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To be shocked that Derek Draper didn’t qualify for NHS Continuing Healthcare

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Mum1976Mum · 29/03/2024 23:50

Just sat down to watch the latest Kate Garraway documentary. I am absolutely shocked that Derek didn’t qualify for NHS Continuing Healthcare funding as his needs weren’t deemed high enough. This funding isn’t means tested so how much money they have isn’t relevant.

I have some experience of this as we had to claim for my grandad about 8 years ago. He had sarcoma and had to have his leg amputated. He had a prosthesis fitted and was actually pretty active! He could do a lot of things for himself but struggled with self care (showering) and he qualified for the funding.

I honestly thought that, should the worst happen, and someone needed a substantial amount of care that they would qualify. Watching the documentary, Derek needed help with absolutely everything! How on earth did he not qualify?

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MrsGalloway · 30/03/2024 12:14

thecanadianloon · 30/03/2024 10:25

I suspect she got funding because of her life expectancy after the tumour diagnosis. Sorry MrsGalloway, it's a shit system, but although PD is a horribly debilitating disease (or can be) it tends not to kill you, but unfortunately brain tumours (type dependent) do, my guess would be your mum had a glioblastoma (very aggressive). It still sucks though, but that's probably why your mum got funding.

Yes you are right, the terminal disease was when the fast track CHC kicked in. Problem then was that there was nowhere for her to go. Assessed as not suitable for care at home package and then refused by numerous care homes as unable to meet needs because she still had some mobility and her behaviour was challenging. She died after two months in a completely unsuitable hospital environment. As a family we’re still traumatised by it. I complained and got an apology 🤷🏻‍♀️

My point though is that when she had a Parkinson’s dementia diagnosis she met the criteria on that CHC checklist. The person who came to do the assessment seemed determined to argue every point and “down mark” It was the most undignified horrible process. My mum was a teacher she worked hard all her life, she was treated appallingly by this country at the only time she needed help.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 12:22

ruffler45 · 30/03/2024 11:57

Read this to see what the scoring system comes up re eligablity for CHC funding

We tried for my mum but the social worker evaluation went from residential to nursing then back to residential depending on what day of the week they did the assessment and my mum's condition.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/nhs-continuing-healthcare-checklist/nhs-continuing-healthcare-checklist-guidance

DNR can only only be given by the individual or people with LPA. However doctors can act "in the best interests" of the individual in certain circumstances.

Edited

Our local hospital was acting in mums’ best interests by enacting a DNR - she has advanced vascular dementia and the consultant told me, as her LPA, that if she had a stroke or heart attack at this point, her quality of life would be nil. We weren’t asked, we were told that this was what was happening, and I was given the ‘purple slip’ containing the decision to give to GP or paramedics if she was ever in the position where resuscitation was needed. All well and good but when mum was admitted to hospital last year after a fall, a copy of her discharge notes were passed to the care company responsible for her temporary care on leaving hospital. On reading our copy of the notes, they stated ‘for full resuscitation’, which meant that had the situation arisen while carers where in attendance, they would have resuscitated her. It’s sorted now, but it’s scary to think that if I hadn’t spotted it, they would have gone against the DNR and mums’ own advance directive.

Listeningtogold · 30/03/2024 12:28

DM was double incontinent, couldn't talk, walk hardly ate down to less than 5 stone.
Her assessor argued every point. Told she will get better.
Died 10 days later.

Mill heart failure, kidney failure, liver failure, double incontinent couldn't walk.
Different assessor again argued that mil could get well.
Died 2 weeks later.

VickyEadieofThigh · 30/03/2024 12:29

Sweden has much better care in general because they pay miuch higher taxes than we do.

Unfortunately, the vast majority of people in the UK who could pay more tax do not wish to do so. They want the NHS, education and care (including elderly care) paid for by the state but don't seem to realise it would require very large tax increases to pay for it.

CosmosQueen · 30/03/2024 12:30

Tiredalwaystired · 30/03/2024 09:14

The NHS is supposed to be free at the point of need, regardless of your financial means. This is a point of need.

