I am sick of the double standard in telling average/lower earners to live within their means but somehow people on a very good wage are allowed to complain about things being too expensive.
This is what causes the resentment, the attitude that when people on low earnings are struggling, it's all about choices, it's all about them, personally and their failings. But someone on a higher wage? Well it's everyone else's fault, the scroungers who don't earn much have it all handed to them, the government for taxing them too much, the system, the same parameters don't apply.
High earners are quite happy to use the services provided by low earners, but don't want to pay more for those services and don't want to support them through taxation either. Seemingly they would like them to provide the services and then just vanish until they're needed again to serve the better portion of society. I think there's a disconnect that society, including high earners, rely on and want the services that low earners provide.
The resentment runs both ways, the low earners are quite often providing services that are relied upon and resented for being low earners and needing taxation from 'hard working' high earners to support that.
The high earners are resented for being high earners and not paying more tax, and complaining about the tax they do pay and where it goes and the lifestyle impact.
Both I think, are being shafted.
This is always only ever viewed as financial contributions, talking about 'net contributers' but there is a bigger picture where the work people do, for their low wage, means children and elderly people get looked after, shops are open, you have places to go to enjoy yourself, the bins are emptied and there's a dinner lady and TA at school...... Their contribution is not financial but it is valid, because life would be very different without those roles. If you remove the bottom of the pyramid, the whole thing collapses. Those at the bottom are just as important as those at the top for making it all work.
All that said I do think the system for childcare and the £100k cut off is unfair, and yes it should be changed, absolutely. But it should apply across the board, no one, no matter what they earn, should be coming out with less money for working more or getting a promotion. It happens from the lowest earner to the highest in some form. And people should not be needing top ups when they work full-time no matter what they do.