I really don’t think people think that. What they do see is the horrific waiting times and, sometimes, when you’ve not slept and you’re worried about your child or relative and you just want some answers or some help, it’s the staff that get the flack. It shouldn’t be, but equally, who else do those patients turn to? There’s a lack of early intervention (gp appointments, referral waiting lists etc) and people with serious symptoms being told to wait for over a year. My relative just got told by one doctor that they don’t know what’s wrong, so that’s it, discharged. Luckily they have a good GP monitoring them, but there are a lot of very obvious signs something is very wrong. That relative now has to go private. They’ve been very patient and understanding, but when people are put through symptoms that take your ability to live life away and literally cannot access help after years and years of trying, there will be short fuses.
Equally, some staff can be quite tricky. I was once yelled at by a GP receptionist when my son’s urine culture results were three weeks late and he was risking another hospital admission - turned out they were in the wrong folder on the computer and yes, he needed a different antibiotic. A urine culture takes 3 days and she accused me of ‘wasting their time’. I had to phone the lab to find out it had been sent and was in the wrong folder. In reality, no one is perfect and the current way the system works is rubbish.
If we’re going to talk about staff doing their best, we also need to talk about patients and patients’ families doing their best.
The fault belongs to neither the patients nor the staff broadly. I don’t think either the patients or the staff broadly blame each other. It’s the Government and their fun narrative about no money for anyone (except them).