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AIBU?

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To question the cost of this pasta salad?

109 replies

Pastasaladage · 19/02/2024 13:47

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School have emailed today and all the children in DD class will be learning to cook a pasta salad one morning next week.(it is part of their topic)

A lovely person who runs cookery classes is coming in to take the session.

Parents have been asked to pay £13 per child.

AIBU to think this excessive?!

OP posts:
DinnaeFashYersel · 19/02/2024 23:49

That's outrageous

If it's being taught at school the cost should be zero.

JanglingJack · 20/02/2024 00:01

Hah! 13 quid for a bit of pasta with some chicken and peppers in. Even if she is charging £20 an hour that doesn't add up with 25 kids unless she's boiling the water with the heat from her hands alone.
Silly woman just lost herself a contract.

Pasta salad... 🤣

JanglingJack · 20/02/2024 00:03

CactusMactus · 19/02/2024 15:57

If you can pay it - pay it.
If you can't pay it - don't pay it.

Okay... A well thought out response there. Good to see both sides of the story.

AdoraBell · 20/02/2024 00:08

Ask the teacher/school for a breakdown of the costs for ingredients for 1 portion.

Thedogscollar · 20/02/2024 00:10

Jeez is it Gordon Ramsay giving the lesson?
Ridiculous price for some pasta.

SheepAndSword · 20/02/2024 00:12

I like pasta...but...

Chase it up with school.

Pastasaladage · 20/02/2024 00:17

@Heather37231 I've checked all the school Comms about it and it is £13.04p

OP posts:
NewJobNewMeNewLife · 20/02/2024 00:19

As previous poster said, I would refuse to pay on principle.
the school are being tone deaf, excluding children from a fun activity and putting unreasonable pressure on parents.
if confirmed, then the school appear to be so out of touch that it’s absolutely shocking and I would begin to question their judgement and whether they are living in the real world.
if that is the correct figures, the school should have addressed it in whatever they sent it out explaining it was high but this was the reason.

whatajoke26 · 20/02/2024 00:24

I don't want to sound rude but pasta salad... you literally boil some pasta and chop up some salad vegetables, like cucumber and tomatoes. Mix them all up together and serve? That's like £3 worth of ingredients all together. It's not exactly an exciting dish.

RubyWinehouse · 20/02/2024 00:25

When my kid was doing a pasta salad I provided the ingredients and it was £2 at the most, back in 2010

Forgottenmypasswordagain · 20/02/2024 02:39

I wouldn't pay either.

RawBloomers · 20/02/2024 02:51

I wouldn’t pay and I’d make a formal complaint about the way they have worded the request for money.

If there’s a parent WhatsApp group or the like, I’d post the details there about it being unlawful for the school to require you to pay for activities like these. Because some parents are going to either keep their children off school or struggle to pay, and neither of those two things are good.

QueenCamilla · 20/02/2024 02:54

It must be that Beckham kid coming in. He knows how to make sandwiches and all sorts.

Tilllly · 20/02/2024 03:23

I think £13 is reasonable

Assuming they're making enough to feed your entire town...

Bookworm20 · 20/02/2024 12:04

If your child does make this very expensive pasta salad. Please post a picture here so we all know what a £13 pasta salad should look like :)

Heather37231 · 20/02/2024 12:59

Why the 4p?

mindutopia · 20/02/2024 13:04

My dc is in Y6 and made spaghetti bolognese before Christmas (which I forgot about and then sat in a bag in the back of the fridge buried behind the cheese and chutney for over a month 😕). It didn't cost anything in parent contribution. I assume the school must have sent someone to buy some mince, tomatoes, and spaghetti (there's like 12 of them, so wouldn't have cost that much) and then her Y6 teacher, who clearly is competent enough to know how to make a spag bol, taught them how to do it. I would have happily paid for the ingredients, but it doesn't require a specialist external teacher. This sounds like the head teacher's SIL runs a cookery club and was looking for business.

User7825525 · 20/02/2024 13:04

Heather37231 · 20/02/2024 12:59

Why the 4p?

The original quote was most likely £300 for the lesson. I'm assuming there must be 23 kids in the class so the school simply divided 300 by 23 which gives £13.04.

TotHappy · 20/02/2024 13:06

Ask the school op, please! We must know what they're thinking!

Porfirio · 20/02/2024 13:08

I would reply saying that you are not going to pay and let them decide whether to exclude your child or not.

RawBloomers · 20/02/2024 13:09

Porfirio · 20/02/2024 13:08

I would reply saying that you are not going to pay and let them decide whether to exclude your child or not.

They cannot legally exclude her child if she refuses to pay.

Flossieskeeper · 20/02/2024 13:18

I’d raise it with the governors. I’d also write a letter to school explaining your concerns and potentially telling them you won’t be paying.
This is wrong in so many ways the school is actively excluding pupils whose families can’t pay. If there is a WhatsApp group and it has sensible parents in it would be worth organising a boycott. At least of everyone refuses to pay them those who genuinely would struggle to pay won’t feel excluded.

I really don’t miss primary schools and their incessant ill timed demands for money.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 20/02/2024 13:43

I wonder what amazing embellishments an external person could add to a pasta salad that the cooking teacher couldn't to justify that ridiculous cost Confused

DH, DD and I had an amazing morning at a cookery school in Malvern during last years H/T ... an entire morning which started with fresh coffee, tea, hot chocolate and homemade brownies then we cooked a vegan Mexican feast which we sat down and ate together with the instructor for lunch and took all leftovers home.

For a private morning the three of us paid less than £100!

HolyMoly24 · 20/02/2024 14:03

Definitely email and ask for a breakdown of costs. I'd want Gordon Ramsay teaching my child for that money.

Tilllly · 20/02/2024 21:51

HolyMoly24 · 20/02/2024 14:03

Definitely email and ask for a breakdown of costs. I'd want Gordon Ramsay teaching my child for that money.

I'd want him cooking my dinner