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Just chatting on line... AIBU to think we should be moving faster?

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southpawz · 22/03/2024 20:15

So I've been love bombed , used, treated like shite basically but essentially enabled it all in the past.
I've worked on myself, my boundaries and am looking for green flags.

I'm chatting to what seems like a lovely , solid, funny, decent man for the last week. No love bombing but I have found that I am initiating contact and when I do we have great chats and a date planned for the weekend.

We chatted last night and I tailed off conversation as I was tired and he was working from home( own business)
He hasn't text yet today .
We're done to meet on Sunday .
IlL
Hold tough here but am I expecting too much ?
FWIW I'm Used to men texting through the day and evening...
Thanks.

OP posts:
SheepAndSword · 24/03/2024 21:16

WorkingFromHomeShite · 24/03/2024 21:13

@southpawz Was it today you were meeting?

Yes!! I wondered how they were getting on. I'm ill in bed so this is my vicarious excitement :)

southpawz · 24/03/2024 21:21

Yes! We had coffee and walked and chatted for a couple of hours! A thoroughly kind gentleman , chatty and interesting , although very nervous!
I am not sure yet about physical attraction but as a person I was very attracted to him and we clicked very well. We're meeting again next week or the week after !

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WorkingFromHomeShite · 24/03/2024 21:22

southpawz · 24/03/2024 21:21

Yes! We had coffee and walked and chatted for a couple of hours! A thoroughly kind gentleman , chatty and interesting , although very nervous!
I am not sure yet about physical attraction but as a person I was very attracted to him and we clicked very well. We're meeting again next week or the week after !

Ooh nice! You know we need to hear all about that too, don’t you?!

marriednotdead · 24/03/2024 21:26

I await the next update with a smile on my face!

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