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To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner

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Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

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Jojobees · 24/02/2024 22:07

jm9138 · 23/02/2024 00:29

@Viviennemary to put this into perspective, that persons partner earning £100k will be paying £33k a year in income tax to pay for the person on £12k a years benefits, healthcare, education their children have and child care their children have. If she had access to affordable - or god forbid free - childcare the woman with the £100k a year partner may actually be able to work herself and in future pay even more in tax to support the person on £12k.

Some people earn £12k because they are sick or single parents. Some earn £12k because they are low skilled and a bit trapped in often undervalued occupations. Some earn £12k because they couldn’t be bothered at school and have no interest in bettering themselves because they are happy with their lot. But they all rely on the people who did make the effort to better themselves and/or do work hard or stressful jobs that might not always be especially fulfilling to pay the taxes required for the people earning £12k to enjoy the benefits of the welfare state they enjoy.

I earn 12k a year…. I do not enjoy the welfare state benefits. I do not claim any benefits.

2andadog · 24/02/2024 22:21

Jojobees · 24/02/2024 22:07

I earn 12k a year…. I do not enjoy the welfare state benefits. I do not claim any benefits.

How are you surviving? I guess your household income is higher overall? Genuinely curious, no shade!

Mittleme · 24/02/2024 22:24

it just seems unfair that working hard these days you pay more than half of your salary in taxes 100k take home is like £5000k a month
it's not whining it's too much taxes and don't blame her for whining

jm9138 · 24/02/2024 22:38

Jojobees · 24/02/2024 22:07

I earn 12k a year…. I do not enjoy the welfare state benefits. I do not claim any benefits.

The welfare state is not just financial payments into your bank account. It includes the NHS. You might say ‘I never use the NHS’ but the fact is that this is provided for you if you should ever need it. You slip in the shower tomorrow and break your leg? There is a hospital there with doctors and nurses who will fix you up after the ambulance had taken you there. And none of it will cost you a penny at the point you need it. And you will be given some sickness pay if you cannot work whilst you recover. The welfare state (ie other tax payers) provide this insurance for you by paying for the hospitals and the salaries of staff and any drugs, surgeries or implants you would need. And you know if you cannot wipe your arse whilst you recover? The welfare state will provide someone to do that for you too.

If you think that having this insurance is not worth anything I have some Americans I would like you to meet where the average cover costs almost $500 a month (and will still have deductibles and copayments). Now if you guarantee that if you ever get ill you just will not ever use the NHS or claim sickness benefits or the social care to support you as you recuperate then I guess I would concede that you probably don’t enjoy benefits of the welfare state.

Catniss123 · 24/02/2024 22:45

@TheOneWithUnagi yeah he earns 100k but his income is complicated as it’s made up of bonuses, salary and commission so he never quite knows until end of tax year what it’ll be. This year will be much higher so he doesn’t want to put it into pension. I am aware we are very fortunate to be in this situation and we can comfortably afford the childcare without the benefits but my point is it does not make any sense to give a family whose combined earnings is 190k tax free childcare and 30hrs free hours but a family who earns 120k gets nothing doesn’t make any sense to me!

BIossomtoes · 24/02/2024 22:45

Mittleme · 24/02/2024 22:24

it just seems unfair that working hard these days you pay more than half of your salary in taxes 100k take home is like £5000k a month
it's not whining it's too much taxes and don't blame her for whining

When I started work in 1971 the basic rate was 38.75%, with 8% NI on top. That’s what everyone paid, not just high earners.

Curtainseeker · 24/02/2024 22:46

I think the point is if there were two adults in the household earning 99k each you would qualify

or if two parents or a single parent sits on benefits they qualify as the child is classed as disadvantaged

Or if one parent is a lot older and claiming state and a private pension over the minimum threshold of 167.50 per week but far less than a 100k income household they don’t qualify

The system has gaps, that is the point. So no it isn’t inherently fair

noodlebugz · 24/02/2024 22:51

I was reading something that a problem in rhe UK is that people on 100k don’t ‘feel very wealthy’ despite being well in the top 5% of earners. I wish I could find a source as the article was interesting.

