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What age would you put this child at?

452 replies

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:04

For writing etc? Any teachers to give feedback would also be very helpful 🙏

What age would you put this child at?
OP posts:
TheYearOfSmallThings · 06/04/2024 12:34

Looks fine for a 5 year old to me.

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/04/2024 12:35

Westfacing · 06/04/2024 12:31

Six? That's a very nice D in Doggie!

It doesn't say Doggie. It says Doggy. What year are you in?

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:35

@MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira Thank
you, do you think I should follow the standard way of writing ( following the national curriculum and the way I was taught) if they reach it differently? They write in a very fancy way, would it confuse her to learn both?

OP posts:
Lulu1919 · 06/04/2024 12:36

Reception
Possibly year 1 if summer birthday

Bellsandthistle · 06/04/2024 12:37

It’s normal for her age. What’s most important imo is that she’s independently using writing to communicate and I wouldn’t want to discourage her from doing that by focusing too heavily on the technicalities. She should enjoy it and want to write for fun.

Onelifeonly · 06/04/2024 12:38

Teacher of many years here. OK for 3 or 4 year old. By 5 most would likely be doing better.

PollyPut · 06/04/2024 12:38

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:35

@MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira Thank
you, do you think I should follow the standard way of writing ( following the national curriculum and the way I was taught) if they reach it differently? They write in a very fancy way, would it confuse her to learn both?

I wouldn't do both.

Our child's school changed systems slightly (I think between year 3 and year 4). It was annoying. Stick with one

Boxerdor · 06/04/2024 12:39

Looks fine for a 5 year old. Formation not quite right but she’s not in the uk so it’s explained

calligraphee · 06/04/2024 12:39

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:31

Hi, thank you everyone, just reading through the replies.
My dc is 5.5, but we’re abroad and she’s in a Pre school, this looks like it accounts for the style of writing? I’ve been reluctant to practise handwriting with her as it’s taught differently where we are and I don’t want to confuse her.
I’ve been reading with her at home, she’s level 4 (Chip & Biff books) does this seem ok?
I’m a little worried she’ll be behind as they don’t start reading where we are until 6, I haven’t been pushing her, just curious if it looks okish for this age?

Worried she will behind what/who?

Does the country you live in have a decent education system that results in plenty of people achieving good outcomes at 16? If so, you can trust their education system.

The UK starts children quite early with formal reading and writing, and achieves nothing additional as a result.

Notmyuser · 06/04/2024 12:39

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:35

@MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira Thank
you, do you think I should follow the standard way of writing ( following the national curriculum and the way I was taught) if they reach it differently? They write in a very fancy way, would it confuse her to learn both?

I wouldn’t practice at home. They go to school to learn. They need the time at home to have fun and relax. Unless they get homework; but tbh I think homework at that age is a joke too. I still don’t always do my 8 year olds homework with her, other times we do the same content but in a different way (for example she’s meant to write her words three times in her jotter, but sometimes we will do them outside with chalk or in shaving foam) and we never read the school reading books because they are boring. Instead, we read books of her choosing at night.

Her teacher is fully supportive - I suspect the teacher only really sets it because she has to!

(I’m a teacher also)

calligraphee · 06/04/2024 12:40

Cbeebiesisdifferentonasaturday · 06/04/2024 12:35

@MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira Thank
you, do you think I should follow the standard way of writing ( following the national curriculum and the way I was taught) if they reach it differently? They write in a very fancy way, would it confuse her to learn both?

Follow the system of the school your child is in.

Onelifeonly · 06/04/2024 12:41

Having seen she's not in school- then it's fine. I was going to add 'if she's been taught well' to my post above but decided not to.

SmallIslander · 06/04/2024 12:42

Similar level to my year 1 child I think. Spelling is getting good but handwriting/spacing has some issues.

He'd definitely draw a dog that looked more like a cat too 🤣

sunnyday98 · 06/04/2024 12:44

legallyblond · 06/04/2024 12:13

Just showed DH who is a primary school teacher. He says if that child is in reception (age 4-5) they’ve not been taught writing the correct / standard way taught in English schools. The letter formation is badly incorrect and they teach correct letter formation from day 1 in reception. He therefore guesses pre school self / incorrectly taught…

It's legible enough, show's enthusiasm for writing and errors can surely be smoothed out. Surely better than never having tried.

MintTwirl · 06/04/2024 12:44

My dc were at this stage at around 6ish(home ed, so it was a natural progression over being taught). What is most important is that she is picking up a pen and enjoying writing.

Capmagturk · 06/04/2024 12:45

Could be anywhere between 4 to 8.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/04/2024 12:45

3 months!

Moonshine5 · 06/04/2024 12:45

3

Remaker · 06/04/2024 12:47

I live in Australia where children generally don’t start school until age 5-6. My children wrote like that in preschool as it followed a very child-led learning style which emphasised children seeing themselves as writers and story tellers rather than teaching letter formation which is more of a copying skill. When my children started school they had no trouble learning proper letter formation, when to use uppercase etc.

mrsDracoMalfoy · 06/04/2024 13:11
  1. Looks familiar to my sons or better. Coz not all kids handwriting gets better with age. Some just don't get the hang of it.
mrsDracoMalfoy · 06/04/2024 13:13

I wrote 8

TheMoth · 06/04/2024 13:40

Based on 'mummy', I'd be thinking 6 or younger.
Based on secondary teaching and parenting, it could be any age from 5-16.

DragonFly98 · 06/04/2024 13:42

TheMoth · 06/04/2024 13:40

Based on 'mummy', I'd be thinking 6 or younger.
Based on secondary teaching and parenting, it could be any age from 5-16.

Really? My 13 year old still calls me mummy.

KitKatChunki · 06/04/2024 13:43

3 or 4? Like the cat.

WearyAuldWumman · 06/04/2024 13:44

The handwriting plus the drawing makes me think 5 or 6 years old, but I'd want to see how they manage with lined paper.

I have seen this standard produced by much older children with learning difficulties. (I work in secondaries.) Drawings can often be a good indicator of ability level.

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