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To not understand what this means on our nursery pricing?

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HeadsShouldersTitsandArse · 27/03/2024 16:57

Can someone with more brain cells than me please explain what this means?

Because £12 a day on food, nappies ect seems bloody expensive.. I’m used to £3-£4 a day.

I have two children, I can’t afford £350+ on nappies and food every month.. that’s more than our entire food shop 😂

I’m really starting to sweat😅

To not understand what this means on our nursery pricing?
OP posts:
vanillawaffle · 28/03/2024 05:34

HeadsShouldersTitsandArse · 27/03/2024 22:40

But it’s not just £12 a day for us.

It’s £12 a day, and the standard rate outside of the funded hours. I work full time because I need to to pay our bills, so the kids get their funded hours and then I pay their standard rate for the other hours which means paying roughly £650 standard, plus the £12 a day for two children.

Thats around £1000 on childcare a month. I only get paid £1300. I’m so baffled. Not by the nurseries so much, they have to do what they’ve got to do to stay afloat.

I’m working for £0.53 an hour. But I can’t not, because the £300 puts food on the table.. although with prices rising it will barely even cover that soon.

Look at working 4 days a week? You don't loose as much as you think and you'll save a whole day's childcare.

SpringBunnies · 28/03/2024 05:40

Sorry, but £12 a day is cheap. Breakfast club for £8 and after school for £13. So you likely will pay more for a lot less hours when they are at school.

Powderblue1 · 28/03/2024 06:04

HeadsShouldersTitsandArse · 27/03/2024 17:06

The gov funded rate is £5.62 for 3-4 year olds and £7.95ph for 2year olds.

this is where I’m confused. The funding for 2 year olds is more than they charge as a standard hourly? Am I missing something? 😩

I really can’t wrap my head around all of these figures 😅

That's because the staff member to child ratio is lower for two year olds than three/four year olds so they find it slightly higher to make up the shortfall.

OfficeWoes · 28/03/2024 06:12

Our nursery charges £2 per funded hour for consumables, so for a 10 hour day that’s £20. The cost of unfunded nursery days are now up from £67 a day to £75, as of the start of this scheme. I barely make any money, but I enjoy my job so I’m not leaving, even though I’m spending everything I earn on nursery and commuting, pretty much.

zaffa · 28/03/2024 06:17

YomAsalYomBasal · 27/03/2024 18:30

They're not actually allowed to insist on a contribution, it must be voluntary.

But they can charge for nappies, food and resources so the way that reads is the contribution is not to top up the funded hours it's to pay for the extras.
The funding only covers the actual childcare not any of the extras so it's expected they charge separately for that.

Didimum · 28/03/2024 06:59

HeadsShouldersTitsandArse · 27/03/2024 22:40

But it’s not just £12 a day for us.

It’s £12 a day, and the standard rate outside of the funded hours. I work full time because I need to to pay our bills, so the kids get their funded hours and then I pay their standard rate for the other hours which means paying roughly £650 standard, plus the £12 a day for two children.

Thats around £1000 on childcare a month. I only get paid £1300. I’m so baffled. Not by the nurseries so much, they have to do what they’ve got to do to stay afloat.

I’m working for £0.53 an hour. But I can’t not, because the £300 puts food on the table.. although with prices rising it will barely even cover that soon.

Are you applying tax free childcare saving to that?

FanofLeaves · 28/03/2024 07:05

It’s £76 a day here and that’s the cheaper end, zone 5. Friends in zones 4 are paying £100 a day.

PurpleFlower1983 · 28/03/2024 07:13

It’s a top up fee as the funding doesn’t cover it. It might be worth checking other nurseries locally as they all vary but most have some kind of top up fee.

OfficeWoes · 28/03/2024 07:13

The cause of inflation seems to be Conservative policy ideas which don’t work. This massive jump in nursery costs is surely inflation.

BridetoBee · 28/03/2024 07:16

Your issue here is that you can’t use your funded hours as you need to. My top up charge is similar but we can use our hours for the full days so we’re only paying the top up charge each day. Have you looked around locally to see if there is another nursery that would allow you to use your hours for the full day you need?

Beautiful3 · 28/03/2024 07:30

Quite a few nurseries in my area have closed down due to not making any profit with government funded placed. There is only one childminder in the area, she refuses to.do the "free hours". This is a massive problem, the government do not provide enough funding. Could you reduce your hours, so that you don't have to pay more than £12 per day?