Catniss123 · 24/02/2024 23:03

@noodlebugz the reason why 100k earners do not feel very wealthy is because these 100k jobs are often in London where it cost an arm to buy a very average modest house and childcare is extortion! We are just outside of London and our childcare cost is £2k a month for 1 child. A lot of my friends pay 4k for 2 kids to attend and another 2k on mortgage so yes I don’t feel wealthy and non of my 100k London living earning friends do either.

ftp · 24/02/2024 23:04

Notcontent · 23/02/2024 01:25

Yes, it is unfair. I no longer need childcare, but if I did, I would be mightily pissed off. As a lone parent on a reasonably good salary I have never qualified for any help with anything. Even council tax is discriminatory as I only get a small single person discount.

Council tax reduction does seem fair to me - you still have a bin to empty, a street to clean, street lighting, environmental protection, policing to protect your home, a library to use. It is always a little uneven because we without young children, also contribute to education, free school meals, childcare for example. That is what a caring community does

Femme2804 · 24/02/2024 23:20

my DH earns £100k . I SAHM and cant work because i have disabled children. Eventhough i dont need childcare anymore but Its very unfair. Not all people can work due to circumstances. Childcare should be based on household income not one person income.

masterblaster · 24/02/2024 23:21

ClutchingOurBananas · 24/02/2024 20:28

The diplomatic services, the armed forces, HMRC, road safety policy, bovine TB control programmes, newt protection services, the land registry, carbon emissions monitoring and trading schemes…

Loads of stuff. That’s just the tip
of the stuff the state does you don’t even think about iceberg.

the Aqueduct?

masterblaster · 24/02/2024 23:31

ftp · 24/02/2024 23:04

Council tax reduction does seem fair to me - you still have a bin to empty, a street to clean, street lighting, environmental protection, policing to protect your home, a library to use. It is always a little uneven because we without young children, also contribute to education, free school meals, childcare for example. That is what a caring community does

if you increase the discount on the council tax to make it fair, you end up with the poll tax, which causes riots.

ftp · 24/02/2024 23:33

A lot will depend on where she lives too. As a young couple we were forced out of our London home area by rental prices. My grandparents are long gone, but the properties around their former home go from £3K to £5K per month rent (Although you can a distance away pick up something for as little😂as £2.1K). I just looked up the local nursery and we are talking £1.6K per month, plus early and late hours supplements, which I guess she might be paying if she is a high earner. Eye watering, isn't it?

It is easily possibly to create a set of rules that make it fairer and even, BUT if there is only one wage earner in a couple, surely it is possible for the other parent to be the child carer?

masterblaster · 24/02/2024 23:34

Jojobees · 24/02/2024 22:07

I earn 12k a year…. I do not enjoy the welfare state benefits. I do not claim any benefits.

Well then, claim the benefits. Problem solved.

MelBD123 · 24/02/2024 23:39

Correct me if I m wrong - 100k threshold relates to adjusted net income. If the gross annual pay is on or over 100k, the adjusted net income equals the gross annual salary minus the pension contribution. Therefore, you can earn quite a bit more than 100k while still qualifying for tax-free childcare and 30 hours etc.

MumsGoneToYonderLand · 24/02/2024 23:41

BCBird · 23/02/2024 05:06

Having children is a choice surely?

Yes it is of course a choice. Please also remember that when our children become adults they are the ones paying for the NHS, social services and state pensions of us all when we are old. People seem to think their ‘stamp’ NI, etc are saved up somehow to cover all this ( “it’s what we are used, we posted taxes all our lives” etc) but they don’t. Kids will be taxed to death to pay for their parents’ entire generation ( even the childless ones) and even their very aged grandparents

ftp · 24/02/2024 23:50

Jojobees · 24/02/2024 22:07

I earn 12k a year…. I do not enjoy the welfare state benefits. I do not claim any benefits.

Why not @Jojobees ? At £12K you pay no tax, but claiming tax credits, just for the little £570 difference will open doors for free prescriptions, eye tests, fuel payments, and, if you can find one, free NHS dental treatment. This is NOT a benefit, it is your entitlement.

