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It's not bloody half term!

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Dotdashdottinghell · 25/03/2024 08:13

Why / when did every school holiday become half term?

The half term holidays are February, Whitsun and October, not Easter, Christmas and thr summer.

People keep saying "Happy half term" or "Enjoy the half term" etc. Why is this an accepted thing?

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Shodan · 25/03/2024 15:08

It irritates me too, but I fear it's a battle that is already halfway-lost.

Like 'lay' instead of 'lie'. Having a lay down, having a lay in ... it's become the norm. I think 'half term' will soon be the usual phrase for all school holidays.

dollybird · 25/03/2024 15:37

DinnaeFashYersel · 25/03/2024 09:39

There's another thread running just now with people outraged that people pronounce the letter 'H' differently 😳

I haven't seen that thread, but I hate that pronouncing the letter H 'haitch' is becoming the norm. It was always 'aitch' to me the other way sounds horrible.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/03/2024 15:39

ClamFandango · 25/03/2024 13:55

Ah but I think the teacher was "correct" in that what this thread is referring to as "half term" used to be called the "half term break" - which occurred at the end of Half Term (which meant the mid-point of a term). That's definitely what we called it at my school in the 80s.

How can that be correct? It’s the “half of term” with a “half term” or “half term break” in the middle.

MissHoollie · 25/03/2024 15:44

In Scotland we do t have half term but we have school holidays
So Feb holidays... October..Easter..summer Xmas

Mama2many73 · 25/03/2024 15:48

Half term is self explanatory . It's half way through a term.
I correct our kids so they understand about the terms etc but if an adult said it I'd probably just think bad things about them!

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 25/03/2024 15:48

I'm not alone!

I think it's laziness e.g. harder to say. Also they refer to each portion as a term so there are 6 terms now when there used to be 3.

Whatthebarnacles · 25/03/2024 15:54

Is it not the same as people saying they're "on holiday" when taking annual leave, but actually aren't going away at all, just having the day off? Or "taking the kids to the swings" when actually it should be referred to the park or playground?
It really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. If anyone corrected me saying half term when it's end of term, I'd 100% be eyerolling at the pettiness level.

Having said all that, I do refer to this particular break as easter holidays, you'll be thrilled to know!

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 25/03/2024 15:56

Annoying. There are only 2 'half terms' usually. One between Christmas holiday and Easter, and one between Summer Holiday and Christmas. The break between Easter and Summer holiday is Whitsun.

Trickabrick · 25/03/2024 15:58

Mnetcurious · 25/03/2024 15:06

The difference is if you’re talking about your hoover, everyone knows what you mean. If eg at the beginning of March you told someone you’re going to Cornwall in half term they may reasonably assume you mean the May half term (because that’s the next holiday that’s actually half way through the term) when what you actually meant was the Easter holidays. But you said half term, which lead to confusion.

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I’d say in the majority of cases, they know I’m referring to the upcoming school holiday. If I meant one further on in the year, I’d say “May half term” etc.

RhubarbAndGingerCheesecake · 25/03/2024 16:00

Mnk711 · 25/03/2024 12:38

And the amount of people on this thread saying it is fine to call it half term is why the dictionary now notes that the use of the term 'literally' can also mean figuratively (the opposite of its actual meaning).

There's a whole slew of them.

Nonplussed caught me out last week. I thought meant confused/gone out /not sure how to react - Dh recently used to mean unfazed - taking it in their stride. Led to a very confused cross purpose conversation till I asked him what he'd meant.

On-line dictionary
nonplussed
/nɒnˈplʌst/

adjective

  1. 1.so surprised and confused that one is unsure how to react."Henry looked completely nonplussed" Similar 5.confuse,bewildered, bemused, puzzled,perplexed,baffled, stumped,mystified, stupefied, muddled, befuddled, fuddled, dumbfounded,at sea,at a loss, at sixes and sevens,thrown (off balance),taken aback, disoriented, disconcerted, discomposed ,troubled etc

2.INFORMAL•NORTH AMERICAN
not disconcerted; unperturbed.
"I remember students being nonplussed about the flooding in the city, as they had become accustomed to it over the years"

We are both UK British but DH was adamant I was wrong and it had always meant the second - he watches' a lot of american you tubers so I think he's picked it up there - were as I read a lot - often British often classics. Ironically he was driven to complaints about staycation meaning changing form staying at home and doing day trips to be UK holidays by media.

I did think teachers and school staff had started referring to it as half term break - as pretty sure that's where my DC are picking up the usage.

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RenegadeMrs · 25/03/2024 16:00

I do this sometimes. My brain is over full with juggling stuff that actually matters, I don't care if I'm technically correct or not when trying make polite small talk with you! Sorry it bothers you, glad you have the mental energy to care what break it is. You probably know what I mean anyway, which is good enough.

Deathraystare · 25/03/2024 16:00

@Youdontevengohere

Well you would think so but there are always some out of school for holidays!!

