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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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ghostyslovesheets · 12/02/2024 16:50

I have books because I like books - couldn't get on with DD1's kindle when I tried it - wanky though it sounds I like turning pages and, when rereading a book, noticing marks from when I last read it and remembering.

They are all in my study, no one who visits goes in my study so they certainly aren't for show - but I can't part with my favourites - I am an avid re-reader. I also have books given to me by my grandparents which I treasure and some that just remind me of places I first read them or people who recommended them - they are precious to me.

pitsoffashion · 12/02/2024 16:50

Does it count if the books are the entire collection of Katie Price novels, autobiography books written by various reality stars and those misery childhood memoir books you get from Asda 😁

Or do the actual books have to be a certain style too

SweetBirdsong · 12/02/2024 16:51

LocalHobo · 12/02/2024 16:30

I have a library! Well, a converted loo but it is just for books now the pedestal and basin have been removed. I also have the striped rug pictured on the second picture. The rug is in a different (upstairs) room though, so not sure I qualify as a real mumsnetter.

That sounds wonderful! 😍 We have lots of bookcases/shelves, that hold DVDs, records, CDs, and videogames, but we also have several bookshelves full of books! We currently have around 300 in all I would say. (Used to have more before we downsized a few years ago, to a smaller house.) Some books we have are as old as 70 years old. And I still have all my childhood books from the 1970s.

There's some hilarious inverted snobbery - and silly sarcastic comments from some people (about people who love books/have books.)

And not just on here! 😆I think people feel somehow threatened by people with lots of books.

Well, it IS a well documented fact that people with lots of books are more likely to be intellectual and more intelligent and smart. So it's easy to see why SOME people are a bit salty and sniffy about people with lots of books. I think it's jarring some people................. Wink

Nanny0gg · 12/02/2024 16:51

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:31

I'm not saying people under 80 don't read but I thought most people would either use kindle apps or donate after reading not hoard for 30 years

Many, many of my books have been re-read. Many times.

Sadly I don't read as much as I used to, but it is a great pleasure. It upsets me that my DGC don't, really.

I used to read a book a day before homework (occasionally) got in the way.

Most of my friends now use audio books but I don't like them

Silvers11 · 12/02/2024 16:51

Gizamaluke · 12/02/2024 14:39

The Billy bookcase is Ikea's most popular item so people definitely have bookcases.

I wish my house looked like the second picture.

I am so glad Ikea still do the Billy bookcases!! We have some too!!

BeatrixAylward · 12/02/2024 16:51

We have bookshelves in one sitting room on every wall, DH has them on every wall in his office and we have bookshelves in the front part of the cloak room. I also have them in the kitchen as I kept all my grans, aunts and mothers cookery books. The ones in the kitchen have glass in front and are more of a display as they’d smell of food otherwise. There was an actual library in the house when we bought it (now DH’s office). The previous owners had steps with wheels on them to get to books that were high up on shelves. We have all of FIL’s books as DH couldn’t bear to part them when he died and I kept all my books from childhood so yes, we have a LOT of books.

GetWhatYouWant · 12/02/2024 16:52

TheVeryThing · 12/02/2024 16:21

Nope, but you surely can't miss the smuggery in the boasting about 1,000s of books, bookshelves everywhere, rooms turned into libraries.
Not to mention the furniture, 'inherited pieces', disdain at a three piece suite etc, and the sneering at people who don't display books all over their homes.
I have plenty of books in my house, I don't think it makes me a superior human being though, and somehow I am able to cope with the knowledge that other people live very differently to me.

They aren't boasting, the OP asked if people really had bookcases, and people are telling her that they do have them, where they are and how many.
Unsurprisingly, many people are shocked at the OPs question. So what if people have got inherited furniture and don't like 3 piece suites, everybody's different!
People aren't sneering at people who don't display books everywhere, but many people look askance at houses where people don't read, particularly where there are children, as there is a correlation between children reading for pleasure and educational achievement.

easylikeasundaymorn · 12/02/2024 16:52

These threads always sporn hundreds of MNers falling over themselves to post about how much they judge homes without visible books/tvs bigger than their bookshelves etc. All with a considerable air of cultural and intellectual superiority..

Yet surprisingly all this reading hasn't given them the ability to consider
-how often do you see beyond the living room and toilet of most peoples homes

  • the majority of people who read frequently have some sort of electronic device -they could read a classic a day and not have any physical evidence in their front rooms
  • lots of people listen to audio books, use the library or read once and then donate to avoid clutter.
  • not reading does not equal unintelligent
  • having books on display does not equal them being "good" books or even that they've ever been read

But yes carry on smugging 😁

Hab788 · 12/02/2024 16:53

My house is full of all the things people considered dated, tacky and cheap in the previous thread. And I couldn't give two hoots!!

AllTheChaos · 12/02/2024 16:53

Exactly, @Nanny0gg!

sunglassesonthetable · 12/02/2024 16:54

I said out of print/academic not "out of print academic books. ". Maybe if you read more you would have noticed that key difference.

oh stop being tedious @DragonFly98 This isn't a re typing test.

We all got the gist.

