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To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner

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Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

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Ελλe · 23/02/2024 09:01

And I agree it’s not a race to the bottom.

just sometimes a little acknowledgement that you aren’t at the bottom is nice.

Frogetmenot · 23/02/2024 09:01

Charlie2121 · 23/02/2024 08:58

That totally misses the point.

It is not so much about affordability, it is about what behaviour the system encourages.

If it becomes a disincentive to work more that is bad news for everyone including lower paid people as overall tax receipts fall.

I havent missed the point, I earn £11.45 an hour, I'm not sure where my incentive is either😂😂😂I had to stop at one point because I couldn't afford it until my child was 3

MidnightPatrol · 23/02/2024 09:03

Frogetmenot · 23/02/2024 08:54

I agree with other posters that it should be based on household income, I don't think any house on £100k should be getting subsidised.

However this is mumsnet where apparently people struggle on that amount so.....

Let’s do a household of £100k income with one on £60k and one on £40k - no child benefit.

They take home £5,471 a month.

They have two children, aged 1 and 3.

The eldest gets tax free childcare and 30
free hours, making their nursery bill £1,200pcm

The youngest get tax free childcare. Their nursery bill is £1,800 a month.

They have a mortgage of £300k over 30 years at 4%. This is £1,400 a month.

This leaves the family with £1,071 a month to pay for their commuting, council tax, energy, bills, clothes, running a car maybe etc etc.

Is it so hard to see why things might be tight for them?

Jmaho · 23/02/2024 09:03

If she's a single parent then fair enough. It is unfair. But if she has a partner who is earning the £100k and she's not working then why she she be entitled to free childcare?

Naptrappedmummy · 23/02/2024 09:04

RiderofRohan · 23/02/2024 05:01

How much tax do people earning 12k pay vs 100k? Not anything significant I'm guessing.

As PP said, higher earners are propping up the NHS and national services for everyone else. So don't resent them too much. You can't have your cake and eat it.

This woman is right. She should be entitled to childcare given how much tax she is paying. What's the point of working if you're going to give everything to a nursery or the tax man?

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This.

Naptrappedmummy · 23/02/2024 09:05

Viviennemary · 23/02/2024 07:47

I agree. In any case the one earner/two earner household argument doesn't wash with me. Two earners going to work are two people. And where is the other parent? Why aren't they contributing. Quite prepared to help single parents on low wages. But on £100k a year - at least three times the average wage just why.

And just mention benefits for pensioners on here. The amount of income to qualify for pension credit is absolutely miniscule. So subsidies for folk on £100k is ludicrous. I don't want lower taxes. But I don't want childcare subsidies for rich folk either.

You want to be paid for by the hard work of others, basically. While slagging them off.

Vod · 23/02/2024 09:05

Charlie2121 · 23/02/2024 08:58

That totally misses the point.

It is not so much about affordability, it is about what behaviour the system encourages.

If it becomes a disincentive to work more that is bad news for everyone including lower paid people as overall tax receipts fall.

Exactly.

People respond to incentives and disincentives. This is the same whether the disincentive is losing access to full free hours or free school meals. Someone else's take on whether the person needs the money or the provision doesn't factor into it, because why on earth would it? Vanishingly few of us have opinions that are taken any notice of beyond our family and friends, if that.

So the question is simply whether people are egotistical enough to think their political stance on the undeserving rich/undeserving poor should outweigh the need for policy that doesn't discourage working.

Qwertyfudge · 23/02/2024 09:06

I don’t earn anywhere near 100k but can see that the system we have is strangling progress. Universal free childcare, child benefit for all and the protection of the personal allowance would encourage young families to earn more because they feel the benefit of every extra pound they earn. Every time a high earner comes on here complaining about the tax hit they have, they are advised to pay more into their pensions or refuse a bonus to ensure they are not worse off, this is insane!

