My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We has a young child with his ex, he told me they couldn’t make it work. But they try to be friendly for their child’s sake. She did not know about me prior to this situation.
Anyway a couple of weeks ago, around Valentine’s he was acting strangely, he just seemed distracted. I kept asking if he was okay he brushed me off. Things have been okay since between us.
But yesterday I received an message via Instagram. It’s his child’s mother, she found out about me through a mutual friend. She said he called her wanting to speak to her.
Somehow he had managed to get access to her iCloud Photos, he sat through looking for hours and spoke to her at length at what he had found, pictures from 3 years ago he was upset with her about. She said he was said he was hurt at the thought she was seeing someone else. Meanwhile im here? I don’t think her reasoning for contacting me were completely correct. He denies that what he does means he has feelings for her. But she also showed me a message from him asking the last time she had sex!
He maintains that it was just a shock to see her pictures, any questions he asks because it could change the nature of their co parenting