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Mixed feelings about WASPI victory

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Fauxflowersnoflowers · 21/03/2024 11:14

Early 40s here, so this doesn't as such directly affect me, but I've been intrigued by the story about the WASPI campaign and done a bit of reading around it and I'm still confused.

The changes apparently were in the public sphere since as early as 1995 and could have been known about. Many women were aware and did take financial steps to address the changes. The current case seems to centre around whether they should have been personally informed, not was the change fair.

WASPI just said on Women's Hour that they don't object to the equalisation of the pension age, but then callers were objecting to having to work longer and not getting a good retirement, so the two arguments seem to contradiction each other

Also, it seems misunderstood that a compensation payment would be a full reinbursement of the "lost" pension, from my reading it's more likely to be a fixed amount to recognise the fact they should have received a letter. Although again, it appears many did, just not everyone, so who gets the compensation? All of them or just some?

I suppose the other question is how do we pay this? Public services are already stretched badly, childcare costs are crippling and there is a bit of a worry for me that the funds to pay this are going to come out of other areas that will just make the loves of younger women harder and push their pension ages even further back, maybe into their 70s.

Feel really conflicted about it. On one hand kudos to the women for getting this far, but in the other it feels like a really clear example of the importance of properly understanding your own finances and educating yourself about your pension planning.

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BIossomtoes · 22/03/2024 16:16

maddening · 22/03/2024 16:04

As someone staring at the retirement age of 71 currently I understand why you are conflicted

Nobody’s currently looking at a retirement age of 71.

alliscalm · 22/03/2024 16:16

Rosscameasdoody · 22/03/2024 15:30

And on the point of housing. Mortgage rates jumped from 11% to 15% in 1980 and stayed historically high. My parents bought their house in 1965 for £3000. A similar property my DH and I bought in 1979 cost nearly £18,000 - a 500% increase, and the mortgage payments took up all of my monthly wage - a princely £200 pcm. It’s all relative to the times.

For most couples, being able to afford your own home meant you needed two wages but mortgage rules were much stricter - basically because women were subject to being fired for getting pregnant and maternity leave varied from company to company, with entitlement mostly linked to length of service. In 1985, it was decided workplace subsidised nurseries were a taxable benefit, adding £700-£1000 to women's tax bills, and in 1987, the universal maternity grant was removed and state paid maternity allowance was heavily restricted. I think it was that same year I remember an employee by the name of Maria Brown, hitting the headlines when she lost a lawsuit against her employer, who had selected her for redundancy because she was pregnant.

The rights women enjoy now have been fought for by older women criticised for being boomers and ‘having it all’, some of whom are now being discussed here in the most mealy mouthed terms, simply for deciding they weren’t going to stand for being shafted when it came to their pensions too.

Well said. I remember in about 1989 me and a female colleague going to see our boss to ask why all the women had 2 percent less than the men in the annual pay round. ‘Because you’re all going to go off and have babies,’ he said. I can’t remember if it was actually illegal to discriminate by then but we were too scared of being sacked to take it any further.

Rosscameasdoody · 22/03/2024 16:17

Ahugga · 22/03/2024 16:08

So was actively parenting and caring for lots of disabled adults probably. Seems an odd thing for you to try and compete over.

Caring as a career is a choice and attracts pay. Most of the time caring for disabled family members is neither, and there’s no clocking off time.

12345change · 22/03/2024 16:19

1dayatatime · 22/03/2024 16:06

@12345change

"but if you're paying into the system - they have a responsibility too, to make sure they have informed everyone of the changes. "

So in that basis should everyone who will be getting a pension at 67 or 68 also be entitled to get compensation because they haven't received a letter about the change?

Well actually I believe we should (I fall into that category) have been written too - I definitely have not had a letter about. But it is different they still have time to write to us... I wait in hope I will get a letter but I very much doubt it.. There really is no excuse for not communicating more effectively!

Ahugga · 22/03/2024 16:20

12345change · 22/03/2024 16:19

Well actually I believe we should (I fall into that category) have been written too - I definitely have not had a letter about. But it is different they still have time to write to us... I wait in hope I will get a letter but I very much doubt it.. There really is no excuse for not communicating more effectively!

They haven't written to the rest of us because it will change again soon... 71 then phase it out.

