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It's not bloody half term!

369 replies

Dotdashdottinghell · 25/03/2024 08:13

Why / when did every school holiday become half term?

The half term holidays are February, Whitsun and October, not Easter, Christmas and thr summer.

People keep saying "Happy half term" or "Enjoy the half term" etc. Why is this an accepted thing?

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CharlotteBog · 25/03/2024 17:12

Mnetcurious · 25/03/2024 16:29

One look at my local mums’ fb page or the school year WhatsApp group and you’ll see there are plenty of people referring to the upcoming school holidays (ie Easter) as half term. “Can anyone recommend days out for half term next week“ etc etc

Well I hope you have unfriended every single one of them. 😜

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:14

My kids have just left school. This thread has blown my mind. People call all school holidays half-term now?? How weird. It is simply incorrect. I need to go and lie down now.

Quanked · 25/03/2024 17:17

This enrages me too. Dd says it and I correct her every time. She’s not taking the hint though

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:17

MrsMiddleMother · 25/03/2024 10:24

This is honest such a non issue! I'm one of these annoying people who call every school break 'half term'. My husband is always correcting me, 'it's Easter holiday' etc but who cares, it's not that deep. Everyone knows what I mean.

You may not care but I think it makes people sound unintelligent.

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:19

TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyHusband · 25/03/2024 11:05

You all need to get hobbies if this is the type of thing you're losing sleep over.

Can you show me where people said they are actually losing sleep over this? I must have missed it. I have seen posters express irritation but not insomnia.

MargaretThursday · 25/03/2024 17:32

tigger1001 · 25/03/2024 08:27

Am in east coast of Scotland and same here - never referred to holidays as term at all. Easter holidays are coming up, summer holidays, October or tattie holidays and Christmas. Feb break and November weekend etc.

Nowhere near Scotland and only have heard it a couple of times off MN.
It seems to be a recent thing too.

potato57 · 25/03/2024 17:35

I don't have kids and I don't care what they're called. I call them all half term or school holidays, whichever my brain happens to go to at the time. Everywhere is so busy and holidays away are expensive during all those weeks, so it's all the same to us. Avoid everything until it all goes back to normal again.

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 17:40

Imagine having a life so good, that this is the only thing on you’re mind.

What's it like?

HAPPY HALF TERM BESTIES.

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 25/03/2024 17:41

I've never heard of that, it must be regional ie where you live. In London, these hols as still called 'Easter Hols" - The majority of kids are still at school and are off from Friday, GOOD Friday.

PeaceandCakes · 25/03/2024 17:42

Dotdashdottinghell · 25/03/2024 08:13

Why / when did every school holiday become half term?

The half term holidays are February, Whitsun and October, not Easter, Christmas and thr summer.

People keep saying "Happy half term" or "Enjoy the half term" etc. Why is this an accepted thing?

I've never heard anyone say half term.

It's all 'Easter hols'.

BustopherPonsonbyJones · 25/03/2024 17:42

peakygold · 25/03/2024 16:19

Oh, to be a teacher.....

We’ll take you. We’ll take anyone. But you might regret it.

43ontherocksporfavor · 25/03/2024 17:49

Well it’s neither . Still at school here!

43ontherocksporfavor · 25/03/2024 17:50

Anyway, what difference does it make to you? It’s just the first thing that trips off the tongue for most people and they haven’t given it much thought. Relax!

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:54

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 17:40

Imagine having a life so good, that this is the only thing on you’re mind.

What's it like?

HAPPY HALF TERM BESTIES.

Again can you show me where people said it’s the only thing on their mind?

It is really such a stupid conclusion to draw!

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:56

43ontherocksporfavor · 25/03/2024 17:50

Anyway, what difference does it make to you? It’s just the first thing that trips off the tongue for most people and they haven’t given it much thought. Relax!

It never used to be this way though. People have managed to say half-term and then Christmas, Easter and summer holidays for decades now. Why have people suddenly become unintelligent? It makes no sense.

Anyway I don’t think it is ‘most people’. Thank goodness everyone I know uses the correct terms.

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 17:59

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:54

Again can you show me where people said it’s the only thing on their mind?

It is really such a stupid conclusion to draw!