PansyOatZebra · 28/03/2024 08:15

Government funding purely covers the childcare element. So that £12 a day needs to cover everything else including food, nappies, toys, activities etc.

I think the government currently give around £5-£5.50ish for each funded hour. Our nursery is £8.60 an hour so they have a massive shortfall to make up.

I don’t think £12 a day is that bad tbh.

PansyOatZebra · 28/03/2024 08:18

The government calling it “free hours” is purely political. It’s really a contribution of £X towards childcare a year. As such is causes lots of confusion.

PuttingDownRoots · 28/03/2024 08:21

I think you need to ask your nursery for clarity.

You are saying only part if the day is funded.
The pricing suggests the whole day is funded, then £12 on top. Or is it the fee before 9am and after 4pm causing the issue?

Danikm151 · 28/03/2024 08:26

My son’s nursery charges £2 a week for those on funded hours and that goes towards snacks. If a parent doesn’t pay it the child doesn’t go without though as it’s a voluntary contribution.
most of those children are 15 hours a week.
we use stretched funding and all meals are included because we’re still paying the full rate on top of the 22 hours per week. My monthly bill is £595 a month.

Shinyandnew1 · 28/03/2024 08:40

There is only one childminder in the area, she refuses to.do the "free hours".

It’s heading that way around here as well.

Rather like NHS dentistry… you might be entitled to it, but if you can’t actually find one that will accept you, you will have to pay full rate.

TheBeeb · 28/03/2024 08:43

In NI we don't get any of these "funded" hours at all, and we pay the same taxes. Nursery for 3 days a week is costing us £741 a month.

WarshipRocinante · 28/03/2024 08:44

TheBeeb · 28/03/2024 08:43

In NI we don't get any of these "funded" hours at all, and we pay the same taxes. Nursery for 3 days a week is costing us £741 a month.

It’s not a race to the bottom.

vanillawaffle · 28/03/2024 08:46

Could you ask if you can provide packed lunch?

OneMoreTime23 · 28/03/2024 08:49

DragonFly98 · 28/03/2024 00:45

some always comments this and I never understand why. It's household income so the household income is only increasing by £x per hour.

Because the optic that only mum’s income should be considered leads to the male-female pay and pension gap. And that women are going to take time out of work to care for children meaning they don’t get hired/promoted. And that men can just do bath and bedtime and be heroes while women carry the mental load.

This is a massive issue in society that impacts all of us.

OrangeSlices998 · 28/03/2024 08:51

OP do you use tax free childcare?

I think you need to go back to the nursery and ask whether £12 a day is for everyone who uses some funding, or just for those who only attend 9-3 and don’t pay for any nursery hours outwith that.

If your kids are in 50h a week and 30h of that is funded then you should see some benefit to it, or if you’ve spread the hours across the year then half the week is funded.

It feels like the issue is they’re marketed as ‘free’ hours - unless your child only attends 9-3 or go to a school nursery, it’s not going to be free.

MrsElsa · 28/03/2024 08:53

Not sure what planet OP is on to have been paying so little?

I paid 1300 /m until 3yo funding kicked in
Now it's 750/m

SnapdragonToadflax · 28/03/2024 08:57

Yup, this is completely normal. It's not really money for those things specifically, it's just money to pay for everything the nursery needs to stay afloat, because the government aren't actually providing any extra money.

Our nursery fees were more than our mortgage when my son was under 3 (and both were over £1000 per month). We both earn reasonable salaries, and on days I commuted the cost of nursery + train fare was the same as my salary. I think it was £67 per day, four years ago.

Most people, unless very well off, waited until they got free hours before having their second child. Now this racket of a government have made it sound like you'll pay very little towards childcare... but it's bollocks. As you have discovered. It's why lower-paid women so often leave the workforce, often for years because when they start school you'll discover wraparound care isn't as easily available as they make it sound when you look round the school.

Georgethecat1 · 28/03/2024 08:57

What was your plan before the new funded hours were announced? Planning on giving up work or how were you funding the childcare?

How old are your children / when does the oldest start school? If it’s close then it’s worth going back to work even though the income won’t be great just from pensions / keeping yourself in a career long term.

JennyWren87 · 28/03/2024 08:59

Our is £3 a day for the lunchtime hour supervision (packed lunch from home) as the kids are there 8.30-4.30 and one hour a day falls outside the 30h funding. We also pay a "snack money contribution" of £15 per term which imo is ridiculously low. Our nursery even said it's voluntary!! Lord knows how they keep going!