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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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allfurcoatnoknickers · 12/02/2024 16:59

I live in an old flat with a non-working fireplace and I use the fire place for book storage. Like this.

https://images.app.goo.gl/BRbo5iLK5iYuTevj6

Cheswick · 12/02/2024 16:59

Teddleshon · 12/02/2024 14:24

The idea of having a house without bookshelves is quite simply horrific to me!!

Agree. Cannot imagine my life without.

Chanxex · 12/02/2024 16:59

Good grief. I have no bookshelves, i can’t think of a friend who has bookshelves yet weirdly i spend a lot of time discussing recommended books with them. I can’t bear the look of bookshelves cluttering up my house but somehow I’ve got over 1000 books on my kindle because i prefer kindles. However it must mean i don’t really read and i am not as special as most of the book hoarders on here.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 12/02/2024 17:00

My parents house looks pretty much like that, bookcases in every room. We had a Victorian flat with high ceilings and and hundreds of books but now live somewhere with lower ceilings and fewer recesses so now have a kindle and all the books go to the charity shop once we've reas them

Lovemusic82 · 12/02/2024 17:00

My house doesn’t look like that, I don’t read 😬. DC’s read, eldest is a English lit student but we don’t have a house full of book shelves.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 12/02/2024 17:01

Mine is more blue and less red, also I've got a load of pictures but I wish to add that they are not all on one wall.

Capmagturk · 12/02/2024 17:01

No I don't have bookshelves because I only read on my kindle these days. I don't have a house decorated like that, no.

Previousreligion · 12/02/2024 17:01

Ha, we have wall to wall bookshelves in our library/study and small bookshelves in three other rooms. We both love reading. I do have a Kindle but I never use it, it's just not the same as a real book.

I am coveting that bookshelf door now.

I don't know anyone without a bookshelf afaik.

PickAChew · 12/02/2024 17:02

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:29

I'm just really struggling to envisage what kinds of homes people have as nobody seems to like anything except bookshelves, plants and lots of colour

Why would this be the preserve of people over the age of 80, though?

Do you have a problem with houses that aren't bare wall to dreary bare wall grey?

Maireas · 12/02/2024 17:02

Do people really have bookshelves
What a strange question.
I have many bookshelves because I have many, many books!

Porridgeislife · 12/02/2024 17:02

Nanny0gg · 12/02/2024 16:58

The thing is, if you look those things up in a book, they often take you somewhere else, or something will catch your eye.

That doesn't really happen with a recipe website imo

Not quite. What you’ve described is literally the commercial goal of a recipe website, to keep you looking at different recipes on their website to keep the ad £ and page clicks churning.

Nanny0gg · 12/02/2024 17:02

Rivercrooz · 12/02/2024 16:40

I have too many books, displayed in a similar fashion to the picture. They make the place look awful. The bookcases are just under a foot deep, so they make the room a lot smaller. They don't make me look intellectual at all. In fact is it a form of hoarding? Reading the latest Ann Cleeves and leaving it on the bookcase forevermore is a bit sad, tragic, even. Most people would just bung them in the charity shop.

I don't have a library so they are just in the living room. I know someone who has an actual library in his house, jam packed with paperback thrillers. Everybody finds it ridiculous.

Why?

A library is just a collection of books. And if they like paperbacks, they keep them on bookshelves. A collection of bookshelves is a library, isn't it? Where else should they keep them?

Tarkan · 12/02/2024 17:02

The only photo I have of my book nook is when we set it up. I didn't have all my books out of storage at this point, the bookcases are now jammed full with books and I've actually got rid of some of the ones in it here to make space for others.

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
mathanxiety · 12/02/2024 17:03

Rivercrooz · 12/02/2024 16:40

I have too many books, displayed in a similar fashion to the picture. They make the place look awful. The bookcases are just under a foot deep, so they make the room a lot smaller. They don't make me look intellectual at all. In fact is it a form of hoarding? Reading the latest Ann Cleeves and leaving it on the bookcase forevermore is a bit sad, tragic, even. Most people would just bung them in the charity shop.

I don't have a library so they are just in the living room. I know someone who has an actual library in his house, jam packed with paperback thrillers. Everybody finds it ridiculous.