Frogetmenot · 23/02/2024 09:07

MidnightPatrol · 23/02/2024 09:03

Let’s do a household of £100k income with one on £60k and one on £40k - no child benefit.

They take home £5,471 a month.

They have two children, aged 1 and 3.

The eldest gets tax free childcare and 30
free hours, making their nursery bill £1,200pcm

The youngest get tax free childcare. Their nursery bill is £1,800 a month.

They have a mortgage of £300k over 30 years at 4%. This is £1,400 a month.

This leaves the family with £1,071 a month to pay for their commuting, council tax, energy, bills, clothes, running a car maybe etc etc.

Is it so hard to see why things might be tight for them?

See above, I earn £11.45 an hour. A smaller mortgage perhaps? I don't know. Everyone has to make sacrifices to support their children. I could definitely, very easily, live on £100 flipping k a year

MintsPi · 23/02/2024 09:08

Not everyone on low wages gets everything handed to them for free. We have an income of 30k a year. We get child benefit for one child. That is it. We don't get any other top ups as we own our own home. We don't use free childcare as we work opposing hours. I'm working 10 hours tomorrow away from my family for £104.01.

Naptrappedmummy · 23/02/2024 09:09

IfYourHorseSaysNo · 23/02/2024 01:15

From £100k to £125k you effectively lose your personal allowance too.

Unless you’re earning well over £100k, it can be with putting extra into your pension, get yourself under the £100k and then you can get your tax free childcare and free hours.

You can think it’s unfair OP, but break down the figures.

Someone we know earns just over £100k. By the time they’ve paid their mortgage of £1.5k (normal 3 bed semi), childcare of £3.6k and their student loan, they can’t even cover their food and bills. They put a few thousand extra into their pension and get help with childcare costs.

People hear £100k and think you must be rich, but if you’re paying childcare costs, it’s just not the case. And tbh, these people are paying lots of tax so getting a bit back for a few years when their children are young seems fair to me.
They are ‘the taxpayer’, the actual net contributors.

Sometimes I think those that are topped up via UC, receive CoL payments/benefits, free prescriptions, free nursery hours, cheaper days out, have their rent paid and all the rest of it, are royally out of touch with how much these things actually cost an average or higher earner because they never have to pay them themselves. If they saw the figures, they’d get a shock. Easier to bleat on about ‘the wealthy’ and how they should be giving them more though I suppose.

MCOut · 23/02/2024 09:09

Willyoujustbequiet · 23/02/2024 08:47

Whereas here childcare would be approx £800 plus £700 for a decent house leaving nearly £3500 per month on that salary.

I agree OP, it's ridiculous.

London generates something like 30% of UK taxes and has a disproportionately high portion of jobs that are this high paying. If everybody chose to live in a cheap part of the country, chances are they wouldn’t be earning as much and less taxes would be raised.

ClockHolly · 23/02/2024 09:10

TheOneWithUnagi · 23/02/2024 00:46

There was a massive thread on this the other week with some good arguments.

My view:

It's a stupid economic argument to cap at £100k, people drop hours or pay additional pension contributions to avoid the £100k cliff edge. This reduces tax take with no tangible benefit to the taxpayer. This is because it's such a penal cliff edge that you would need to earn 120k or more (depending on how many kids you have in childcare) to take home the same amount as £100k. You can (and do) have the situation where getting a small bonus costs you money due to the cliff edge.

Also the £100k was introduced years ago and would be closer to £130k if it had increased with inflation. Why is £100k the right number? If it never moves then even average earners will be hit eventually with fiscal drag.

Reframe "childcare" as early years education (which it is) and there is a nonsensical argument as to why we universally fund schools for age 4 plus but don't fund under 3 education in the same way.

I agree with this completely. No one says that higher earners should have to pay for a reception place or to take their children to the GP. Why is early years education different?