Flowers4me · 22/03/2024 16:21

MalvernValentine · 22/03/2024 16:16

@Flowers4me nope. No assuming. Just watching the rel.life example or much older relatives and the many woman around me that did exactly that. Went to work after kids. On the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s...I could go on.

They are very fortunate then because this is not my experience during the 1990s and beyond and neither has this been the experience of my female friends either. The point is that just because you can cite examples of women having a choice to return to work does not mean that this is experienced by other women. And I think for those of us who care for disabled and/or elderly relatives, we have less freedom and choice about whether we can work or not and become more impoverished as a result.

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:21

@Ahugga if they were going to phase the state pension out, why has the government had a big campaign to try and get people to pay extra NI years if they do not have enough for the full state pension?

alliscalm · 22/03/2024 16:21

karriecreamer · 22/03/2024 15:44

But Waspi women expected others to help fight their cause. The valid point was that few of them were interested in fighting any other causes for other people affected by governmental/civil service foul ups.

If such groups actually worked together, there'd be better chance of campaigning for change and a more efficient/competent civil service. When there are parallels, the groups affected need to work together for better effect and better outcomes.

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Have you got evidence that WASPI women were a) asked to support other causes and b) can you prove they were not interested in helping others.

Flowers4me · 22/03/2024 16:22

Rosscameasdoody · 22/03/2024 16:17

Caring as a career is a choice and attracts pay. Most of the time caring for disabled family members is neither, and there’s no clocking off time.

Absolutely this; I think unless you've done round the clock caring, its hard to understand how little time a family carer has for themselves, let alone read the news and plan a pension.

12345change · 22/03/2024 16:23

Ahugga · 22/03/2024 16:20

They haven't written to the rest of us because it will change again soon... 71 then phase it out.

Quite likely it's all so depressing especially as life expectancy is now falling. Significant numbers of people that do live into retirement are often physically struggling with various ailments too... making the option of working past retirement age problematic for many.

MalvernValentine · 22/03/2024 16:24

@Flowers4me I see. This is personal to you and somehow you feel attacked. I know you're defending the minority and yes, they should have a voice. However, of ALL the women I know, very few couldn't return. Some chose not to. Few like you say had circumstances that prohibited it. But many of the WASPIs could have worked after and kept working past 60...if they wanted to.

Ahugga · 22/03/2024 16:25

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:21

@Ahugga if they were going to phase the state pension out, why has the government had a big campaign to try and get people to pay extra NI years if they do not have enough for the full state pension?

They need the taxes to fund current pensions... if you're already retired your probably safe. Anyone under ~45, good luck.

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:27

@MalvernValentine how old are you roughly?

MalvernValentine · 22/03/2024 16:28

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:27

@MalvernValentine how old are you roughly?

Is it relevant? Nearly 40. Not that it matters a jot.

Flowers4me · 22/03/2024 16:30

MalvernValentine · 22/03/2024 16:24

@Flowers4me I see. This is personal to you and somehow you feel attacked. I know you're defending the minority and yes, they should have a voice. However, of ALL the women I know, very few couldn't return. Some chose not to. Few like you say had circumstances that prohibited it. But many of the WASPIs could have worked after and kept working past 60...if they wanted to.

I am not feeling attacked but I am defending a minority group whose voice is not being properly heard on here. I think it is important to recognise that women are not a homogenous group and likely the WASPI women will not be either; that there will be individual/family contexts at play.

Garlicking · 22/03/2024 16:30

BIossomtoes · 22/03/2024 14:50

It was sexism. It would have been the same if she was the higher earner. Because no maternity leave, no maternity pay, precious little childcare available. Women were legally asked in job interviews what their plans were for starting a family. Nobody born since about 1980 has a clue what it was like for us back then.

God, this and so much more ... being told the guy got the pay rise because he had a family to keep, or even because he would have a family to keep! Blatant sexism in recruitment. Banks asking for a male co-signatory, even though it was longer a legal requirement. In 19 bloody 98, our mortgage lender refused to talk to me about our joint mortgage 😡 It's a long slog ...

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:31

@MalvernValentine 40ish was the happiest time of my life so far. And a time when you look at people in their fifties and sixties and think from looking at them you feel physically and mentally the same as when you are 40. You don't.
And that is not even mentioning age discrimination which is real. I remember my father at 62 going for loads of interviews and he said so many times as soon as he walked in the door and saw how old he was, their faces fell.