Can you imagine anyone going through a tough time really thinking about this and letting it annoy you to this level…. No? Same love.

it’s a very true conclusion to draw!

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 18:00

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 17:56

It never used to be this way though. People have managed to say half-term and then Christmas, Easter and summer holidays for decades now. Why have people suddenly become unintelligent? It makes no sense.

Anyway I don’t think it is ‘most people’. Thank goodness everyone I know uses the correct terms.

Unintelligent 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Probs about the same time you became stuck up your own arsehole

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 18:03

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 18:00

Unintelligent 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Probs about the same time you became stuck up your own arsehole

What’s your explanation for people not being able to use the correct words nowadays?

StructuredColumn · 25/03/2024 18:05

WOMANDOWNN · 25/03/2024 17:59

Can you imagine anyone going through a tough time really thinking about this and letting it annoy you to this level…. No? Same love.

it’s a very true conclusion to draw!

Yes. When something major is going on then it’s easier to focus on the trivial sometimes.

And most people aren’t actually thinking about this 24/7. There is a thread on this that reminds them of this new idiocy so they join in the griping and move on.

It is such a stupid trite cliche when people say what you have done.

pistachioicecream · 25/03/2024 18:08

CharlotteBog · 25/03/2024 17:12

1/2 term isn't a concept, it's a fact. It has been used to define the break around the middle of a school term likely since forever that break has occurred.

Unfortunately we live in a post truth world where facts don't matter anymore. Just repeat your assertion over and over again and suddenly that will become the new "truth".

Very depressing that no one seems to care about accuracy anymore or thinks that personal opinion/preference/belief is more important.

CharlotteBog · 25/03/2024 18:13

Farmwifefarmlife · 25/03/2024 12:03

Can’t believe how many people are annoyed by this! I call every holiday half term have two primary aged DC think it’s quite normal.

Yet when mine were at primary no one called Xmas hols or Easter hols 1/2 term. I wonder when the change happened.

INeedToClingToSomething · 25/03/2024 18:31

Because people are idiots.

Mnk711 · 25/03/2024 19:35

RhubarbAndGingerCheesecake · 25/03/2024 16:00

There's a whole slew of them.

Nonplussed caught me out last week. I thought meant confused/gone out /not sure how to react - Dh recently used to mean unfazed - taking it in their stride. Led to a very confused cross purpose conversation till I asked him what he'd meant.

On-line dictionary
nonplussed
/nɒnˈplʌst/

adjective

  1. 1.so surprised and confused that one is unsure how to react."Henry looked completely nonplussed" Similar 5.confuse,bewildered, bemused, puzzled,perplexed,baffled, stumped,mystified, stupefied, muddled, befuddled, fuddled, dumbfounded,at sea,at a loss, at sixes and sevens,thrown (off balance),taken aback, disoriented, disconcerted, discomposed ,troubled etc

2.INFORMAL•NORTH AMERICAN
not disconcerted; unperturbed.
"I remember students being nonplussed about the flooding in the city, as they had become accustomed to it over the years"

We are both UK British but DH was adamant I was wrong and it had always meant the second - he watches' a lot of american you tubers so I think he's picked it up there - were as I read a lot - often British often classics. Ironically he was driven to complaints about staycation meaning changing form staying at home and doing day trips to be UK holidays by media.

I did think teachers and school staff had started referring to it as half term break - as pretty sure that's where my DC are picking up the usage.

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@RhubarbAndGingerCheesecake oh no, not nonplussed too! I can't watch that video, I will be traumatised 😂

Overstream · 25/03/2024 19:35

I’ve not read the full thread but I agree - and there was the exact same thread this time last year!

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 25/03/2024 20:00

PeaceandCakes · 25/03/2024 17:42

I've never heard anyone say half term.

It's all 'Easter hols'.

Could it be a wind-up?

I've not heard the term used for Easter, nor has my OH and at one of our children's places I asked our son and his wife if they have as they have kids at school - they all said no and our grandkids lol and said its' "Easter holidays"!!!!

I may be wrong but I feel the OP was seeking a reaction.

Anyone else here as OP has left the thread that can tell me where this term 'half term is used in place of easter hols ??Its not London nor Kent that I know of