For MEDICAL needs not personal care/social needs.

Outnumbered99 · 30/03/2024 12:34

PaperWalkAndTalk · 30/03/2024 11:53

It's was a sad situation Derek Draper ended up in, but there is a certain amount of irony here with people blaming the Tories and their voters for the lack of funding within the NHS (whether true or not), but here you have someone who had a very prominent position within Labour, has a second home that if sold would cover all of his medical costs, but believes that the tax payer should pay for his care instead of having to sell the second property.

That just sums up politics and how no political party is going to solve this problem.

Kate wasn't talking about the tax payer funding his care, she was asking how most ordinary people are able to function within this system. My son receives CHC, we are in an exteremely different situation to them financially, there IS NO CARE. I am lucky to be able to work a handful of hours per week from home in a flexible role. It would be impossible for me to hold down a job outside of the home in addition to caring. Even when i have a couple of hours care, i often spend it chasing one NHS department or another. Its people like me Kate was asking how do we manage, and the answer is, largely, that we really don't manage all that well. We exist.

Namehascahnged · 30/03/2024 12:36

Chc is about complex unpredictable changing care needs with a medical element.
it does not mean that you have a need for ongoing ie continuing care .
for example a person who has very high - but predictable needs is not likely to get it if it is a managed predictable need.
a patient who as multiple prolems in many of the care domaims they asses it on but is predictable may get it - but it is granted when people have complex AND unpredictable nursing elements - eg such as someone who can lash out , refuse meds whch may impact health care of skin amd many things kike that.its a very high threshold.

penjil · 30/03/2024 12:37

Neverpostagain · 30/03/2024 00:12

I don't know anyone who has qualified for several years. Previously they used to and an appeal was often successful but now we have whole teams of people to make sure no one qualifies quite honestly and another whole team to try and find deliberate deprivation of assets.

😰😰😰😰

Tahinii · 30/03/2024 12:38

Outnumbered99 · 30/03/2024 12:34

Kate wasn't talking about the tax payer funding his care, she was asking how most ordinary people are able to function within this system. My son receives CHC, we are in an exteremely different situation to them financially, there IS NO CARE. I am lucky to be able to work a handful of hours per week from home in a flexible role. It would be impossible for me to hold down a job outside of the home in addition to caring. Even when i have a couple of hours care, i often spend it chasing one NHS department or another. Its people like me Kate was asking how do we manage, and the answer is, largely, that we really don't manage all that well. We exist.

Normal people wouldn’t expect a £16k per month care package. Normal people have the state help them - although it’s never enough. As you rightly point out, many (not all) normal people have family members who sacrifice a huge amount to help their loved one. Normal people accept the care they receive isn’t “gold standard”. It sounds like she was paying for 2 live-in carers at a minimum. That is almost unheard of!

Namehascahnged · 30/03/2024 12:38

Neverpostagain i used to fight that system weekly in chc meeting s .

Namehascahnged · 30/03/2024 12:40

Ps .I dont know the indovidual details of this case .

Boomer55 · 30/03/2024 12:42

the80sweregreat · 30/03/2024 08:44

I know a few people whose parents have set up ' trust funds' years ago in order to safe guard against losing the house to pay for a care home
I'm sure that many savvy people have other ways of getting around it too, especially if they know the right people ( accountants)

Councils are frequently going to court with these sort of set ups, and often winning. I wouldn’t rely on them.

CosmosQueen · 30/03/2024 12:58

bloolagoon · 30/03/2024 12:04

It sounds like they may meet the criteria for social services support. Do they have savings?
My MIL was horrified that they had to self-fund FILs care. They have a huge amount of savings plus pensions, but also a huge amount of self-entitlement!

My father flatly refused to fund my mother’s care or his own so every time a limited care package was started to get one of them out of hospital he’d stop it as soon as they became eligible to pay (plenty of money including Attendance Allowance at higher rate for both of them). So mum would fall and get re admitted and off we’d go again 🤬
I was at my wits end, eventually I threatened to get safeguarding involved.
It wasn’t unusual to come across this in the community; the attitude that someone else is responsible for funding is rife amongst the older generation.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:08

Listeningtogold · 30/03/2024 12:28

DM was double incontinent, couldn't talk, walk hardly ate down to less than 5 stone.
Her assessor argued every point. Told she will get better.
Died 10 days later.

