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Criticised for telling a guy I found him attractive

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Gobacktopartycity1 · 10/02/2024 14:39

According to friends I should never have done this. After knowing a guy for around 2 months, getting on really well and so on I told him that I felt attracted to him and was unsure if was anything further. It wasn't for whatever reason, but at least I knew where I stood.
2 friends are now saying I scared him off, that I should have let it develop naturally. I actually feel really stupid now, they're saying I put him off.
As I say we've been talking and hanging out for a couple of months. It's pretty much put me off with other men now in the future.

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Ohwhatadag · 10/02/2024 18:57

If he liked you and you told him that you like him, he'd be after you like a shot. No man will turn down a woman they fancy.

The only way in which your friends could have sort of been right is if he half liked you and fancied a drunken shag. And it doesn't sound like you wanted that from him.

Ignore them. Men are very simple in this respect.

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