Catniss123 · 25/02/2024 00:50

@ftp £1600 per month in childcare cost in London is considered cheap 😂 All the ones near me are around 2k

SomewhereInTheMIdlands · 25/02/2024 02:38

There is no way that child care COSTS £4K per month. For it to cost anything like that, you would have to be subsidising so many of societies real parasites and freeloaders. Same with the aged car situation and everything to do with the housing market. As for the lowest paid 'not contributing to society' I would more correctly say that barring that tiny percentage avoiding work, the lumpen mass of low paid workers are actually subsidising everyone else on account of delivering goods and services far more cheaply than you should be paying. Also, as a couple, we spent most of the last 15 years before retirement living on circa £10kpa in between shitty underpaid part time jobs, no benefits as we had savings. 30% of that £10k was spent on taxes.

SomewhereInTheMIdlands · 25/02/2024 02:49

Catniss123 · 25/02/2024 00:50

@ftp £1600 per month in childcare cost in London is considered cheap 😂 All the ones near me are around 2k

Someone is getting rich. Not the low paid worker actually doing the job, she couldn't afford child care herself.

RiderofRohan · 25/02/2024 06:06

BIossomtoes · 24/02/2024 13:35

Completely agree. But a one off profit isn’t really income, is it? He’s not going to sell a field every year.

Oh, it's income when he invests it wisely and then benefits off the dividends every year. He would have taken advice from an accountant not to piss it away on a luxury package holiday for the family.

Coco1379 · 25/02/2024 06:19

Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

Generally for low paid workers the cost of childcare exceeds the benefit of working. So those who do actually work and pay a small amount of tax ARE contributing something. Without the free childcare working would not be a viable proposition and they would be SAH parents collecting Universal Credit. Then the higher paid workers would whinge that they’re lazy layabouts and all the other disgusting names those who are better off call disadvantaged wage or benefit recipients. Mrs £100 py should recognise that the people caring for her children are the very people who are low paid workers. She should try living on those tiny incomes and know what it is to struggle every day to feed children, keep them warm and healthy. We are all on the precipice of suddenly becoming sick, disabled or some other tragedy so don’t disparage others who are living with misfortune.

ThinkingForward · 25/02/2024 06:37

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 21:06

It will be very interesting to see if they end up getting a return for their investment. They face several hurdles:

  1. If nursery fees increase to a price beyond which people cannot pay, they will lose any means of getting a return for their investment.
  2. Once most people are in receipt of funding, it will be the local authorities and not the investors dictating the rules. If someone in receipt of 30 hour funding decides not to pay for wraparound fees or food, but wants to send their child when it suits THEM and not the nursery, and the local authority backs them up, the investors won’t be able to do a thing about it.
  3. Minimum wage will rise alongside the increased fees. The profit margins are already tiny - how can this possibly change?

I don’t know why investors are interested in nurseries - it’s a complete mystery to me. It’s never been an industry that makes money serious enough to attract investment. Your average nursery owner would struggle to get a mortgage or a bank loan.

That said, I don’t work in finance, obviously. So there must be some incentive that I’m not aware of.

Depends on location, in some areas typically large towns and small cities they can be highly cash positive. However it only works as an extension of a property business.

ThinkingForward · 25/02/2024 06:42

BeFreed · 24/02/2024 21:22

A few comments on here that seem rather derogatory towards low earners- implying those earning that must be “low skilled” or “trapped” well I don’t earn far more than £12k and I have a degree. I used to earn over £40k 20 years ago (in my early twenties) but I went part time in a different job, intentionally ( was very hard to work part time in my old industry) so to assume everyone on low incomes has accidentally failed is wrong. I made the choice because I don’t want to work many hours. And others aren’t subsiding me either, I get no benefits at all because my husband earns a good salary and his tax pays for everyone else. So stop assuming everyone on £12k are either sponging off other families or have failed. When I have most of my time off to do other things I enjoy and spend time with my children I don’t consider that losing at life. I think I am lucky I had the choice to earn less and have more time.

Sounds like quite a privilege, but surely you should be fiscally responsible for this and not expect so much pension for example in later life

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