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World Book Day panic

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EnglishHamlet · 06/03/2024 19:57

Please help!
12 year old boy at secondary school.
School announced on Monday that they want kids to dress up as book characters for World Book Day.
I thought WBD was on Friday so I was planning to sort this out tomorrow, as I have the day off work.
To my horror, I've literally just found out they have to go in dressed up tomorrow!!! DS's school are doing WBD tomorrow!!!
Help!
What on earth can I dress DS as?
To make it more complicated, he now wants a 'cool' look, understated, low key, as he says he'd get laughed out of secondary school if he went in dressed as Harry Potter.
It's 8pm, I'm tired, and I'm really panicking!

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Katkins17 · 06/03/2024 21:46

Normal everyday clothes and a ( cardboard) golden thunder bolt ... and you've got Percy Jackson !!!

OrderOfTheKookaburra · 06/03/2024 21:48

13 Story Treehouse book series. The kids in it are Andy and Terry. They both wear black trousers and Andy (dark hair) wears a black tshirt and Terry (fair hair) wears a white tshirt.

Terry uses a Spooncil (spoon with a pencil end - tape a wooden spoon and pencil together).

Andy has a note book with "Once Upom a Time" written in it when he has writer's block. (One word to a page, make sure you spell upon wrong! He writes UpoM).

Easiest costumes ever.

Smerpsmorp · 06/03/2024 21:49

He can wear own clothes and be a spy from the cherub books

TheAlchemistElixa · 06/03/2024 21:51

EnglishHamlet · 06/03/2024 20:24

He doesn't have any, that's the problem. I'm stumped and so is he.

If he has no ideas or thoughts, no favourite book characters, no interest whatsoever in finding one himself…then just let him go in however he wants and explain it however he wants. I really don’t think you should be panicking this much over it. Let him deal with the (incredibly minor, almost non-existent) consequences. You can’t live his life for him. And he needs to learn that you can’t and won’t always do everything for him, including thinking his thoughts.

FloydWasACat · 06/03/2024 21:53

Red t-shirt and jeans: George's Marvellous Medicine

wronginalltherightways · 06/03/2024 22:04

Alex Rider
Percy Jackson

Both teenage boys who dress normally...

Bolarpear · 06/03/2024 22:07

Own clothes OP. If he's even asked (I'd doubt it) then say the dad from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory or something. Some of these suggestions are incredibly young and more suited to nursery and primary and would be remembered for the rest of the secondary school years. Feral teenagers have long memories

SmokedPaprikaPuffs · 06/03/2024 22:08

Horrid Henry?

EnglishHamlet · 06/03/2024 22:09

TheAlchemistElixa · 06/03/2024 21:51

If he has no ideas or thoughts, no favourite book characters, no interest whatsoever in finding one himself…then just let him go in however he wants and explain it however he wants. I really don’t think you should be panicking this much over it. Let him deal with the (incredibly minor, almost non-existent) consequences. You can’t live his life for him. And he needs to learn that you can’t and won’t always do everything for him, including thinking his thoughts.

Thanks for your advice.
However, I'm not thinking his thoughts. He has brilliant thoughts of his own.
I'm not living his life for him. He's living his life brilliantly.
He doesn't need to learn that I can't and won't always do everything for him. Because he already does a lot for himself.
He's simply a just turned 12 year old boy who's a bit stumped about who to dress up as, now that his younger primary school age dressing up days are over.
I'm simply trying to help him with thinking of a book character to dress up as. Which he is completely interested in, and which he has been actively engaging with me about and chatting to me about, but is stuck and has asked if I have any good ideas.
Thank goodness the rest of the responses, apart from DaisyHaites, have been lovely and helpful.
We're talking about a just turned 12 year old with adhd, who's asked me to help him with ideas for a dressing up day at school.
No need for your bitter response.
You know, when I meet older kids who behave negatively, who display anger and unkindness towards other kids, who have a really bad attitude towards others, I often wonder what their parents are like. I reckon they're like you.

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Mummame222 · 06/03/2024 22:11

Banrion · 06/03/2024 20:06

He's 12. He should be sorting this out for himself surely? My dds have always decided themselves and got whatever they need themselves.

I’d defo do this for my 12 year old 😊 still so young!

Snoozymoozy · 06/03/2024 22:15

OP, just wanted to say THANKS for saving my bacon. I also thought it was Friday!!!
So glad I read your post!

Containerhome · 06/03/2024 22:16

Generic character. Maybe Charlie from Charlie and the chocolate factory or George's marvelous medicine. I appreciate they are younger books but not by a huge amount.

Containerhome · 06/03/2024 22:18

Famous 5? Secret seven, railway children. All easily done and generic too.

