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To hate it being called pancake tuesday

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scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 15:55

Just that really, it's shrove Tuesday it is the traditional feast day before the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday. Lent – the 40 days leading up to Easter – was traditionally a time of fasting

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couiza · 07/02/2024 18:20

My late father disliked the parish priest back in Ireland. So on Ash Wednesday he would gather us all up in a line (4 of us) and stick his thumb at the back of the cold fireplace to get some old ash, and give us all the "Blessed Ashes" there and then before school.

The nuns would then think we had all been up at the crack of dawn, gone to the church, got the ashes, and then went to school. Far From It.

I miss him so much.

tachetastic · 07/02/2024 18:20

scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 15:55

Just that really, it's shrove Tuesday it is the traditional feast day before the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday. Lent – the 40 days leading up to Easter – was traditionally a time of fasting

Every day is pancake day in our house!!! We can't get enough of them. Sugar and lemon is my weakness.

Who calls it pancake Tuesday? It's Shrove Tuesday or pancake day.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 07/02/2024 18:21

SaltPorridge · 07/02/2024 18:12

Oidhche Inide.
Irish language version. Means the initial night (of Lent).

Oíche surely? Or is that an old spelling?

Prunesqualler · 07/02/2024 18:22

Ive never heard of Pancake Tuesday. Ive heard of pancake day but never used it.
The boys school didn’t either.
We ve only ever used Shrove Tuesday.

I suppose a lot of people are not religious and wouldn’t know what Shrove Tuesday is anyway.

With us it’s a feast, including pancakes then Lent where you give up something etc.

Ilikedoughnuts · 07/02/2024 18:24

I just call it Tuesday

OchonAgusOchonOh · 07/02/2024 18:25

Chickenkeev · 07/02/2024 17:53

When you all piled into the car, mam get's the 'immersion fear' and someone is despatched back into the gaff to check 😂😂😂

I was on a zoom meeting recently. In the middle of me talking, I suddenly remembered the immersion had been on since early morning and we were now mid afternoon.

I yelled "The immersion", jumped up and ran upstairs to turn it off. Thankfully all on the call were Irish and sufficiently old enough to understand the emergency I was facing.

TWETMIRF · 07/02/2024 18:25

scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 17:05

@KreedKafer nope I just see it as commercial crap every day is mother's day HTH

Mothering Sunday is about going back to your mother church, it's not about mums if you're Christian.

As we're atheists here, it's pancake day, and mother's day about mums.

If you don't like non christians celebrating christian festivals then you need to make sure that you don't celebrate the non christian elements. So for Christmas you need to stop giving gifts, having nice food, decorating your houses with greenery and celebrating with others as that's Saturnalia which was celebrated before christianity was invented.

WhyDoesItAlways · 07/02/2024 18:25

Its pancake day in our house and comes 40 days before chocolate day.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 07/02/2024 18:26

Same reason we dont call Boxing Day St Stephens Day. For a lot of people who are not religious, the pancakes are the important part of the day, not the meaning, fasting etc etc.

isitshe · 07/02/2024 18:26

couiza · 07/02/2024 18:20

My late father disliked the parish priest back in Ireland. So on Ash Wednesday he would gather us all up in a line (4 of us) and stick his thumb at the back of the cold fireplace to get some old ash, and give us all the "Blessed Ashes" there and then before school.

The nuns would then think we had all been up at the crack of dawn, gone to the church, got the ashes, and then went to school. Far From It.

I miss him so much.

Love this. I hated getting ashes so as kids we sometimes did our own from the ashes in the fireplace.

Tilleuil · 07/02/2024 18:40

I remember an advert in the 90’s when Shrove Tuesday was Jif lemon day!

TinkerTiger · 07/02/2024 18:41

scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 17:34

@KreedKafer I do call it st Stephens day because that's what it is

To you.

TiredCatLady · 07/02/2024 18:42

Do you mind Mardi Gras/Fat Tuesday?

FUPAgirl · 07/02/2024 18:46

It's pancake Tuesday in my part of the world, I've never heard if 'pancake day'. We aren't religious so we don't do lent.

Futb0l · 07/02/2024 18:47

We aren't Christian. We just enjoy celebrating.... pancakes. So we do.

scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 18:48

@TiredCatLady I love Mardi gras and every Tuesday is fat Tuesday
(I'm also a tired cat lady 🐈‍⬛)

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/02/2024 18:48

You can eat pancakes any day.

Yep. You can also have birthday cake when it's not your birthday and Christmas pudding in August. It's not the same though.

GreyhpundGirl · 07/02/2024 18:48

It's Shrove Tuesday. It doesn't matter if you're Christian or not, that's literally what the day is called. Christmas and Easter haven't been bastardised to Present and Chocolate Egg Day have they?

ItIsLobstersAllTheWayDown · 07/02/2024 18:52

Jif Lemon Day 😀

^^This.

Thank goodness they renamed the cleaning product to Cif!

I'm not from a religious family really, but school and my grandparents would call it Shrove Tuesday so we called it both that and Pancake Day and I still would now, interchangeably. I can see that advertisers would want people to know it's on a Tuesday soon hence Pancake Tuesday, it makes you think oh is that soon then, which Tuesday?

I agree with the Catholic up thread who says to worry about more important things.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/02/2024 18:52

Puddingpieplum · 07/02/2024 15:59

For non Christians pancake day is grand. There's advertising campaigns etc around it all. We would call it Shrove Tuesday as a Christian family, don't mind what others call itm

Same here.

I'm a practising Christian and call it Shrove Tuesday, but it doesn't bother me what other people call it.

I dare say there are Druids who are still miffed that we have annexed Christmas and Easter, though I don't know what they were originally called. Winter and Spring Solstices, possibly, tough the name "Easter" comes from the goddess "Oestre", I believe.

DeeLusional · 07/02/2024 18:54

Chylka · 07/02/2024 16:03

You had me worried it was today and I’d lost track of time, then I remembered it’s a Wednesday today…🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

😂😂😂Me too.

ColleenDonaghy · 07/02/2024 18:54

GreyhpundGirl · 07/02/2024 18:48

It's Shrove Tuesday. It doesn't matter if you're Christian or not, that's literally what the day is called. Christmas and Easter haven't been bastardised to Present and Chocolate Egg Day have they?

It's called Shrove Tuesday, pancake Tuesday, pancake day, Mardi gras. Probably other things.

I know it's a crazy concept, but the same thing can have different names in different cultures, and no one culture is right.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/02/2024 18:54

It's Shrove Tuesday. It doesn't matter if you're Christian or not, that's literally what the day is called. Christmas and Easter haven't been bastardised to Present and Chocolate Egg Day have they?

Losing (or rather, lost) battle there, I'm afraid. It seems the majority call it Pancake Day or Pancake Tuesday. Most of the few people who still call it Shrove Tuesday don't even know what the name means Grin. Shrove Tuesday is not 'literally what the day is called' by most people.

LoreleiG · 07/02/2024 18:54

I was brought up catholic and called it both shrove Tuesday and pancake day. But not sure why anyone non-religious would call it shrove Tuesday.

Whoopaday · 07/02/2024 18:55

Ginandjuice57884 · 07/02/2024 15:57

Pancake day not pancake Tuesday 😂

This!

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