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To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner

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Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

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Fairyliz · 23/02/2024 07:56

BlowDryRat · 23/02/2024 00:19

The point she was making (badly, TBF), is that if she and her DH each earned £99k, they'd get the free childcare but because one of them earns £100k, they get nothing. This means that a family income of £199999.99 can pay £0 for childcare, while a family with a household income of half that on £100000.00 pays £4k a month for the same childcare. This is inherently unfair but it also pushes the lower earner (usually the mother) to either go part-time or become a SAHP. As the woman on NN, was saying this is both bad for the mother who wants to work more and for the economy, which needs women paying income tax to fund pensions, the NHS, support for Ukraine etc

Or if you are are clever enough to earn that much can’t you go to your employer and say reduce my pay by £1?

Pleasebeafleabite · 23/02/2024 07:56

Anameisaname · 23/02/2024 07:42

What if you are a single parent. Who chooses then?
I'm a single parent and earn over that threshold. I accept that I pay tax and I'm happy to do so.
It's the unfairness that's the issue. 2 x parents who earn 99k each get help that one parent who earns 100k doesn't. Makes no sense.
If we want to remove free childcare from high earners, then that's fine and I can understand the arguments for that. But you're either a wealthy household or you are not.
Anyone who argues that a single salary of 100k should have no childcare but 2 salaries of 99k should is mad IMHO

Your child has another parent. Just in another household. If they could put the child in nursery, then they could get the benefits of tax relief, if their earnings were at the right level.

I know in practice that parents don’t always pay for their offspring or the other parent may be deceased but purely from a tax perspective, this is not a sensible argument.

Porridgeislife · 23/02/2024 07:58

My pension looks great as I’ve contributed nearly everything over £100k into it during my 30s. Most years it’s worked out to be a very similar amount either as a tax bill or pension contribution so I had to pay it either way.

We pay twice for nursery, once because we don’t qualify for funded hours and again because the funding doesn’t cover the cost for the nursery, so fully paid places are higher to cover the shortfall.

None of this contributes to productivity but that’s the way the tax system encourages you to behave if a rational person.

BaroqueInterlude · 23/02/2024 07:58

Two people earning 50k each would pay far less tax than one person earning £100k.

I don't think this woman is badly off in the wide scheme of things compared to folk on minimum wage, but there are inequalities like this for the single earner compared to double income households, which she was not wrong to highlight.

kirbykirby · 23/02/2024 07:59

YABU. Folks on just over £12k per year will pay minimum tax on their income whilst being entitled to lots of help from the benefits system (paid for by the taxes of this lady who will be paying something like £30k from her £100k income in tax alone!). She has every right to feel pissed off.

Pleasebeafleabite · 23/02/2024 08:00

Merrymouse · 23/02/2024 07:51

Unfortunately a child does not necessarily have another living parent. Bereavement support is another thread, but as with Child Benefit, this kind of tax and benefit rule is very blunt and doesn’t account for reasons why another parent may not just be stepping in to provide support.

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But that’s why we have life insurance which is very inexpensive for the amount of benefit provided.

Neapolitanicecream · 23/02/2024 08:00

@transformandriseup

slightly off topic can I ask what you do that gives you a £30k retirement pension ? Just had a shock at how low mine is for working 30 odd years 😪

DyslexicPoster · 23/02/2024 08:02

I just do not understand how any nursery could be 4k a month. It was only few years ago my forest school nursery in a converted barn in a area of SSI 40 miles from London was 1k a month. It was 10mins walk to a station that got to London in 1 hour and 3 bed semi is 555k. So not a cheap area to live

MalvernValentine · 23/02/2024 08:02

Ελλe · 23/02/2024 07:19

I think the thing that rubs people up the wrong way is the failure to acknowledge that even after tax deductions at £100k you are still significantly better off than a very large proportion of the country

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It really isn't a race to the bottom. Granted the average household is earning less. But I put money on you being annoyed if you worked a 60hr week with enormous pressure to have £33k taxed and then be sneered at for not being able to access the benefits you pay for.

Workworkandmoreworknow · 23/02/2024 08:03

While higher earners should definitely pay more tax, we cannot keep expecting people to pay higher tax rates and not see any benefits

so someone paying at the higher rate of tax doesn't have roads to drive on, can't phone 999 and expect fire/ambulance/police to turn up, won't get a school place for their child, didn't get maternity care at their local hospital etc etc etc?

But they all rely on the people who did make the effort to better themselves and/or do work hard or stressful jobs that might not always be especially fulfilling to pay the taxes required for the people earning £12k to enjoy the benefits of the welfare state they enjoy

is this what we're reduced to now? berating people for working, just not working hard enough? Looking at a person's tax contribution to determine whether or not they are a useful member of society?

mfbx5sf3 · 23/02/2024 08:03

The women could pay more into her pension and would get the hours.

bingboo121 · 23/02/2024 08:04

Anameisaname · 23/02/2024 07:42

What if you are a single parent. Who chooses then?
I'm a single parent and earn over that threshold. I accept that I pay tax and I'm happy to do so.
It's the unfairness that's the issue. 2 x parents who earn 99k each get help that one parent who earns 100k doesn't. Makes no sense.
If we want to remove free childcare from high earners, then that's fine and I can understand the arguments for that. But you're either a wealthy household or you are not.
Anyone who argues that a single salary of 100k should have no childcare but 2 salaries of 99k should is mad IMHO

Same like with child benefit isnt it, 2 people can earn 49999 and get full CB- but if one earns 55000 then its reduced and at 60000 nothing at all.