Can he wear a suit? Train controller from an old gothic novel etc

Winter2020 · 06/03/2024 22:19

Oliver Twist suggested by a previous poster sounds a good idea if your son has old or too small trousers or shirt that could be cut ragged.

You could also do raggedy clothes/bandana for a pirate (captain hook etc) or Robinson Crusoe, Lord of the flies.

Any left over halloween costume - Dracula/ Frankenstein

Containerhome · 06/03/2024 22:19

I have 4 kids needing to dress up or have a clue. 5 year old is going as super Peppa, Peppard dresses as a superhero in her book. 6btear old is the worst witch, so just a witches hat with uniform, 9 year old is taking a toy dragon as a clue. 1 tear old isn't sure he wants to.

rainyskylight · 06/03/2024 22:25

If he has a yellow and black tshirt he could go as Charlie Brown (from Snoopy)

sleekcat · 06/03/2024 22:29

My son's secondary school does not participate in WBD or anything else really, thankfully. It used to be my nightmare. But he has previously dressed as James Bond, in a suit and shirt, Skulduggery Pleasant, in the same suit jacket with black hat on and v simple face paint, if you have it; a pirate by cutting up old clothes and making a ragged waist coat out of an old shirt (can't remember the character though) and Tom Gates, by just doodling on a plain t shirt in the Tom Gates style.

SpeculatingRooks · 06/03/2024 22:34

I don't know if this helps but my fancy dress hating ds went as this kid in year 6. Luckily we had a blue sweatshirt and I did sew a felt H on it but you don't have to, could tape a paper one on or paint on a jumper?

World Book Day panic
Crochetablanket · 06/03/2024 22:34

Red t shirt white paper pinned on saying ‘Thing 1’ from Dr Suess?

purpletrees16 · 06/03/2024 22:40

EnglishHamlet · 06/03/2024 20:21

Thanks everyone.
But what book characters aimed at 12 year olds dress as ordinary kids?
DS literally stopped reading books 2 years ago. He changed from an avid book worm all his life, reading through books at a rate of knots, there was no stopping him, to suddenly literally overnight stopping reading and declaring no further interest in reading books!
No amount of encouragement or persuasion has got him reading again.
So I don't actually know any book characters that he could say he is, whilst dressed in normal clothes!
And as for sorting this out himself, he can't even get himself sorted out for school every morning, so he's never going to pull this one off by himself. Getting assessed for adhd.

Alex Rider is also a tv series on the with ads Amazon prime tv series - he could watch episode 1. It’s about a teenage spy who wears normal teenage boy clothes.

CatamaranViper · 06/03/2024 22:46

Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy? Dressing gown over PJs would do.

Something from the Hunger Games? Just dull colours if one of the poorer districts or bright colours for the central one?

LittleCrackers · 06/03/2024 22:49

Banrion · 06/03/2024 20:06

He's 12. He should be sorting this out for himself surely? My dds have always decided themselves and got whatever they need themselves.

I imagine he's too busy sorting his taxes and doing his grocery shopping at the grand age of 12.

TheAlchemistElixa · 06/03/2024 22:57

EnglishHamlet · 06/03/2024 22:09

Thanks for your advice.
However, I'm not thinking his thoughts. He has brilliant thoughts of his own.
I'm not living his life for him. He's living his life brilliantly.
He doesn't need to learn that I can't and won't always do everything for him. Because he already does a lot for himself.
He's simply a just turned 12 year old boy who's a bit stumped about who to dress up as, now that his younger primary school age dressing up days are over.
I'm simply trying to help him with thinking of a book character to dress up as. Which he is completely interested in, and which he has been actively engaging with me about and chatting to me about, but is stuck and has asked if I have any good ideas.
Thank goodness the rest of the responses, apart from DaisyHaites, have been lovely and helpful.
We're talking about a just turned 12 year old with adhd, who's asked me to help him with ideas for a dressing up day at school.
No need for your bitter response.
You know, when I meet older kids who behave negatively, who display anger and unkindness towards other kids, who have a really bad attitude towards others, I often wonder what their parents are like. I reckon they're like you.

Edited

That was really unkind and uncalled for. Telling me essentially that my child is going to grow up with negative behaviours, be angry and unkind with a bad attitude, all because I told you not to panic and let your son go in as he wants and tell people whatever he wants without an “answer”.

You’ve escalated it to insulting my child and my entire parenting ethos. I never did any such thing to you. So maybe look to yourself when trying to
assign negativity and unkindness, rather than my child.

basically “take my child’s name outta your mouth!”

Thanks and good luck tomorrow.

RealRubyBee · 06/03/2024 23:04

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