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Food orders for work related events are to be vegan and vegetarian only

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ValerieVomit · 01/03/2024 12:58

We all received an email at work to say that when we order catering in future for work related events we can only order vegetarian and vegan food. The management team has imposed this. It's to reduce our carbon footprint. I don't think that this means there is to be no carnivorous food available for the rest of the organisation but our department won't allow us to order any.

Reasonable or not?

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anchoviesanchovies · 02/03/2024 18:40

Geebray · 01/03/2024 13:04

Well presumably you are only allowed foodstuffs grown in the UK? To reduce your carbon footprint?

You can't say "no meat cos carbon" and then allow avocadoes, pineapples, oranges, olive oil, peppers, etc...

Exactly!

Totally unreasonable. For all those saying non meat eaters are fine eating a veggie meal, I personally don’t particularly enjoy meals that don’t include meat and wouldn’t expect my work to dictate what I eat when there.

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 18:47

anchoviesanchovies · 02/03/2024 18:40

Exactly!

Totally unreasonable. For all those saying non meat eaters are fine eating a veggie meal, I personally don’t particularly enjoy meals that don’t include meat and wouldn’t expect my work to dictate what I eat when there.

They aren't dictating what you eat. They don't have that power.

They are limiting what they offer. That's not the same thing.

And the carbon footprint argument has been already more than adequately covered in this thread. In summary, the carbon footprint of meat is much higher than any of those items mentioned.

telestrations · 02/03/2024 18:50

In theory I can't complain about this but in practice it really depends on the cost and care put into it. Most veggie catering is sadly pants.

anchoviesanchovies · 02/03/2024 18:50

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 18:47

They aren't dictating what you eat. They don't have that power.

They are limiting what they offer. That's not the same thing.

And the carbon footprint argument has been already more than adequately covered in this thread. In summary, the carbon footprint of meat is much higher than any of those items mentioned.

Depends on the exact circumstances of the event. If you’re forced to attend a full day work event and they are supplying the food and will only offer a limited food type then yes, they’re dictating.

And it’s only much higher if they’re careful about the items they are offering and, unless I’ve missed something, that hasn’t been clarified.

anchoviesanchovies · 02/03/2024 18:54

Ponderingwindow · 02/03/2024 14:27

People seem to be focusing the conversation on this food being optional and a bonus. My experience is that if we are getting a fed, it is because we are in all day meetings and they are bringing in catering so we don’t need to leave. They don’t even want us popping out to get a cup of tea. So it’s actually quite important that there be food for everyone.

Indeed!

theduchessofspork · 02/03/2024 19:06

Moltenpink · 01/03/2024 13:04

I’d be quite proud of my company if they did that

Well unless everything is locally sourced etc they are only doing it to save money

But anyway it’s going to result in less mess, save money, and cheap meat isn’t good for you so I think it’s fine.

IamMoodyBlue · 02/03/2024 19:08

I'm vegetarian. Have been for 40 years. I don't except to be criticised for my choices and I don't foist my choices on others.
So, no, even though I am in complete agreement with trying to reduce the carbon footprint, I'm not in favour of dictatorship.

OhcantthInkofaname · 02/03/2024 19:09

Changedasouting · 01/03/2024 13:07

As some one who medically needs a high protien low carb diet I would struggle and need to educate my self on high protien vegan options tbh

Except they are highly processed and don't reduce carbon footprint.

Kalevala · 02/03/2024 19:21

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 18:09

A lot of people seem to have missed that they are ordering for their own department - so they presumably have some autonomy over what is ordered and so can avoid upf if that's what they'd prefer, and can ensure they cater for any relevant allergies.

Doesn't help where there are multiple intolerances to common vegetarian protein sources. A friend couldn't have dairy or legumes. This would make life difficult for those with already restricted diets.

Trufflump · 02/03/2024 19:25

OhcantthInkofaname · 02/03/2024 19:09

Except they are highly processed and don't reduce carbon footprint.

My god we are like 20 pages in and this is still being repeated? A vegan sausage roll has a lower carbon footprint than a meat sausage roll.

Do you really think a few avocados or almonds makes that big a difference ??

pollymere · 02/03/2024 19:28

My son is very allergic to beetroot. Unfortunately this is a common ingredient in vegan food as it's used to mimic blood in things like vegan burgers etc. He is also allergic to quite a few other ingredients as well. This means he can't eat vegan food.

I can't eat food containing coconut which is also frequently in vegan food. I would definitely play the allergens card here. Also, palm oil features heavily in vegan food and the carbon footprint of that is immense. Ditto certain types of non-dairy milk so their argument is very flawed.

It's also offensive to those who rely on a bland diet. Sometimes you need the sandwiches to be plain ham or cheese with no mayp, with chicken nuggets on the side to accommodate those with Sensory Processing Disorders. They clearly haven't thought about that either...

