the summer and pair of good winter boots

what country have you been living in?

10s of '000s used to die from the cold every winter, still do but a lesser extent.

Pensioner poverty has always been a thing in the UK, meals on wheels first done to try an address it.

The UK makes a thing of talking about how it cares for pensioners (and veterans) whilst doing the exact opposite.

💯

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:13

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 13:09

The state pension alone isn't enough to keep us ticking over. Our monthly direct debit for energy is £450 per month, council tax is nearly £300 per month, as well as all the other outgoings, so we will hardly be living in the lap of luxury on our pensions. However, we are fortunate in that we have paid off our mortgage, which was at interest rates which people of the OPs generation have never experienced.

Where on earth do you live where CT is £300 per month? or have you a mansion?

Same with energy.

Interest rates? really? i know your generation didn't have the best schooling available but 15% of 50k is many times less than 6% on 350k....

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 13:15

MumblesParty · 09/04/2024 13:05

It always makes me laugh when people say "it's not fair, the government give pensioners what they want, because they're the ones who vote".

There is a simple solution to that, for the younger generations.......they could vote too! But no, they prefer not to, because....well actually I have no idea why. I presume the millions of non-voters have a reason. But you can't complain that the people who exercise their democratic right to vote are statistically more likely to get the government they want.

I agree. I have never missed voting in any General Election, local election, mayoral election, or referendum since I turned 18. I dont believe that anyone who doesn't vote has the right to complain about any government or political decision. Even if you spoil your ballot paper, everyone has a responsibility to at least turn out for an election.

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:21

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 13:15

I agree. I have never missed voting in any General Election, local election, mayoral election, or referendum since I turned 18. I dont believe that anyone who doesn't vote has the right to complain about any government or political decision. Even if you spoil your ballot paper, everyone has a responsibility to at least turn out for an election.

Spoiling your ballot paper has to one of the most dumb ass things anyone could do.
You ve taken the time to go out and vote but then dont....
Its meaningless, not voting has more effect as no party wants to have to justify why they won but on a low turnout.

There are usually plenty of parties from far left n right in between moderates and crazy ones, just go and vote for someone.

Flocke · 09/04/2024 13:24

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:13

Where on earth do you live where CT is £300 per month? or have you a mansion?

Same with energy.

Interest rates? really? i know your generation didn't have the best schooling available but 15% of 50k is many times less than 6% on 350k....

My council tax is 300 a month and I live in a 3 bed detached in a busy Hertfordshire town. It's a big-ish house but definitely not a mansion. 3 beds/2 baths, living room and kitchen/diner and a garage. Small garden.

Jovacknockowitch · 09/04/2024 13:26

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:21

Spoiling your ballot paper has to one of the most dumb ass things anyone could do.
You ve taken the time to go out and vote but then dont....
Its meaningless, not voting has more effect as no party wants to have to justify why they won but on a low turnout.

There are usually plenty of parties from far left n right in between moderates and crazy ones, just go and vote for someone.

Not surer where you live but we usually only have 3 canidates in a general election, two of whom have no hope of getting elected.

SOxon · 09/04/2024 13:28

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:21

Spoiling your ballot paper has to one of the most dumb ass things anyone could do.
You ve taken the time to go out and vote but then dont....
Its meaningless, not voting has more effect as no party wants to have to justify why they won but on a low turnout.

There are usually plenty of parties from far left n right in between moderates and crazy ones, just go and vote for someone.

or as Billy Connolly insists, “don’t vote! it only encourages them!”

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 13:35

We usually only have three candidates in our local elections too, and I think it's still preferable to go to the pollling station and spoil your ballot paper if you really can't bring yourself to vote for any of the candidates than to not bother and then spend the next four or five years moaning about the decisions that are made.

SOxon · 09/04/2024 13:42

JesusMaryAndJosephAndTheWeeDon · 08/04/2024 17:41

The economy of a nation is not like a household budget. That is Thatcherite bollocks just like the trickle down economy.

Paying more to those on benefits and pensions helps the economy because the money is spent in businesses.

The person who gets an increase in their pension can continue buying a cup of tea at the local cafe which helps keep the waitress in work, and the suppliers, and the commercial landlord who owns the premises. The cafe pays business rates to the local authority and corporation tax to the government, as do the suppliers and other linked businesses. The staff pay income tax and don't claim benefits and spend their wages and tips in other businesses.

a good post, reminds me of the horshoe nail -

For want of a nail the shoe was lost
For want of a shoe the horse was lost
For want of a horse the rider was lost
For want of a rider the message was lost
For want of a message the battle was lost
For want of a battle the Kingdom was lost
and all for the want of a horshoe nail

D0v3Gr3y · 09/04/2024 14:15

Vaccances · 09/04/2024 13:13

Where on earth do you live where CT is £300 per month? or have you a mansion?

Same with energy.

Interest rates? really? i know your generation didn't have the best schooling available but 15% of 50k is many times less than 6% on 350k....

Out council tax is £300, many peoples are, it’s pretty standard in our very non be posh area for non mansion houses.

D0v3Gr3y · 09/04/2024 14:19

Not in the South East either.

Growlybear83 · 09/04/2024 14:32

@D0v3Gr3y I live in south London in an average semi. We are in a middle band, nowhere near the top and our borough isn't nearly one of the highest in London. Our house is old and draughty and because we are both home for most of every day, we have the heating on more than some people might do.

I suspect my generation had a rather better standard of education than many people in their 20s and 30s and at least we were taught to show a modicum of respect to others. Perhaps it's also worth bearing in mind that salaries were very much lower than they are today. If you look at mortgage payments in relation to the proportion of people's income, I think things were just as difficult 30 or 40 years ago. At the time we were paying 18% and 16% interest on our mortgage, that was slightly more than 75% of our combined take home salaries, and we had next to nothing left for food, energy, etc. people didn't earn Mumsnet salaries in those days.

Sharptonguedwoman · 09/04/2024 15:36

GoodnightAdeline · 08/04/2024 17:17

My AIBU is that we are not in a financial position to be paying more to pensioners

Thanks. Pensioner here. 37 years of work and 40 of pension contributions. I'd just like to say how much I value your generosity of spirit and kind attitude to those who have worked hard and contributed all their lives. It's not my fault the pensions system works as it does. I do know I need enough money to be able to live without being cold and hungry. I have a neurological condition and am thus disabled, I cannot work any more. Off I pop to the workhouse then.

Sharptonguedwoman · 09/04/2024 15:41

GoodnightAdeline · 08/04/2024 17:43

Why should I sod off? I don’t think those in their 20s or 30s today will get a pension at all thanks to our ever stretched economy.

You need to ask hard questions about where the money is, seriously. We are not a poor country but 5% of the population have trousered millions of pounds for their own benefit. Ask your MP hard questions. Where's the money? Why are people allowed to off-shore their money and not pay tax? Where has the pandemic money gone? Start from there.

D0v3Gr3y · 09/04/2024 15:42

So how are pensioners supposed to afford council tax, utilities, food, clothing etc on a pension that is not keeping up with prices op?

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