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To expect staff to keep this day free, even if not contracted to work?

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Newyeargrinch · 19/02/2024 08:47

Senior manager in a small business that has just paid out a considerable amount of money to sponsor a local event towards the end of the year (think Xmas fair). This could potentially bring in a lot of good publicity and business for us. The success of the event depends on having plenty of staff present to represent us. The event is on a Saturday. Some staff work Saturday anyway, some alternate Saturdays. Others are weekday only, some full time, others part time. I know full well that if we asked for volunteers or left until nearer the time, certain staff would come up with reasons why they couldn't help. Therefore an email has gone out to all staff, informing them of the date and saying we expect them to keep it free to attend this event (they will get an extra day off in lieu). Several staff replied to say they didn't know their plans that far ahead as yet but, if free, would be happy to help. We've replied that, if they have nothing planned, they can keep the day free and will be expected to help.

It has been fed back that many staff are unhappy and say that we cannot dictate what they do with their spare time.

I think it's a small ask, they've had 10 months notice and it could bring a lot of extra business our way, ultimately benefiting them!

AIBU?

OP posts:
Wanttobefree2 · 19/02/2024 16:21

Probably the only one here, but if I liked my employer and was being paid to attend (and maybe also got a day off too), I wouldn’t mind too much.

HollaHolla · 19/02/2024 16:24

If you're not contracted to work on a Saturday, you don't have to work it. People may well have other jobs, commitments, etc.
I think the approach has been all wrong. If you need additional people to work that day, then an approach to all should have been seeking volunteers, and being clear that there will be double pay/time back in lieu, etc. It needs to be an attractive option. People can't be forced to do it.

Theresstilltonighttocome · 19/02/2024 16:24

ElaineMBenes · 19/02/2024 16:14

No, you're still missing it. They are not being asked, they are being told!

I'm not. I agree the OP is very unreasonable to tell her staff they have to work a Saturday.
I'm saying being asked in the first place isn't unreasonable.

No one is saying being asked would be shit, but that isn’t what happened so it’s irrelevant.

amberedover1 · 19/02/2024 16:25

extra day off in lieu
is this a way of saying "a day off in lieu"?Where does the "extra" come in ?

Bewilderedallthetine · 19/02/2024 16:25

Newyeargrinch · 19/02/2024 08:47

Senior manager in a small business that has just paid out a considerable amount of money to sponsor a local event towards the end of the year (think Xmas fair). This could potentially bring in a lot of good publicity and business for us. The success of the event depends on having plenty of staff present to represent us. The event is on a Saturday. Some staff work Saturday anyway, some alternate Saturdays. Others are weekday only, some full time, others part time. I know full well that if we asked for volunteers or left until nearer the time, certain staff would come up with reasons why they couldn't help. Therefore an email has gone out to all staff, informing them of the date and saying we expect them to keep it free to attend this event (they will get an extra day off in lieu). Several staff replied to say they didn't know their plans that far ahead as yet but, if free, would be happy to help. We've replied that, if they have nothing planned, they can keep the day free and will be expected to help.

It has been fed back that many staff are unhappy and say that we cannot dictate what they do with their spare time.

I think it's a small ask, they've had 10 months notice and it could bring a lot of extra business our way, ultimately benefiting them!

AIBU?

Single mum here..childcare will be very very difficult..I work full time and am exhausted at the end of the week and I do stuff with my son on weekends..a BIG NO frim me!

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 19/02/2024 16:28

I know full well that if we asked for volunteers or left until nearer the time, certain staff would come up with reasons why they couldn't help.

Absolutely anything at all is a genuine reason to refuse to do this. Weddings. Funerals. Not contracted to work weekends. Would rather have a lie-in and then doss on the sofa all day. Offended that employer makes demands of their free time so won't do it now even though they had originally planned to take part. They are staff, not slaves. Honestly, the entitlement is shocking.

ElaineMBenes · 19/02/2024 16:30

No one is saying being asked would be shit, but that isn’t what happened so it’s irrelevant.

A number of people have said it is unreasonable to be asked to work a Saturday, particularly one in December. So clearly some people do object to being asked and not just the way the OP has handled it.

WeeOrcadian · 19/02/2024 16:31

It's a "hell fucking NO" from me

You don't get to dictate what people do in their own time

I suspect this is a reverse

Notahotmess · 19/02/2024 16:31

LuluBlakey1 · 19/02/2024 16:11

It's bone idle Britain- you're on a loser with this one, particularly on Mnet.

Oh go away.

ElaineMBenes · 19/02/2024 16:32

They are staff, not slaves.

What an overreaction!

