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To ask why do people not working claiming FSM get this for free?

607 replies

Sprinkledusting · 10/02/2024 22:52

I’ve just discovered if you claim FSM and even if you’re not working, you can send your child to morning/after school club for free. And not just in our school either.
There are also sports clubs and holiday clubs during school holidays that state they are free for those who claim FSM. To claim free school meals your income has to be so low that you’re not working full time or not working at all, which of the people I know, most are not.
But those who are working have to pay for breakfast club/holiday clubs.

Can someone explain to me the logic behind this? As I simply don’t understand it.

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Babyroobs · 11/02/2024 12:39

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:38

And many more get nothing at all.

Yes this is definitely something the government need to address.

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 12:39

It's for the benefit of the children, not the parents. These sort of things have been shown to benefit children seen as 'disadvantaged'.

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:40

Babyroobs · 11/02/2024 12:34

More likely working cash in hand or receiving decent amount of CM or have a motorbility car.

If they have a Motability car they or one of their family will be disabled.

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:41

Babyroobs · 11/02/2024 12:39

Yes this is definitely something the government need to address.

One of the reasons they stopped taking it into account for benefits was because of how unreliable it was. Rather than enforce child maintenance payments, the government would rather let their their business owning mates pay crap wages so people have to claim top ups and make the taxpayer pay for it.

EffieeBriest · 11/02/2024 12:42

Expecting this kind of post to start to crop up with ever increasing frequency if a general election is forthcoming. Sad really. Get us all to fight amongst ourselves to distract from the shit show in government.

Babyroobs · 11/02/2024 12:43

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:40

If they have a Motability car they or one of their family will be disabled.

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Yes of course. But the people getting jealous over others having decent cars may not realize this. many disabilities are invisible.

BedZwift · 11/02/2024 12:44

YuleDragon · 11/02/2024 12:01

£7400 threshhold.

Oh.. you know how much i earn on carers allowance? Bearing in mind you have to be caring for a minimum of 35hrs pw to qualify for it, so you can't work a paid job on top of that.

£3991 per annum.

THAT is all i get 'paid' for doing a full time carer role. so yes, i do need the benefit top up.

But y'all carry on being jealous that my kids get some help.

also, if someone earning NMW was doing the hours of care i do to earn £3991pa, would be getting paid £18kpa.

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This^
You don’t want my life OP, trust me. No amount of school meals or holiday clubs make up for it. I wish holiday club jealousy was my only problem

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 11/02/2024 12:44

This was one good thing about working tax credits. They were tapered so it felt fairer than just a cut off cliff.
I mean, ultimately, they were tax payers keeping wages low but it certainly felt fair and did encourage people to work more hours as there wasn’t the harsh cut off.

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:47

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 11/02/2024 12:44

This was one good thing about working tax credits. They were tapered so it felt fairer than just a cut off cliff.
I mean, ultimately, they were tax payers keeping wages low but it certainly felt fair and did encourage people to work more hours as there wasn’t the harsh cut off.

UC is tapered.

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:47

trooc · 11/02/2024 11:57

This. And you should be grateful that despite being low income you can still afford to feed your child lunch. You are employable and have a cognitive ability above a lot of the parents of the children that are being helped.

Of course there are outliers, there will be people who don't need fsm yet get them and there will be low income families who do their absolute best for their DC. Experience says this is not always the case though and if some people getting a FSM they could manage without or access to a club they don't really need helps 'catch' many of those who do, then I can't see the issue

Ok so we’ve established these people can’t feed their children or care for them adequately, in fact they don’t have the ‘cognitive ability’ to do so.

And we don’t have the foster carers needed to rehome them all.

So - let’s solve the problem in the only way we can - you can only claim unemployment benefits for longer than 1 year if you have a medical certificate to say you have a permanent form of contraception in place (IUD/implant).

I will now await the outrage. But does anyone have a better solution before these people sink the ship?

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:49

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:47

Ok so we’ve established these people can’t feed their children or care for them adequately, in fact they don’t have the ‘cognitive ability’ to do so.

