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Am I actually filthy?!

74 replies

Coldsore · 03/03/2024 20:04

just now, DH was getting ready for bed with the bathroom door open. I happened to see him randomly wash his hands.

me “are you….are you washing your hands BEFORE you wash your face?”
him “well yes of course”
me “what?”

he hadn’t been to the loo or something he was just going about his normal business previously. I am now worried that I have been washing my face all wrong and somehow missing this totally pivotal hygienic step 🙈🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

do people wash their hands before washing their face?!?

OP posts:
Coldsore · 03/03/2024 21:48

Margo2023 · 03/03/2024 21:44

I'm so confused, surely if you are washing your face you already have soaped up your hands and so they are clean? I agree with the above who say that by default it's washing hands then face. I pee, run the tap, lather my hands, quick rinse and then lather face. Im probably filthy compared to others though as I hate washing my hair (can get away with it once per week!) and I don't shower every day Blush

No because - and I did originally think what you did but actually - if I think about it, I put water on my face and then I rub in the face wash. So my hands aren’t really clean. But like a Pp I always wash my hands after loo etc and when I come inside so I operate on the assumption my hands are just clean. DH thinks that’s insane!

can’t believe the people who think getting ready for bed early is strange 😃

OP posts:
BlueGrey1 · 03/03/2024 21:49

Yes, I wash my hands before I clean my face, unless they had been washed quite recently,

TheLurpackYears · 03/03/2024 21:50

I hardly ever wash my face....it gets wet when I wash my hair, that's fine for me.
In the olden days when my job meant I'd need to wash my hands and face at the end of the day I would wash my hands but couldn't bring myself to wash my face unless I'd dried my hands first. Even I knew that was odd.
Bedtime involves brush teeth, wash hands to remove contacts, wee, wash hands and done.

DietrichandDiMaggio · 03/03/2024 21:53

Margo2023 · 03/03/2024 21:44

I'm so confused, surely if you are washing your face you already have soaped up your hands and so they are clean? I agree with the above who say that by default it's washing hands then face. I pee, run the tap, lather my hands, quick rinse and then lather face. Im probably filthy compared to others though as I hate washing my hair (can get away with it once per week!) and I don't shower every day Blush

Depends what you are using to wash your face. If I am not wearing make-up, in which case I would use cleansing balm. I use face wash, but I would never wash my hands with face wash.

FlamingoQueen · 03/03/2024 22:17

I get ready for bed early some days - particularly if I clean my teeth, then it stops me from eating anything else! Also, if I’m so tired that I nod off, it doesn’t matter (always set my alarm too!).

ILoveSalmonSpread · 03/03/2024 22:39

Magnastorm · 03/03/2024 21:02

If you are soaping up your hands to wash your face I don't really see how deliberately washing your hands before that makes a blind bit of difference.

That and the fact that everyone is constantly unconsciously touching their face means it really isn't worth thinking about.

This.

SwordToFlamethrower · 03/03/2024 22:40

I wash my hands and then use the soap to clean my face

Daisylookslost · 03/03/2024 22:42

CammyChameleon · 03/03/2024 21:29

I lather up my hands and wash my face with them, then surely you're cleaning both at once?

I now do not need to read further this mumsnety conundrum has been solved 🙏

Everydayimhuffling · 03/03/2024 22:48

I usually wash my hands before because it's in my routine, like PPs. I wouldn't think to do it if I hadn't followed my usual routine though. I don't clean my face with soap, so wouldn't wash my hands as part of that.

Devonshiregal · 03/03/2024 23:32

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 03/03/2024 21:09

I got ready at 8.
Usual routine:
Showered, wash hair, blow dry hair, clean pj’s. Child (bathed at 7) and dog to bed. DH banished to his music room, glass of wine and Erin Brockovich…… and relax!

I imagine your room to be gloriously neat and you to smell of gorgeous perfume.

Lotsofsnacks · 03/03/2024 23:35

Pinkyponker · 03/03/2024 21:35

So glad there's somebody else that has to have two pees before bed 😂

My routine is
Pee
Wash hands and Wash face
Brush teeth
Get into bed
Scroll phone for half an hour or so
Return to bathroom for final pee
Then sleep

But no I wouldn't make a conscious effort to wash my hands before washing my face

I also always have to do 2 wees before bed 😂Always have!

Basilandmandarin · 03/03/2024 23:36

I always wash my hands before I was my face. I don’t want to rub my face cleansing balm in with dirty hands.

HollyKnight · 03/03/2024 23:38

I use different soaps for different body parts, so yeah I wash my hands first with anti-bac soap then switch to gentle stuff to wash my face with.

OneTC · 03/03/2024 23:39

I wash my hands with my soapy face

mynumerouno · 03/03/2024 23:41

Nope I just wash my face. Never thought about washing my hands! I mean how dirty are your hands getting unless you work on a farm or something?! I always wash my hands after the toilet so surely that's enough to keep hands clean through the day!

Teenagehorrorbag · 03/03/2024 23:41

MyLadyTheKingsMother · 03/03/2024 21:38

I'm well known in these parts as the two-wee wonder 🤣

Ha ha, I only ever used to pee once until I was pregnant. I then learned that if you do one before you clean your teeth etc then you can usually manage another before you get into bed - and then you're good for the night.

It was 16 years ago I was pregnant - but still do the double pee now, and it works a treat! DH always gets up about 5 though which is sooo annoying.....

teenagetantrums · 03/03/2024 23:48

I don't really wash my hands or face before bed, l mean l was my hands if l have been for a wee, l have a shower in the morning so why would l wash my face before bed? P
I just clean my teeth and put my Pjs on.

SpringSprungALeak · 03/03/2024 23:51

I only ever wash my face in the shower. Sometimes that's once a day, in the summer that's almost always twice a day.

I don't wash my face before bed, unless I'm showering. I don't wear make up, so don't feel the need.

Hands are a mute pony. If I didn't need a wee, I wouldn't wash them, but I can't go to bed without at least one wee, so my hands get washed.

How Can this possibly be the first time you've seen your husbands nightly routine??

Moier · 04/03/2024 00:01

Wee.
Wash hands.
Hot cloth cleanser on face.
Toner.
Moisturiser.
Clean teeth.
Bed.

Shower and wash hair every morning.
Facial wash on face.
Once a week facial scrub.

Cuckoochanel80 · 04/03/2024 00:23

I'm still shocked by that study a while back that showed there are many people that never wash their legs 😂

PawsisShady · 04/03/2024 00:41

Wash hands before - I use a cleansing balm so can't wash hands with that!
I do my skincare early after exercise so probably 6/7pm

thebestinterest · 04/03/2024 00:55

I wash my hands before I use the loo!

Babla · 04/03/2024 01:01

do people wash their hands before washing their face?!?

Always

Babla · 04/03/2024 01:02

thebestinterest · 04/03/2024 00:55

I wash my hands before I use the loo!

That's just silly

Karadis · 04/03/2024 01:06

Yep, I wash my hands before I wash my face. I use handwash for my hands, and a different cleanser for my face.

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