GinaB8 · 19/02/2024 16:38

Are you serious? It’s your business, not theirs.

TinyYellow · 19/02/2024 16:39

You’re not even paying for overtime?? That’s rude, I’m not surprised your employees are unhappy.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 19/02/2024 16:40

It's bone idle Britain- you're on a loser with this one, particularly on Mnet

Andrea Ledsom is here!

GinaB8 · 19/02/2024 16:40

LoveAHamSandwhich · 19/02/2024 16:25

Ha ha ha. Let's ask some French people if they'd be happy with that, shall we?!

French workers win legal right to avoid checking work email out-of-hours | Work-life balance | The Guardian

Dh is French. They enjoy a leisurely lunch in an restaurant and clock off when the clock hits 5:00 or whatever is on their contract.

willWillSmithsmith · 19/02/2024 16:42

LuluBlakey1 · 19/02/2024 16:11

It's bone idle Britain- you're on a loser with this one, particularly on Mnet.

Where have you pulled this nonsense from?

Glittertwins · 19/02/2024 16:42

I knew in December 2023 that I'd already got 3 weekends in December 2024 committed to so I'd definitely not be doing this.

Colinorpercy · 19/02/2024 16:43

Had the approach been ‘looking for volunteers, you’ll get double time/bonus/free lunch’ or whatever to make it sound attractive you’d maybe get folk signing up. But to get their backs up like this from the outset it would be a firm no from me.
I also suspect reverse.

LolaSmiles · 19/02/2024 16:44

It's bone idle Britain- you're on a loser with this one, particularly on Mnet
It's bone idle to work your contracted hours and not keep random non-working days free because your boss says so?
😂

I'm someone who'd happily volunteer to do the extra time if TOIL or pay was appropriate AND the overall workplace culture was one of give and take.

A manager telling me they expect me to keep a non-working day free because they say so would quickly find my willingness reduces.

Colinorpercy · 19/02/2024 16:44

Colinorpercy · 19/02/2024 16:43

Had the approach been ‘looking for volunteers, you’ll get double time/bonus/free lunch’ or whatever to make it sound attractive you’d maybe get folk signing up. But to get their backs up like this from the outset it would be a firm no from me.
I also suspect reverse.

And that’s aside from the fact it’s Dec when people are notoriously busy at that time of year.

WigglyVonWaggly · 19/02/2024 16:44

Pay them all to keep their free time reserved for a day of working if it’s so important to the business. You can’t expect employees to care about your business so much that they will write off their free time!

willWillSmithsmith · 19/02/2024 16:44

ElaineMBenes · 19/02/2024 16:30

No one is saying being asked would be shit, but that isn’t what happened so it’s irrelevant.

A number of people have said it is unreasonable to be asked to work a Saturday, particularly one in December. So clearly some people do object to being asked and not just the way the OP has handled it.

It’s the expectation that they will, or rather should, say yes without there even being a financial incentive, not the actual asking.

Companies don’t offer loyalty so they shouldn’t expect it back.

AngelinaFibres · 19/02/2024 16:46

ElaineMBenes · 19/02/2024 14:29

Benefit them how exactly? Are you planning on offering them a share of any new business that comes in as a bonus?

Maybe the benefit is the company gaining enough new business to stay afloat and therefore people keep their jobs?
I work at university and work at open days and recruitment events which sometimes take place on a weekend or evening. I don't get a cut of the tuition fees for any students we recruit......I do however keep my job if we recruit enough students to stay viable.

My brother works at a University. He attends the open days alone because he is very well paid and takes a day off in the week to go fishing. It suits him. He doesn't expect anyone else from his department, who is paid far less than he is, to attend a Saturday event. If there were redundancies in the department the poorest paid people would be got rid of long before my brother. He regards it as an important part of his job to ensure excellent student feedback and a fully subscribed course each year . That way the people in his department keep their jobs. He is paid well for that. People on far less shouldn't be expected to do extra.

amberedover1 · 19/02/2024 16:47

@ElaineMBenes sorry ,yes you have made it clear that you felt it was ok to ask people to work on a Sat but that the OPs manner was unreasonable .
I'm a slow typer and also got interrupted in RL. Hadn't taken in your clarifications .
Apologies..
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tolerable · 19/02/2024 16:48

do you want YOUR small business represented by happy appreciated staff or
forced to attend /disgruntled staff.?
Your pa stunt/touting business is ultimately beneficial. so-put your money where your mouth is. incentive = all saturday staff and voluntary extra shifts will get time and half and a day off in lieu (before we get really busy?)
DEMANDING anything isnt gony be good on anybody. you employ them to do their job.this is over n above surely