My OH earns over the threshold (I’m nowhere near) and so we don’t get Tax Free Childcare or funded hours. It feels very unfair not to be able to benefit from a tax system which you are contributing more to. We would be better off if he could go part time as we’d save on nursery costs (two pre schoolers) and become eligible again. That’s an insane policy position from the government - people paying less tax and contributing less to society and yet could still be better off.

Ultimately @Viviennemary, the country needs higher earners in order to support the needs of those on £12k per year. Why is it fair that they are economically penalised for doing so?

Naptrappedmummy · 23/02/2024 09:10

MCOut · 23/02/2024 09:09

London generates something like 30% of UK taxes and has a disproportionately high portion of jobs that are this high paying. If everybody chose to live in a cheap part of the country, chances are they wouldn’t be earning as much and less taxes would be raised.

I agree. I’ve never lived in London, or the South East, but have no time for this selective misunderstanding about why the city operates on a different financial level to the rest of us (and why it benefits the rest of the country).

TheOneWithUnagi · 23/02/2024 09:11

DyslexicPoster · 23/02/2024 08:02

I just do not understand how any nursery could be 4k a month. It was only few years ago my forest school nursery in a converted barn in a area of SSI 40 miles from London was 1k a month. It was 10mins walk to a station that got to London in 1 hour and 3 bed semi is 555k. So not a cheap area to live

A full time nursery place here, Home Counties but not london is £2307.50 with no funding. This is 7:30-6. They also do an extended day 7-7 which is £3185 per month.

We joined the same nursery 2.5 years ago and the day rate has increased by 77% for the long day and 32% for the shorter day. Waiting lists are long so it's difficult to easily change nurseries, but they have all increased their prices.

Pleasebeafleabite · 23/02/2024 09:12

Merrymouse · 23/02/2024 08:14

I think you may be misinformed about the replacement cost of an entire person.

Missing your point I’m afraid. Most £99K jobs carry at least three times salary death in service benefit which is of course more than enough to pay a few years of childcare at nursery. And of course you can always buy your own.

BrandiHeeler · 23/02/2024 09:12

Why is it assumed that childcare fees are paid solely by mothers? Surely they are split equally between both parents? Unless, of course a parent has sadly died.

We need to stop making childcare only a women’s problem. It is the responsibility of both parents/ the family income to pay for childcare!

MalvernValentine · 23/02/2024 09:16

Families on incomes of £50k get at least £700 pm per child in free childcare and child benefit. That family would need to earn at least £10k gross per child to cover those expenses that they get for free.

So those on £50k actually benefit by the tune of £10k per child, whilst still paying about £6k in tax.

The £100k family pay over £30k in tax plus their own childcare/no child benefit.

Doesn't take a lot of brains to work out a 50k household between 2 incomes with 2 kids in childcare is better off than a £100k one income family with 2 kids.

The resentment towards the very people who are funding this support and not benefitting is ridiculous.

Critical thinking is a desirable skill for top paid positions. Might be worth a couple of the bitter people on this post considering.

Willyoujustbequiet · 23/02/2024 09:16

MCOut · 23/02/2024 09:09

London generates something like 30% of UK taxes and has a disproportionately high portion of jobs that are this high paying. If everybody chose to live in a cheap part of the country, chances are they wouldn’t be earning as much and less taxes would be raised.

I was only pointing out that the example given was a bit misleading as it didn't accurately reflect reality for much of the country.

jm9138 · 23/02/2024 09:18

Willyoujustbequiet · 23/02/2024 08:36

And some people are high earners, fall on hard times and then become high earners again. Just because someone earns £12k once doesn't mean they always have or will.

It's always foolish to make judgements. People on low incomes can work just as hard or have just as stressful jobs as people on high incomes. In many cases more so.

I agree and none of that contradicts my point. I was not making a judgement about anything - I was pointing out that whilst there are many valid and varied reasons for people earning £12k they all depending on the person earning more so they can enjoy the standard of living they have. It is just a fact not a judgement.