Mill heart failure, kidney failure, liver failure, double incontinent couldn't walk.
Different assessor again argued that mil could get well.
Died 2 weeks later.

Says it all doesn’t it ? And we were told CHC isn’t reliant on a terminal diagnosis - that’s hospice care. It’s supposed to be the assessment of the effect and management of the condition itself, and we found, like yourself, that every point is argued. It’s a nightmare.

penjil · 30/03/2024 13:08

Quatty · 30/03/2024 08:29

They’re wealthy though, so don’t need it?

Well, that's as maybe, but it's not means tested. It's assessed by clinical nursing needs, not care needs.

Proudtobeanortherner · 30/03/2024 13:12

I was appalled. I think it’s time to rethink social care and medical care altogether. If we only funded medical ailments that are illnesses such as long Covid, diabetes, cancer …….and social care fully if you cannot look after you own personal hygiene and/or feed yourself we would probably be in a better place financially and morally. The current situation is unsustainable. The NHS is a bottomless pit for funding (and whether we like it or not some of this is down to inefficiency) which is unsustainable and social care workers provide an essential service on a minimum wage and a zero hours contact which is also appalling. Something is very wrong somewhere and we need to take personal responsibility for sorting it out; our politicians don’t care, Labour or Conservative or any other flavour have no desire to be radical and sort it out.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:12

Boomer55 · 30/03/2024 12:42

Councils are frequently going to court with these sort of set ups, and often winning. I wouldn’t rely on them.

Neither would I. Mum and I own our home 50/50 and I’ve been told that they won’t include it in the financial assessment because I’m over 60 and disabled. They would also assess her half as being worth nothing because you can’t sell half a house. Was told that these are practically the only circumstances in which they disregard the persons’ home. However, if I were to sell up to downsize before mum passed away in care, they would then take whatever fees had been accrued up to that point.

MereDintofPandiculation · 30/03/2024 13:14

Mum1976Mum · 30/03/2024 00:02

I’m absolutely shocked and appalled by these stories. How can people who were bedbound not qualify? It’s an absolute disgrace!

Because being bedbound doesn’t necessarily mean you need daily nursing care.

MrsGalloway · 30/03/2024 13:27

I agree the whole system needs change, there seemed to be some political will to tackle it about 15 years ago but it came to nothing probably because of Brexit and short termism. I seem to remember a proposal where people would pay a lump sum assessed on means on retirement. I remember my parents talking about it positively (and they’d have had to pay a lot) because one of the things they found worrying (as do I) was the uncertainty about what the care you would get would look like and how it would be funded. They’d have preferred to pay a fixed amount for future care which they could budget for and would give peace of mind even if they didn’t ultimately need it.

I think most people accept that you should contribute towards the cost of your care in old age if you can but there does need to be consistency fairness and transparency and also good quality care and carers. Some of the care homes we saw and the standard of care given were shocking, you can see why people baulk at paying £2.500 per week.

milveycrohn · 30/03/2024 13:27

@Babyroobs Babyroobs
"Once savings get below £23250, it become funded or at least partially funded."
And the 23,250 includes the value of your house, so most people with a house would not get funded.
I speak as someone whose DM was in a Care Home for many years. The criteria for CHC was even then very tight, and after some years (as her condition deteriorated) we applied for CDC, which was turned down.
We appealed and eventually it was given.
My DM had demetia, but was also bed bound after a massive stroke, but her care was considered social care rather than health care.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:36