Have fun pointing all of this out. I'd get a PPT with it all in for extra fun.

ZebraPensAreLife · 02/03/2024 19:34

It's also offensive to those who rely on a bland diet. Sometimes you need the sandwiches to be plain ham or cheese with no mayp, with chicken nuggets on the side to accommodate those with Sensory Processing Disorders. They clearly haven't thought about that either...

Most meat-containing corporate catering doesn’t contain sandwiches like that either…

Marieb19 · 02/03/2024 19:34

It is unreasonable of your department to force restricted dietary choices on you all. What's the betting the person is vegan. Find another department or job.

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 19:34

Most of the recent posts are covered by the fact that the department is ordering food for it's own events - so will be able to request that allergies etc are catered for.

And if someone's dietary needs are so complex that they can't be covered by a vegetarian buffet, then they would be difficult to cover for any caterer - anyone I know that has issues like this always packs their own food anyway!

Just because something is an all day event doesn't mean that people can't take food with them!

Marieb19 · 02/03/2024 19:39

You may have no objection to not eating meat but isn't it selfish to impose your dietary choices on others.

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 19:46

Marieb19 · 02/03/2024 19:39

You may have no objection to not eating meat but isn't it selfish to impose your dietary choices on others.

Nobody is doing that though.

They are being offered a free buffet lunch. They are not being forced to eat it.

Pepperpot3862 · 02/03/2024 19:48

Discrimination

CarrotOfPeace · 02/03/2024 19:52

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 16:17

But they are considering the impact of the food - that's the whole point 😆

I dread to think what the menu would be if you were catering. Grass from the local park served three ways? 🤤

They are only considering the impact by just saying right no meat. A good start imo but they can go further. I'd also ask if they have a green energy supplier. Also consider a blanket ban on emails that just say "thanks or niceties" every email uses resources and they all add up

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 20:01

CarrotOfPeace · 02/03/2024 19:52

They are only considering the impact by just saying right no meat. A good start imo but they can go further. I'd also ask if they have a green energy supplier. Also consider a blanket ban on emails that just say "thanks or niceties" every email uses resources and they all add up

Are you this discriminating about what you eat and the messages you send in real life?

How far is reasonable? At what point are they doing enough?

Because clearly there are plenty of people that think they are doing too much!

I guess if people are complaining that they are both doing too much and doing too little, maybe they've got it about right.

Kalevala · 02/03/2024 20:03

I wonder how this would be policed if ordering from a caterer that also supplies non vegetarian food? Are they checking that a quiche is goats cheese and roasted pepper or cheddar and caramelised onion but not cheddar and bacon? What if Dave, who can't eat falafel or hummus, orders some plain chicken sandwiches?

ExpatAl · 02/03/2024 20:08

What’s the big deal? We just had a staff lunch and had gorgeous fresh spring rolls and dip plus Pad Thai. All vegetarian and delish. Out org has an ethics policy too so staffing/everything is looked at. I like this.
We often use a Syrian caterer who only hires migrants.

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 20:08

Kalevala · 02/03/2024 20:03

I wonder how this would be policed if ordering from a caterer that also supplies non vegetarian food? Are they checking that a quiche is goats cheese and roasted pepper or cheddar and caramelised onion but not cheddar and bacon? What if Dave, who can't eat falafel or hummus, orders some plain chicken sandwiches?

I suspect most catering companies are pretty good at understanding what's needed if someone orders vegetarian and vegan food. If they can't manage to supply a vegetarian quiche when it's ordered, then I would be changing suppliers pdq!

I would be surprised if people are ordering individually. It sounds like someone will be ordering for the department.

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 20:10

ExpatAl · 02/03/2024 20:08

What’s the big deal? We just had a staff lunch and had gorgeous fresh spring rolls and dip plus Pad Thai. All vegetarian and delish. Out org has an ethics policy too so staffing/everything is looked at. I like this.
We often use a Syrian caterer who only hires migrants.

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Well you see, it's because they are clearly ordering nothing but avocados, soya beans and highly processed vegan food.

At least, that's the impression this thread gives 😁

ExpatAl · 02/03/2024 20:14

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 20:10

Well you see, it's because they are clearly ordering nothing but avocados, soya beans and highly processed vegan food.

At least, that's the impression this thread gives 😁

🤣

Kalevala · 02/03/2024 21:04

MassageForLife · 02/03/2024 20:08

I suspect most catering companies are pretty good at understanding what's needed if someone orders vegetarian and vegan food. If they can't manage to supply a vegetarian quiche when it's ordered, then I would be changing suppliers pdq!

I would be surprised if people are ordering individually. It sounds like someone will be ordering for the department.

So the person who places the order, orders a vegetarian sandwich selection plus some plain chicken sandwiches for Dave who can't have what's on the general menu, then would someone check up on that?

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