If every book owner kept books in order to 'look intellectual', you might have a point. Maybe the person whose shelves are jam-packed with paperback (oh the horror) thrillers (where are the smelling salts when you really need them...) just happens to enjoy thrillers and isn't worried about the opinions of occasional visitors? There are people out there who live their lives very happily just doing their own thing, oblivious to concerns about status or how they look.

There's a good deal of scattershot judgement in that post, and a distinct lack of 'imo', for instance in the phrase 'they make the room look awful'.

KittyMcKitty · 12/02/2024 17:03

Obviously it’s each to their own but Inmot longer keep books - I have a small book case in a corridor upstairs and that’s it - everything else I donate / pass on. I used to keep
books and have them on shelves but had a kind of wake up call one day - what was the point - books should be read and enjoyed not festering on shelves showing people that yes I read.

So I got rid of hundreds of them and it’s massively freeing.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 17:03

Nanny0gg · 12/02/2024 16:58

The thing is, if you look those things up in a book, they often take you somewhere else, or something will catch your eye.

That doesn't really happen with a recipe website imo

This would be bad for me though as I have a real issue with focus and concentration so nobody would be getting tea before 9pm 🙈

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AllTheChaos · 12/02/2024 17:03

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 15:38

That's why I said no one I know

Maybe it’s a ‘birds of a feather’ thing, Op? I’m a bookworm so tend to be friends with other bookworms. Equally my mum’s best friend loved gardening, and most of their friendship circle did too, as they had that shared interest.
Being a bookworm doesn’t mean being clever, or educated, or ‘well read’ btw. I unashamedly love reading things that literary types consider trash, not that I agree with them, and love meeting other people who do, too!

Outliers · 12/02/2024 17:04

Nope - I have a kindle.

pitsoffashion · 12/02/2024 17:04

I used to use recipe books all the time but the past few years it’s been the internet 99% of the time.

I actually love TikTok for cooking and recipe videos, and you definitely see and discover new things even if you go looking for one specific dish.

lazyarse123 · 12/02/2024 17:04

We only have one bookcase because I like to donate most of them. I tried a Kindle but it's not the same especially if I fall asleep when I read in bed.
I would love a house big enough for walls of books.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2024 17:05

We have a few big bookcases with quite a lot of books, but my house looks otherwise nothing like your pictures, as it's pretty minimalist. We read a lot, but mostly on Kindles now, so we rarely buy new actual books and we gave a load to charity shops a few years back, but it wouldn't feel like home for me without any books on shelves. I can't think of anyone I know well who doesn't have bookshelves.

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 12/02/2024 17:05

Don't forget @Damaged27, books are a value and virtue indicator. If you like tv or video games, you're at one end of the scale; if you like books you're at the other.

According to a lot of threads of this nature it's seemingly impossible to have a happy balance and if you choose to spend your leisure time on the xbox you're an unbearable chav - god forbid if you have a husband that likes to game! Divorce, immediately!

(Only half joking, I love to read but it pisses me off how there is a clear hierarchy on what leisure activities are considered good or bad on this site. I like gaming and reading and do both regularly!)

TonTonMacoute · 12/02/2024 17:05

We are having quite a lot done to our house, a process that has been going on for about 5 months now.

Our builders said they had never worked in a house with so many books, and we are having even more bookshelves made.

Abeona · 12/02/2024 17:05

maximist · 12/02/2024 14:25

My house doesn't look like that, but I do have many many bookcases, all crammed with books....

I used to have a job that took me into all sorts of peoples' houses. I can confirm that there are lots of homes where there isn't a book to be seen. If they have shelves at all, they contain knick-knacks and photos. My house looks a bit like the second one in the photos, but not as expensively put together. I do have a wall of books in one room.

Thedance · 12/02/2024 17:05

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:31

I'm not saying people under 80 don't read but I thought most people would either use kindle apps or donate after reading not hoard for 30 years

I have a kindle but also like real books and I read them more than once so would never give them away once read.
Also don't you have reference books? An atlas? Art books? Books with sentimental value?
I love my kindle but you can't get everything on a kindle and some things are much easier to read in a book.

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