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To hate it being called pancake tuesday

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scrambledeggsandbeans · 07/02/2024 15:55

Just that really, it's shrove Tuesday it is the traditional feast day before the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday. Lent – the 40 days leading up to Easter – was traditionally a time of fasting

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OchonAgusOchonOh · 09/02/2024 21:08

Thank you @Fink . You're a mine of information. I'm feeling very educated.

SummerDays2020 · 09/02/2024 21:17

They also do a Lent giving calendar at DD's school. There is an item of food/toiletries for each day (e.g jam, baby wipes) and they can bring it in and the items are all collected for the homeless.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 09/02/2024 21:18

SummerDays2020 · 09/02/2024 21:17

They also do a Lent giving calendar at DD's school. There is an item of food/toiletries for each day (e.g jam, baby wipes) and they can bring it in and the items are all collected for the homeless.

That's a lovely idea.

Fink · 09/02/2024 21:28

SummerDays2020 · 09/02/2024 21:17

They also do a Lent giving calendar at DD's school. There is an item of food/toiletries for each day (e.g jam, baby wipes) and they can bring it in and the items are all collected for the homeless.

We do this too. And the last item you donate is an Easter egg. I really like it. We do it so you just make up the box gradually at home and then bring the completed thing in.

Rhaenys · 09/02/2024 23:39

I call it St Pancake’s Day.

sashh · 10/02/2024 01:03

OchonAgusOchonOh · 09/02/2024 18:49

That's a total swiz. We were never told you were allowed to break the giving up on sundays. Paddy's day and your birthday if it was during lent were the only accepted concessions.

And Simnel day? AKA Mothering Sunday.

Bloody hard work making a simnel cake, I hated cooking at school. Three bloody years of learning to be a housewife.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 01:07

sashh · 10/02/2024 01:03

And Simnel day? AKA Mothering Sunday.

Bloody hard work making a simnel cake, I hated cooking at school. Three bloody years of learning to be a housewife.

In my school you had a choice of home ec or science. You were steered towards one or the other based on the results of the entrance exam.

Thankfully, I was directed towards science. I couldn't have coped with home ec. We did sewing, knitting and crochet in primary school. Let's just say, I'm not very talented in that area.

sashh · 10/02/2024 03:34

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 01:07

In my school you had a choice of home ec or science. You were steered towards one or the other based on the results of the entrance exam.

Thankfully, I was directed towards science. I couldn't have coped with home ec. We did sewing, knitting and crochet in primary school. Let's just say, I'm not very talented in that area.

Oh we had to do 3 years of needlework too.

The school was run by nuns so they had to make sure we would make good little wives.

SummerDays2020 · 10/02/2024 09:09

Fink · 09/02/2024 21:28

We do this too. And the last item you donate is an Easter egg. I really like it. We do it so you just make up the box gradually at home and then bring the completed thing in.

Yes, they have an Easter Egg as the last one too!

Emotionalsupportviper · 10/02/2024 09:32

OchonAgusOchonOh · 09/02/2024 19:47

Reporting back on the eastern/orthodox rules.

Nothing is eaten until sundown and then the food is not exactly feast like. No meat, fish, eggs, dairy products, wine or oil.

However, there are exceptions. Wine and oil are permitted on Saturdays, Sundays, and a few feast days, and fish is permitted on palm Sunday as well as the annunciation when it falls before Palm Sunday, and, best of all, caviar is permitted on Lazarus Saturday. Meat and dairy are prohibited entirely until the fast is broken on Easter.

No sex either during lent.

That's interesting.

You can keep the caviar, though - it just tastes like salty jam to my plebeian palate.

I'll have a couple of fish fingers though . . .

Emotionalsupportviper · 10/02/2024 09:34

SummerDays2020 · 09/02/2024 21:17

They also do a Lent giving calendar at DD's school. There is an item of food/toiletries for each day (e.g jam, baby wipes) and they can bring it in and the items are all collected for the homeless.

That is a beautiful and very practical and Christ-inspired idea.

I might suggest this for our church (next year - it doesn't do to spring anything on them).

Zuve · 10/02/2024 09:37

Ha Ha its all fun. Fun Day. Yes that's better!! Then it celebrates my the two pancakes on my chest

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 09:39

Emotionalsupportviper · 10/02/2024 09:32

That's interesting.

You can keep the caviar, though - it just tastes like salty jam to my plebeian palate.

I'll have a couple of fish fingers though . . .