MsJinks · 30/03/2024 11:54

Whilst I have said my mum got chc when she went on EOL the package of 4x calls per day nowhere near covered her needs - for example her oxygen could fall off, her catheter go wrong etc so I moved in - I asked for a respite few hours to attend my own hospital appointment and no way was that ever going to be agreed. To be at home was her wish and at my agreement but the stuff you have to do is not explained or supported adequately.
But the option of leaving her to stay in on the winter ward was equally dire as she still wouldn’t have had necessary care - they had no time to help her eat/drink and my daughter fortunately caught them asking if she wanted a pad check and if she’d been turned - my mum just said to leave her so they did - my daughter suggested they can’t expect her to know what she needs and to check their notes re times to turn but they just brought another nurse who said if she said she was ok then that was that! I did manage to get this sorted but only by one of us being there 24/7 - sleeping on a non recliner chair.
when she was sent home after many errors setting up oxygen and meds we found her cannula was left in and her catheter bag was full - fun on YouTube learning how to empty that!
There is no resource to care adequately across all ages, nor in other areas. I think we will soon have assisted dying legalised and whilst I’m not against that per se I think it will come to be used more widely and less ideally than we like to think about.
One point on lives that it’s not just NHS putting value on - potential attrition rates are assessed across all emergency services against cost - eg how many fire stations are needed. When all are underfunded then this gets more concerning.

I had a similar experience with LA carers for mum. They were supposed to call four times a day - in practice it was three because a lot of the time, they were so late in the mornings that by the time they arrived mum was up, and I’d had to shower her and change the bed because she’s bladder incontinent. On the days they did arrive in time for morning care, half the time they left her unwashed. I only found out after a few weeks that the directive was to ask the patient if they wanted to wash/shower and if they said no, they couldn’t be forced. Mum has dementia, of course she’s going to say she doesn’t need a wash. Apparently they were incapable of recognising that someone who has wet the bed needs more than a wash down with wet wipes.

I stopped the carers after a few weeks and found a private company who sends in two carers every morning - same time every day and mostly the same people, for a full hour. That’s all she actually needs. It’s more expensive, but she gets the full hour we pay for and the care is targeted and excellent. And they don’t sit outside the house for ten minutes before and after each call because they’re GPS tracked !!

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:40

BeaRF75 · 30/03/2024 12:14

Totally this. If we have the money, we shouldn't be expecting taxpayers to cover our bills.

But we also shouldn’t be expected to contribute part of our own funding pot towards funding people who haven’t made their own provision - which is what happens at the moment.

Alexandra2001 · 30/03/2024 13:48

MereDintofPandiculation · 30/03/2024 13:14

Because being bedbound doesn’t necessarily mean you need daily nursing care.

Ha ha to that...

My DD was a carer whilst at Uni, she most certainly had to do medical care, administer drugs, change stomas, bed sore care, fracture care...

... the Govt has moved the goal posts so that medical care is now classed (in the community) as "Social care"

This country is a fucking joke.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:52

Alexandra2001 · 30/03/2024 13:48

Ha ha to that...

My DD was a carer whilst at Uni, she most certainly had to do medical care, administer drugs, change stomas, bed sore care, fracture care...

... the Govt has moved the goal posts so that medical care is now classed (in the community) as "Social care"

This country is a fucking joke.

Wouldn’t disagree with anything you’ve said, but the fact is that just being bed bound won’t qualify you for CHC. You have to have a clinical need. As an example, my relative is bedbound and has daily carers. LA won’t authorise night care, so they put a pad on her during the last call of the day and she’s expected void herself into the pad and then to lie in her own mess until the first carers arrive in the morning. If they’re happy to subject someone bedbound to this indignity, they’re not going to authorise CHC just because they’re stuck in bed.

MrsGalloway · 30/03/2024 13:52

Rosscameasdoody · 30/03/2024 13:40

But we also shouldn’t be expected to contribute part of our own funding pot towards funding people who haven’t made their own provision - which is what happens at the moment.

Agree, it’s all very well to say people with assets should self fund (and I agree to an extent) but there will be consequences. My aunt gifted her pension lump sum to her children on retirement (so well before she could accused of deliberate deprivation of assets) and is currently burning through her remaining capital because she doesn’t see the point of keeping anything for her future care based on what she’s seen happen to her sister and her parents.