There are structural causes for people earning £12k that are outside of their control (or certainly a lot harder to resolve than for other people) - such as lack of societal investment in their education or access to land and capital due to the way our society lets the means of production aggregate down family generations (largely due to the way we so aggressively tax earned income rather than unearned income). Whilst I don't believe it is deliberately done, I think it is a happy consequence to the wealthy (and by that I mean wealth in terms of land and capital ownership and not those with high incomes) that public sector tax and spending policy makes those with low incomes resent those on high incomes and vice versa rather than all looking at the few with the actual wealth and how their wealth could be better deployed for the good of us all.

Joleyne · 23/02/2024 09:20

We should be looking deeper into the provision of childcare and why it's so expensive.

The Government has known for some time that funding is inadequate and childcare is prohibitively expensive. Their response is attempt to bribe the electorate via the so-called "free" childcare scheme.

Childcare has become big business for some with shareholders and investors.
The expansion of the 30 hour "free" childcare scheme benefits these shareholders, many of them foreign, allowing them to claim money from the Government.
Smaller, independent settings do not have investors to tide them over, so they're going out of business. Ofsted is contributing to this situation by suspending settings at a moment's notice, sometimes for months.
That's why parents are having such difficulty finding childcare places, let alone affordable ones.

Childcare workers have been warning for years that this situation would arise. The Government did nothing.
Presumably the current situation is precisely what the Government wanted. We already know that Rishi Sunak's wife was at one time a shareholder in a childcare business. I wonder how many others benefit.

MidnightPatrol · 23/02/2024 09:21

Frogetmenot · 23/02/2024 09:07

See above, I earn £11.45 an hour. A smaller mortgage perhaps? I don't know. Everyone has to make sacrifices to support their children. I could definitely, very easily, live on £100 flipping k a year

They are making sacrifices to support they children.

It is you that is criticising them, for saying they are struggling to make ends meet, given the very high cost of living when paying for childcare.

How do you pay for two sets of childcare fees on £11.45 an hour? Given it's easy for you to afford day-to-day life, it would be great to hear your advice on how others can achieve the same.

Mara246 · 23/02/2024 09:23

jm9138 · 23/02/2024 00:29

@Viviennemary to put this into perspective, that persons partner earning £100k will be paying £33k a year in income tax to pay for the person on £12k a years benefits, healthcare, education their children have and child care their children have. If she had access to affordable - or god forbid free - childcare the woman with the £100k a year partner may actually be able to work herself and in future pay even more in tax to support the person on £12k.

Some people earn £12k because they are sick or single parents. Some earn £12k because they are low skilled and a bit trapped in often undervalued occupations. Some earn £12k because they couldn’t be bothered at school and have no interest in bettering themselves because they are happy with their lot. But they all rely on the people who did make the effort to better themselves and/or do work hard or stressful jobs that might not always be especially fulfilling to pay the taxes required for the people earning £12k to enjoy the benefits of the welfare state they enjoy.

Somebody has to do the 12k jobs and it's not just a matter of working hard at school or making the effort to better yourself. Clearly someone on12k can't afford to pay tax. Full-time work, whatever it is, should be paying enough to live on. A lot of people on high salaries are doing jobs which have little value to society and think it's okay to pay low wages to others, then complain that the low earners aren't contributing.

aquarimum · 23/02/2024 09:24

As mentioned upthread, full time minimum wage is around 24k. You’d also get child benefit, subsidised childcare and you’d probably be eligible for shared ownership housing.

Iwasafool · 23/02/2024 09:25

MidnightPatrol · 23/02/2024 07:15

Between the removal of the personal allowance and loss of childcare support I am paying an effective rate of over 100% between £100-125k.

Not really possible to increase that.

Your overall tax might be higher though. I don't know the figures but if your tax free allowance reduced or disappeared and the tax rate up to £100k increased it is possible that your tax bill would increase.

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