OneTC · 12/02/2024 16:54

Nothing like the pics but we have lots of bookshelves and some book piles

Prunesqualler · 12/02/2024 16:54

easylikeasundaymorn · 12/02/2024 16:52

These threads always sporn hundreds of MNers falling over themselves to post about how much they judge homes without visible books/tvs bigger than their bookshelves etc. All with a considerable air of cultural and intellectual superiority..

Yet surprisingly all this reading hasn't given them the ability to consider
-how often do you see beyond the living room and toilet of most peoples homes

  • the majority of people who read frequently have some sort of electronic device -they could read a classic a day and not have any physical evidence in their front rooms
  • lots of people listen to audio books, use the library or read once and then donate to avoid clutter.
  • not reading does not equal unintelligent
  • having books on display does not equal them being "good" books or even that they've ever been read

But yes carry on smugging 😁

Edited

I read all the time and was bought a kindle one Christmas but I hate it.
I like to feel the paper and turn the pages
A lot of people do

Silvers11 · 12/02/2024 16:54

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 16:46

I love the meerkats. I have them to

🤗😍😁

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 16:56

pitsoffashion · 12/02/2024 16:50

Does it count if the books are the entire collection of Katie Price novels, autobiography books written by various reality stars and those misery childhood memoir books you get from Asda 😁

Or do the actual books have to be a certain style too

Of the few books iv read these are the sort I read the last one I read was matthew perry

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Dancinginthebasement91 · 12/02/2024 16:56

Have you looked at Rightmove? That should give a very good representative example of what people's homes look like.

shellyleppard · 12/02/2024 16:56

Op oh how I wish!!! Would love bookcases that big!!! We have two bookcases in the living room and two in my sons room. However if I had more space would definitely have more books!!! 🙏❤️

Sidehustlequestion · 12/02/2024 16:56

we have bookshelves and our home is full of colour, mismatched furniture and house plants 😂 apparently very ‘mumsnet’ but it’s comfy, cosy and my favourite place on earth. I don’t like grey minimalist homes but I appreciate everyone’s different tastes. I firmly believe your home is your sanctuary and should be exactly how you want it.

GetWhatYouWant · 12/02/2024 16:56

ZebraPensAreLife · 12/02/2024 16:07

No, not picture books. I’m a fast reader and had a long commute.

As a guide, it takes me about 15 minutes to read a full length Agatha Christie book (which is obviously shorter than most modern novels), 45 minutes to an hour to read most modern full-length novels. I generally read 1-2 books a day.

Load of bollocks. If you're reading a novel in an hour it must have huge type and very few pages. Your eyes must be skimming the pages but you cannot be assimilating what the words mean if you read 400 pages in an hour.

AllTheChaos · 12/02/2024 16:56

easylikeasundaymorn · 12/02/2024 16:52

These threads always sporn hundreds of MNers falling over themselves to post about how much they judge homes without visible books/tvs bigger than their bookshelves etc. All with a considerable air of cultural and intellectual superiority..

Yet surprisingly all this reading hasn't given them the ability to consider
-how often do you see beyond the living room and toilet of most peoples homes

  • the majority of people who read frequently have some sort of electronic device -they could read a classic a day and not have any physical evidence in their front rooms
  • lots of people listen to audio books, use the library or read once and then donate to avoid clutter.
  • not reading does not equal unintelligent
  • having books on display does not equal them being "good" books or even that they've ever been read

But yes carry on smugging 😁

Edited

Absolutely! I love my books, and reread them regularly, but ‘literary’ friends tend to recoil from them in horror as they consider what I read to be absolute rubbish. One of the cleverest people I know has a minimalist house with no books thanks to her e-reader. I was a bit gutted actually, as we share trashy tastes (not that most people know that about her), and I used to get her books when she’d finished them (she has an eidetic memory so doesn’t reread). It used to save me a fortune before she got her damned kindle 😂

Thedance · 12/02/2024 16:56

Of course people have bookshelves! I have one in most rooms My friends have book shelves in their homes. My adult children have bookshelves in their houses and my grandchildren have book shelves in their bedrooms. We all read books. Where are we supposed to put them if we don't have bookshelves? Why is is considered odd to have book shelves?

WhatWhereWho · 12/02/2024 16:57

Different people like different things. Each to their own if they enjoy it and it works for them.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 12/02/2024 16:58

I don’t just have bookshelves - I have a room full of book shelves, and 4 more bookshelves in other rooms - and I have a Kindle full of books too. Some might say I have too many books, but I absolutely refute that statement!

Nanny0gg · 12/02/2024 16:58

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 16:15

We have Google if I want to see a picture of a bird or find a recipe I google it.

The thing is, if you look those things up in a book, they often take you somewhere else, or something will catch your eye.

That doesn't really happen with a recipe website imo

ZebraPensAreLife · 12/02/2024 16:58

GetWhatYouWant · 12/02/2024 16:56

Load of bollocks. If you're reading a novel in an hour it must have huge type and very few pages. Your eyes must be skimming the pages but you cannot be assimilating what the words mean if you read 400 pages in an hour.

Not bollocks. It’s just a weird quirk I have. If you asked me questions afterwards I could answer them. Many teachers did when I was younger!