Before my fiancé met me , he had a female friend, who he says he wasn’t in a relationship with and never had feelings for. However, they lived togethor, were intimate, travelled together.
My fiance told me that this woman wasn’t very nice in the relationship. She was very controlling and jealous. He moved out of her place after a few months when she was abroad. When she came back, she came round to his new place and refused to leave. He called the police and they warned her to never come round to his place again.
He tells me that every few weeks she calls him, although the frequency is decreasing. She has told him that she just wants to be friends. He told me he’s told her he doesn’t want to be friends with her and was being harsh with her when she calls.
The last time she called him was around a month ago. He had changed his number a fortnight or so before this and apparently she found the new number as they were on a mutual group chat. He told me she was saying the same thing about wanting to be friends, that it’s nice if they can give eachother help/ advice etc.
He told me that he won’t block her as if he does she will try to contact him on an unknown number. He told me to trust him and let her just call every few weeks and she’ll call less and less.
This situation does me make a little uncomfortable and I can’t deny I have envisaged her turning up at the door one day, trying to stalk me etc.
I suppose I just wanted to get this off my chest. Should I just leave this to my fiancé or tell her I’d rather he block her even if she’ll call him on unknown numbers?