My friend actually has a son and moans more than me when they are around out of school when they should be in school!!

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 25/03/2024 16:00

Whatthebarnacles · 25/03/2024 15:54

Is it not the same as people saying they're "on holiday" when taking annual leave, but actually aren't going away at all, just having the day off? Or "taking the kids to the swings" when actually it should be referred to the park or playground?
It really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. If anyone corrected me saying half term when it's end of term, I'd 100% be eyerolling at the pettiness level.

Having said all that, I do refer to this particular break as easter holidays, you'll be thrilled to know!

Well if there are swings then that is fine; if it’s a playground without swings then that is not right.

The on holiday thing is a hard one as you are on holiday from work but not actually on holiday.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 25/03/2024 16:02

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 25/03/2024 15:56

Annoying. There are only 2 'half terms' usually. One between Christmas holiday and Easter, and one between Summer Holiday and Christmas. The break between Easter and Summer holiday is Whitsun.

Nope that is also half terms. Whitsun is generally not in half term (it used to be).

pistachioicecream · 25/03/2024 16:06

ImAlwaysknackered · 25/03/2024 08:22

Does anyone really get annoyed by this? It’s so trivial.

I don't know how anyone can NOT be annoyed by it.

It's factually inaccurate and so bizarre that it's become an accepted turn of phrase.

Half term quite literally means - half way through the term.

The Christmas, Easter and Summer holidays are the holidays at the end of each term.

It's really not a difficult concept to understand.

Youdontevengohere · 25/03/2024 16:15

Deathraystare · 25/03/2024 16:00

@Youdontevengohere

Well you would think so but there are always some out of school for holidays!!

My friend actually has a son and moans more than me when they are around out of school when they should be in school!!

There isn’t though. They’re all at school for 39 weeks! Not all schools overlap, but most do.

peakygold · 25/03/2024 16:19

Oh, to be a teacher.....

MasterBeth · 25/03/2024 16:20

I have never heard anyone refer to Easter, Christmas or summer holidays as half term and, if I did, I would just assume they'd made a mistake.

Are we sure that anyone is using it deliberately? It sounds daft to my ears.

SecondHandFurniture · 25/03/2024 16:23

Loads of people do it here (SW) to mean "school holidays" and it actually does cause confusion. We are going to Spain in May Half Term and someone at work thought I meant I was going in the next fortnight.

smithsgj · 25/03/2024 16:23

I've just ploughed through the thread and I think it's a conspiracy. Nobody can seriously call Easter "half-term" wtf.

Worse still is some plonker up thread who thinks maths is the plural form of math lmao

Sillypede · 25/03/2024 16:23

madeinmanc · 25/03/2024 08:57

It's definitely to avoid saying Easter which, and I say this as a non-Christian, is not a good thing.

We managed to cope with Holy Days being replaced with the word holidays in the 1500s, I'm sure we'll survive.

Madamlulu · 25/03/2024 16:24

Dotdashdottinghell · 25/03/2024 08:13

Why / when did every school holiday become half term?

The half term holidays are February, Whitsun and October, not Easter, Christmas and thr summer.

People keep saying "Happy half term" or "Enjoy the half term" etc. Why is this an accepted thing?

Omg this is so annoying I agree l!!!

Mnetcurious · 25/03/2024 16:29

smithsgj · 25/03/2024 16:23

I've just ploughed through the thread and I think it's a conspiracy. Nobody can seriously call Easter "half-term" wtf.

Worse still is some plonker up thread who thinks maths is the plural form of math lmao

One look at my local mums’ fb page or the school year WhatsApp group and you’ll see there are plenty of people referring to the upcoming school holidays (ie Easter) as half term. “Can anyone recommend days out for half term next week“ etc etc

Trickabrick · 25/03/2024 16:34

pistachioicecream · 25/03/2024 16:06

I don't know how anyone can NOT be annoyed by it.

It's factually inaccurate and so bizarre that it's become an accepted turn of phrase.

Half term quite literally means - half way through the term.

The Christmas, Easter and Summer holidays are the holidays at the end of each term.

It's really not a difficult concept to understand.

I totally understand the concept, fear not. I just don’t care enough to be as accurate as others would like, it’s just shorthand I use for “a school holiday that isn’t the six weeks in the summer”. And now that I know it annoys so many people, I’m really not minded to change my approach but then I really try not to sweat the small stuff 😂

CharlotteBog · 25/03/2024 17:12

Trickabrick · 25/03/2024 16:34

I totally understand the concept, fear not. I just don’t care enough to be as accurate as others would like, it’s just shorthand I use for “a school holiday that isn’t the six weeks in the summer”. And now that I know it annoys so many people, I’m really not minded to change my approach but then I really try not to sweat the small stuff 😂

1/2 term isn't a concept, it's a fact. It has been used to define the break around the middle of a school term likely since forever that break has occurred.

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