When the kids were little and I was working part time, I would fit the gym in doing nursery, school etc. I remember a popular Friday morning body pump class attended by loads of school mums. I always enjoyed Sunday gym time.
When I returned to full time work, I would go around half five, six pm. I would book a class and wait for my husband to get home from work. He’s self employed, so it was never an automatic 5pm end time. Many times I’ve had to cancel my class but 🤷♀️. Whilst waiting for him to come home, I would prep/make supper and he’d eat and feed the kids and I’m doing spin.
Now that the kids are older and don’t need watching, DH and I go together after work and on Sundays.
If you’re determined to go, you’ll go. You just manage to fit it in. I prioritize the gym because I’ve got shit mental health and sleep issues. It makes me feel better about myself, so I consider it a necessity like taking a shower or brushing my teeth.
Having said that, you do need a partner who understands the importance and supports you. My DH could have very well said ‘no, I’m not coming home at 5:30 for you to go to body combat’ but he never did. I also made sure he could go to basketball and squash. And now that we don’t have to worry about the kids we do these things together.