Is it gross to fancy someone twenty years younger

[Hatethetermcougar]

It feels ick to like someone that age, but I don’t feel my age (46)
Its only an actor, not anyone in real life, but still seems so young at 27 and not a crush I’d usually have
Eurgh it’s depressing, seems not long ago that all crushes were older or at least the same age

A crush on an actor you don’t even know is fine, even if they are younger than you. Your fantasy is victimless and free.

It's always gross - male or female - to act on it. But you can have whatever thoughts you like, just keep them in your head.

LOL. Love how everyone is just ignoring the fact that this old thread has been revived by a real life 'celebritie' who just happened to notice some fans chatting about him on Mumsnet. 😅