Sunaks not interested tho, he wants to send more bmbs to gaza costing 100 000 each

aquarimum · 23/02/2024 08:04

I hope all of those people telling higher earners to work less have never complained about getting a GP appointment. Most GPs I know are working less because of tax and workload….

As a household, we paid well north of £100k in tax for 22-23; we’re both higher earners and we bought a house, so paid loads of stamp duty. For this we get childcare vouchers only because my DH hasn’t moved jobs since childcare vouchers were offered. We’ve never had child benefit. Public services are a bit shit. Why should my household subsidise anyone earning any less? That’s not a particular path I’d want to go down.

In the SE, £100k is not a good income if you need to pay childcare, commute costs, a mortgage and student loan. Some people really don’t have a clue.

Doingmybest12 · 23/02/2024 08:04

I think the issues are about our low wage economy and how the country subsidises employers through supporting low wage families financially. People are pitted against each other through this as is evident in this thread. Many people on low wages are contributing their labour to support basic services for which they are not paid enough, society tops up for the employer.

Porridgeislife · 23/02/2024 08:04

DyslexicPoster · 23/02/2024 08:02

I just do not understand how any nursery could be 4k a month. It was only few years ago my forest school nursery in a converted barn in a area of SSI 40 miles from London was 1k a month. It was 10mins walk to a station that got to London in 1 hour and 3 bed semi is 555k. So not a cheap area to live

Full time place in the Home Counties is £1800 currently; my friends in London pay £2K. Presumably she’s got 2 children in nursery.

aquarimum · 23/02/2024 08:04

Also the govt can happily figure out how much a household earns for benefits, it can’t be rocket science to do it for tax…

Comtesse · 23/02/2024 08:05

Cliff edges in taxation systems feel very unfair whether you earn £10k or £100k. Especially when couples under the threshold are not affected. No point in being nasty about it.

Scarletttulips · 23/02/2024 08:05

You are all looking at this the tottlay wrong way round.

The government should ot be subsidizing childcare - they should be forcing businesses to pay their staff a living wage so everyone can pay their own childcare fees.

Before the min wage hit, people worked to afford homes and childcare - homes were affordable in one wage and woman usually stayed home for the first few years.

Now there’s a minimum wage cap - and it is a cap where staff with 20 years experince earn the same as new starters. Which is madness!!

There’s no way this should be out of control and giverment is paying a huge price for something labour brought in and it’s screwed the economy massively.

bingboo121 · 23/02/2024 08:05

mfbx5sf3 · 23/02/2024 08:03

The women could pay more into her pension and would get the hours.

there is usually a cap of self contributions,like 6%,she might have maxed out

avocadotofu · 23/02/2024 08:05

edwinbear · 23/02/2024 00:16

I saw it too, but the reality is that we’re reaching a tipping point in the UK, where people earning those sort of salaries (and it’s not many of them) are propping up the entire country. Somebody earning £12k a year is paying nowhere near enough tax to fund their own DC’s childcare and that woman’s tax bill is funding maybe 3 kids childcare bills plus having to pay for her own on top. And the general consensus from the general public is that she should pay even more. I’m not surprised she’s ’whining’.

Exactly this. Truly wealthy people are not salaried.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 23/02/2024 08:07

But it is a bonkers system. Two parent household each earning 99k so 198k total, get free childcare while a single parent earning 100k doesn’t?? I know they have to have a cap but they should do it by household total not individual earnings. Maybe she made the point badly but it needs addressing.

Astonetogo · 23/02/2024 08:08

jm9138 · 23/02/2024 00:29

@Viviennemary to put this into perspective, that persons partner earning £100k will be paying £33k a year in income tax to pay for the person on £12k a years benefits, healthcare, education their children have and child care their children have. If she had access to affordable - or god forbid free - childcare the woman with the £100k a year partner may actually be able to work herself and in future pay even more in tax to support the person on £12k.

Some people earn £12k because they are sick or single parents. Some earn £12k because they are low skilled and a bit trapped in often undervalued occupations. Some earn £12k because they couldn’t be bothered at school and have no interest in bettering themselves because they are happy with their lot. But they all rely on the people who did make the effort to better themselves and/or do work hard or stressful jobs that might not always be especially fulfilling to pay the taxes required for the people earning £12k to enjoy the benefits of the welfare state they enjoy.

And some people earn £12k a year and work bloody hard for it at jobs that are necessary for society to function but which are criminally undervalued. Like carers, for example.

avocadotofu · 23/02/2024 08:08

Guavafish1 · 23/02/2024 01:59

Child care cost should be universal and benefit all in society. Like child benefit previously. I think it's fair and actually helps WOMEN!

Stop the fight to the bottom.

I absolutely agree with this.

Dibblydoodahdah · 23/02/2024 08:09

DyslexicPoster · 23/02/2024 08:02

I just do not understand how any nursery could be 4k a month. It was only few years ago my forest school nursery in a converted barn in a area of SSI 40 miles from London was 1k a month. It was 10mins walk to a station that got to London in 1 hour and 3 bed semi is 555k. So not a cheap area to live

Mine was also £1k a month also about 40 miles from London. It’s now £1.4k for the same nursery. The one I used was always cheaper than the nurseries in the nearest large town and significantly cheaper than those in London. It’s now £2 to £2.5k for many nurseries in London.

Bunnycat101 · 23/02/2024 08:12

It’s a stupid hard threshold as is the child benefit threshold. Many people have already given the examples of dropping hours, paying more into pensions etc. it drives behaviour that isn’t economically efficient.

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