Hiya, I wondered if I could ask for some advice? My DH went out last night with a friend who has lost their father, which is fine. However, he was so drunk when he got home at 1.20 that he fell onto the sofa and fell asleep, at 2.00 he was vomiting in the bathroom, I went to see if he needed help and he responded by telling me that he didn't need or want me in his life. I went back to bed because our 13 month old LB had woken up, I cleaned up after DH this morning. When DH woke up, he was angry and still seemed drunk, I asked him not to drive to work, and said that he should maybe ring in sick and stay in bed, I received a torrent of venom and nastiness about trying to control him (I saw it as my protecting my husband from arrest or incident).
He continued his tyrade of shouting and telling me how much I had ruined his life and left to walk to work.
Last night's behaviour has affected both mine and LO's sleep which in turn has altered our plans.
I am now in a predicament of not knowing what to do.