He went off at 9.30 on a half hour drive to buy something for work. Heavy and awkward so wasnt expecting him straight back. It is now 1.45 and i cannot phone him because they have cut my mobile off, which means his will be cut off too . He said to me this morning, what do you want to do today, i said, but arent you out buying, he said he wouldnt be long - so now, ive got no means of contacthing anyone. If i had known he was going to be half the day i would have maybe gone into town with my mother this morning. But of course, i was expecting him back, still am, the weather is diabolical, DD is miserable and quite frankly so am i!!
I sat her on my own all bloody day and night yesterday as he was in the shed fucking about working until 10.30. He knows i had a shit day yesterday (i suffer from depression) and today i felt much more positive, but as time goes on.....that positivity is slipping away. Oh i wish i could drive but im too scared to learn. So pissed off, i know his phone will be out of service, so why cant he find a phone box and ring me to say....
Thing is, he is off buying expensive machinery for his business. But i feel resentful, i dont go ANYWHERE on my own, well not unless you count visits to the doctor. I can't justify my mother babysitting for me to go and do stuff for myself, what would i do anyway? I cant afford to go to the gym or anything like that. I could take the dog for a walk i suppose, but the last time i was out with a dog on my own was with my old dog and i would just end up remembering him (my best friend). I love our new dog but its not the same. DP gets cross when i make comments like, bloody hell i wish i could "just pop" and have a look at xyz on a whim - i am cross because i think he is cashing in on being out of contact. He just comes back with the whole, you chose to be a SAHM argument