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Taking a sick child to a supermarket carrying a bowl to be sick in

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Auburngal · 15/03/2024 13:07

My mum saw this at the supermarket. Child was about 6 at a guess. He looked sick and was carrying a bowl with some sick in it.

Supermarkets are open longer, have food couriers (Just Eat etc) and supermarkets' own food couriers - Sainsburys ChopChop, Tesco Express Whoosh and now supermarkets offer later day deliveries. Plus the mum could have messaged a friend, relative etc to pick up some food items to tie her over til child is well enough. I know the food couriers charge a lot more. We had a customer a few days ago on the food courier service we have ordering one loaf of bread costing 80p in the store and cost them £4.10!

I'm sure the mum wasn't all alone - no contact with anyone who could help. Plus there are local FB groups - Spotted.... I bet someone would respond to her pleas.

Fellow shoppers and my mum were horrified with sight. Not sure if anyone said anything to the mum. My mum was worried that people could pick up the bug the boy was carrying. Mum doesn't know if he touched anything in the store.

Would you drag your DC if they were throwing up in a supermarket?

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StormingNorman · 17/03/2024 20:10

Tessiebear2023 · 17/03/2024 10:41

I personally find it disgusting that a dog can take a massive shit in the pavement right in front of me, it honestly makes me feel repulsed and ill. I'd like all owners to stay at home when their dog needs to poop, why should I have to put up with it? Sound reasonable?

People don’t let their dogs shit in the supermarket though.

StormingNorman · 17/03/2024 20:14

Loubelle70 · 17/03/2024 10:49

I agree. Also who the eff will leave poorly kid in doorway whilst you shop...theyd be judged for that also!! Leaving him on his own! ( Gasp )...
Bringing him in like that! ( Gasp)....cant win. So i would quickly take poorly child in..get essentials and scoot

For the hard of thinking…not literally standing in the doorway 😂🤣😂

You can leave a 6 year old next to or just outside the entrance to a small shop for a few minutes.

BrendaSmall · 17/03/2024 20:19

For home deliveries and click n collect there is a minimum spend, maybe mum didn’t have to get much shopping?

Loubelle70 · 17/03/2024 21:52

StormingNorman · 17/03/2024 20:14

For the hard of thinking…not literally standing in the doorway 😂🤣😂

You can leave a 6 year old next to or just outside the entrance to a small shop for a few minutes.

I wouldn't

Calliopespa · 17/03/2024 21:53

StormingNorman · 17/03/2024 20:14

For the hard of thinking…not literally standing in the doorway 😂🤣😂

You can leave a 6 year old next to or just outside the entrance to a small shop for a few minutes.

Even that… Like one of the teddy bear sentinels at Hamleys at Christmas , only a kid with a bowl of vomit! 😂

Auburngal · 18/03/2024 07:47

Last year, I was on the bus going home from hospital with mum. When I got of the bus, there was a mum coming off with pushchair. Wheel got caught up. I managed to free it.

“I was perfectly ok without help” screamed the mum.

I could see her if I didn’t do anything she would have screamed “why couldn’t you help me?”

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Summerglowing · 18/03/2024 08:39

Auburngal · 18/03/2024 07:47

Last year, I was on the bus going home from hospital with mum. When I got of the bus, there was a mum coming off with pushchair. Wheel got caught up. I managed to free it.

“I was perfectly ok without help” screamed the mum.

I could see her if I didn’t do anything she would have screamed “why couldn’t you help me?”

A) did you ask her before putting your hands on her pram?

B) maybe she had also come from the hospital with her child...

C) even after reading all of the comments that promote empathy before judgement, this...

Louatkin · 18/03/2024 08:56

PriOn1 · 17/03/2024 07:42

I’d be very wary of contracting it, but speaking to the mother, buying her a few things and not making any physical contact while I hand over a small amount of shopping I bought is low risk. Letting a child walk around the shop where he might potentially infect a lot of people if he has another vomiting episode or spills his bucket is actually higher risk.

That said, it’s easy with hindsight. The reality is that I might have turned and walked out again. If faced with now though, having thought about it, that’s what I’d do.

I am reminded through this of an incident when my toddler vomited all over me while watching my other children in a swimming lesson. A lovely lady lent me her towels to clean up, despite the possible risks to herself and presumably her own children. I so much appreciated her help and am glad that some people are supremely humane towards others, even if it carries a risk to themselves.

Edited

You’re right . So many different views on this post

T1Dmama · 18/03/2024 10:28

Auburngal · 18/03/2024 07:47

Last year, I was on the bus going home from hospital with mum. When I got of the bus, there was a mum coming off with pushchair. Wheel got caught up. I managed to free it.

“I was perfectly ok without help” screamed the mum.

I could see her if I didn’t do anything she would have screamed “why couldn’t you help me?”

I’d have said ‘a simple thanks would’ve been nice!’ And walked off ignoring further comment

Bluebellsparklypant · 18/03/2024 18:44

I feel for the child to be honest sickness is horrid let alone having to go out.
there few obvious reasons as op have said like child may of just started feeling sick, I don’t think you’d take a sick child out if you really didn’t need to.
picking up the point about having no one to ask I don’t, my closet family live over hour away, half hour drive to school so mum friends aren’t local, friends work. Personally I don’t plan visits if my child is sick so there’s no way I’d ask someone to look after a vomiting child I’d certainly say no if asked

Katkins17 · 18/03/2024 18:49

This sort of action screams 'last possible option !!!'

As mums, we've all been in situations where we're taken by surprise with our kids, or we've absolutely no other way....

When I had my first 2, I was 600 miles away from my family, I had no friends or family I could call upon...in fact, when I had to go into hospital with my second pregnancy, my son had to come in with me as my husband was working away....

Mums are judged far too much when all we're doing is desperately trying to cope....

Don't presume a reason why, or judge a mums actions until you know the full story.

Expressions1 · 18/03/2024 21:18

I’ve got a major fear of vomit . If I saw this it would horrify me . Feel really sorry for the child .

crunchermuncher · 19/03/2024 11:35

Summerglowing · 18/03/2024 08:39

A) did you ask her before putting your hands on her pram?

B) maybe she had also come from the hospital with her child...

C) even after reading all of the comments that promote empathy before judgement, this...

Bloody hell 'ask before putting your hands on her pram' 🙄

It's a pram.

They didn't grab her baby.

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