Rosscameasdoody · 22/03/2024 16:32

alliscalm · 22/03/2024 16:16

Well said. I remember in about 1989 me and a female colleague going to see our boss to ask why all the women had 2 percent less than the men in the annual pay round. ‘Because you’re all going to go off and have babies,’ he said. I can’t remember if it was actually illegal to discriminate by then but we were too scared of being sacked to take it any further.

I remember a pregnant colleague being told to schedule all her pre natal appointments for her day off and on the occasions she couldn’t reschedule she was told if she didn’t make up the time, her pay would be docked. Most women couldn’t imagine that happening now but it was routine back then. And don’t get me started on the disability discrimination that went on. I’m disabled and was once told by my boss that l wasn’t to leave work premises to do shopping during my unpaid lunch hour because the slow pace at which l walked meant that l may not be able to get back on time!!

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:32

@MalvernValentine It is not impossible to get a job when you are older, but it is not easy either. Even the government recognises this and has started running schemes to help older unemployed people.

ConstitutionHill · 22/03/2024 16:33

What worries me is the classic divide and conquer here. Older people being pitted against younger, as milking the young "cash cows" rich and greedy boomers?

WearyAuldWumman · 22/03/2024 16:33

Soontobe60 · 22/03/2024 12:12

Last week at work my Headteacher suggested I think about retiring in July as it’d be “lovely to spend time with the grandchildren”. By the same token she doesn’t think new mums who teach in my school need to work only 4 days because they can put the kids in nursery.
What she really means is she thinks I’m too old, too expensive and she wants rid of me,

I moved to a 4 dy week because I could no longer cope with teaching full time and caring for my late husband. The result was I got less money but nearly the same amount of work - planning and grading the work for my 'day off' and catching up any problems on the Monday.

After a yr, I asked my HT for a 3 dy wk. He refused, so - reluctantly, I took a reduced pension at 58. (Yes, I'm lucky I could do that.) He jobsized my role down...I've been gone from the job nearly 6 yrs. I've had 6 successors, all women; all much younger than me, but they couldn't cope with it.

DH died two yrs after I retired. Finished up going back to teaching on supply part time to supplement my pension.

This morning, I was accosted by a group of 15 yr old girls who demanded that I let them into an area that they shouldn't be in. They were wearing labels on their forehead (I kid you not) which read "Number 1 Bitch". They then angrily demanded to know why I was using the pass-controlled lift instead of the stairs. I answered truthfully "I have mobility problems."

Don't think I'll manage to keep teaching until I'm 66 and one month and I can't see many folk lasting beyond that.

MalvernValentine · 22/03/2024 16:33

@Flowers4me likewise young women or just women people aren't homogeneous and I'm likewise representing a world view based on my own experience and honestly just responding to ridiculous claims made about younger women and their fabricated hatred of older women, because we dared talk about personal responsibility. Yes, I get it before you say. Not everyone can take responsibility for themselves or situations.

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:34

@MalvernValentine and that is not even taking into account those who left work early to care for grandchildren with the idea they would soon get the state pension. How easy is it to say sorry adult kids, I am off back to work. I know you cant afford childcare, but tough.

Flowers4me · 22/03/2024 16:35

Garlicking · 22/03/2024 16:30

God, this and so much more ... being told the guy got the pay rise because he had a family to keep, or even because he would have a family to keep! Blatant sexism in recruitment. Banks asking for a male co-signatory, even though it was longer a legal requirement. In 19 bloody 98, our mortgage lender refused to talk to me about our joint mortgage 😡 It's a long slog ...

This is reminding me of when I started work in a bank in the 1980s. The sex discrimination and physical harassment was blatant and almost daily. We couldn't complain, noone took us seriously as we were women. Our manager used to openly say that he would encourage the young men to do further training but not us women - he'd say it was a waste of time as we'd just leave, get married and have babies. I hope my daughters never have to experience the discrimination and abuse that I had to endure as a young woman.

BlueBadgeHolder · 22/03/2024 16:36

@MalvernValentine I do not think young women hate older women. I just think personal responsibility is the cry of the well off conservatives in life.
I prefer community responsibility. We all should contribute to the community as we can. I think personal responsibility is a neo libertarian selfish doctrine that is more about everyone for themselves, than a more community approach.

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