And we don’t have the foster carers needed to rehome them all.

So - let’s solve the problem in the only way we can - you can only claim unemployment benefits for longer than 1 year if you have a medical certificate to say you have a permanent form of contraception in place (IUD/implant).

I will now await the outrage. But does anyone have a better solution before these people sink the ship?

Are you serious?

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:50

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:49

Are you serious?

Serious about mostly solving the issue of child poverty and neglect? Yes I am.

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:50

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:47

Ok so we’ve established these people can’t feed their children or care for them adequately, in fact they don’t have the ‘cognitive ability’ to do so.

And we don’t have the foster carers needed to rehome them all.

So - let’s solve the problem in the only way we can - you can only claim unemployment benefits for longer than 1 year if you have a medical certificate to say you have a permanent form of contraception in place (IUD/implant).

I will now await the outrage. But does anyone have a better solution before these people sink the ship?

Or, maybe make the NRPs actually pay maintenance.

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:51

"These people" are not sinking the ship. 14 years of the Tories has done that very nicely.

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:51

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:50

Or, maybe make the NRPs actually pay maintenance.

They’re unemployed in many cases.

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:51

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:51

"These people" are not sinking the ship. 14 years of the Tories has done that very nicely.

It’s both, I hate the tories

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:51

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:51

They’re unemployed in many cases.

So why not force them to get the snip or is it only women who are responsible for their children?

88greebballoons · 11/02/2024 12:52

Mamaraisedadoughut · 11/02/2024 12:17

How many people on here have actually gone on entitledto, and realised how much they would be worse off on UC than living on the income they actually live off?

£2038.40 per month for my family of 4, if we had no other income.
The roof over our head alone costs £1200. Fuck, that'd be a tough life.

Why on earth would someone have 4 kids if they can't afford to provide for them.

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:53

88greebballoons · 11/02/2024 12:52

Why on earth would someone have 4 kids if they can't afford to provide for them.

They said FAMILY of 4, not 4 kids. A family of 4 usually means 2 parents and 2 kids.

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:53

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:51

So why not force them to get the snip or is it only women who are responsible for their children?

Because the snip isn’t really reversible. I understand that it’s ‘unfair’ but a lesser of two evils.

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:53

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:53

Because the snip isn’t really reversible. I understand that it’s ‘unfair’ but a lesser of two evils.

Well, there you go. You want female bodies to be controlled but not male ones. Sounds a lot like Gilead.

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:55

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:53

Well, there you go. You want female bodies to be controlled but not male ones. Sounds a lot like Gilead.

Ok then, they can have a vasectomy and freeze their sperm. Happy?

IClaudine · 11/02/2024 12:55

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:53

Because the snip isn’t really reversible. I understand that it’s ‘unfair’ but a lesser of two evils.

They could freeze their sperm before the snip.

IDontOftenComment · 11/02/2024 12:55

Naptrappedmummy · 11/02/2024 12:47

Ok so we’ve established these people can’t feed their children or care for them adequately, in fact they don’t have the ‘cognitive ability’ to do so.

And we don’t have the foster carers needed to rehome them all.

So - let’s solve the problem in the only way we can - you can only claim unemployment benefits for longer than 1 year if you have a medical certificate to say you have a permanent form of contraception in place (IUD/implant).

I will now await the outrage. But does anyone have a better solution before these people sink the ship?

Good idea, if you can’t afford to raise your existing children then you shouldn’t have any more … simple.

YuleDragon · 11/02/2024 12:56

Beezknees · 11/02/2024 12:51

So why not force them to get the snip or is it only women who are responsible for their children?

And what about those who ended up in this situation AFTER having kids?

I mean, before i left my abusive ExH and found out my oldest was disabled and in need of full time care, i had a job.

I haven't had any more kids, my own disability has happened post divorce.

Trust me, when i had my children i didn't expect to end up single, disabled, and needing to be a full time carer to a disabled teenager... but them's the breaks, and i'm GLAD the government are helping me, else i'd be destitute.