I'm veggie so it's only the oil and the dairy that would affect me but I did find the caviar amusing. It's just so specific and random.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 09:41

sashh · 10/02/2024 03:34

Oh we had to do 3 years of needlework too.

The school was run by nuns so they had to make sure we would make good little wives.

Mine was run by nuns too. They did expect us to have ladylike careers though - teacher, nurse or secretary

Fink · 10/02/2024 10:17

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 09:39

I'm veggie so it's only the oil and the dairy that would affect me but I did find the caviar amusing. It's just so specific and random.

The original idea was to avoid blood and things associated with it (so basically veganism). Olive oil and wine were kept in containers made from animal skins, which is why they're included.

For historic reasons, non-fish seafood doesn't count as having blood.

AncientBallerina · 10/02/2024 10:28

bakedpotatoforlunch · 07/02/2024 16:58

Side (but related) question here. Why does my first pancake never work? 🤔

The pan isn’t hot enough

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 11:06

Fink · 10/02/2024 10:17

The original idea was to avoid blood and things associated with it (so basically veganism). Olive oil and wine were kept in containers made from animal skins, which is why they're included.

For historic reasons, non-fish seafood doesn't count as having blood.

Interesting. So caviar would be treated the same as eggs then as it has the potential to grow in to something with blood.

I wonder why non-fish seafood didn't count. Some of them have blood. Maybe because the blood generally isn't red so they may not have realised it was blood.

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 10/02/2024 11:33

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 11:06

Interesting. So caviar would be treated the same as eggs then as it has the potential to grow in to something with blood.

I wonder why non-fish seafood didn't count. Some of them have blood. Maybe because the blood generally isn't red so they may not have realised it was blood.

Convenience I suspect too. Here in. Britain in the medieval monasteries, only the abbot was permitted meat - all year round . The lower monks were permitted to eat fish ( lowly food not as posh as meat ) But they were allowed to eat Beaver ! Because beaver swim and have a flat tail like a fish therefore must be fish ! ( science not a strong point amongst theologians )
it’s why the beaver population in Britain was decimated and had only been re introduced here about a decade ago. It’s also why we eat fish on Friday . Personally I love fish and would eat it every day of the week.
Once attending a barbecue on Good Friday my very Catholic mother insisted on eating fish as a a penance . She had salmon , the others had cheap sausages!

Fink · 10/02/2024 11:51

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 10/02/2024 11:33

Convenience I suspect too. Here in. Britain in the medieval monasteries, only the abbot was permitted meat - all year round . The lower monks were permitted to eat fish ( lowly food not as posh as meat ) But they were allowed to eat Beaver ! Because beaver swim and have a flat tail like a fish therefore must be fish ! ( science not a strong point amongst theologians )
it’s why the beaver population in Britain was decimated and had only been re introduced here about a decade ago. It’s also why we eat fish on Friday . Personally I love fish and would eat it every day of the week.
Once attending a barbecue on Good Friday my very Catholic mother insisted on eating fish as a a penance . She had salmon , the others had cheap sausages!

I think it basically boils down to what scientific knowledge you could gather several hundred years ago without modern instruments and an entirely different outlook on how the world works. The less like a mammal a lifeform is, the less it was understood.

With the beavers, in fairness to my medieval forebears, there's the complication that their birthing and early life takes place within the lodge, so it's not observable by humans without cameras and so on, i.e. you can't necessarily tell that they're mammals just by looking at them. It's not unreasonable to have hypothesised that they might be some kind of creature in between a mammal and a fish.

Your mother's in good company, I've seen that attitude before. Nowadays more people debate what you should do on Fridays if you're already vegetarian.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 12:08

@HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth

Even when I used to eat meat, I was never the biggest fan of fish. It might have had something to do with the penance my mother served up every Friday - fish boiled in milk🤮

Poor beavers though.

Emotionalsupportviper · 10/02/2024 12:20

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/02/2024 11:06

Interesting. So caviar would be treated the same as eggs then as it has the potential to grow in to something with blood.

I wonder why non-fish seafood didn't count. Some of them have blood. Maybe because the blood generally isn't red so they may not have realised it was blood.

Of possibly convenience/ self-interest.

For purposes of Lent (and Fridays), I believe that the Catholic Church used to classify rabbit as a fish.

Emotionalsupportviper · 10/02/2024 12:21

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 10/02/2024 11:33

Convenience I suspect too. Here in. Britain in the medieval monasteries, only the abbot was permitted meat - all year round . The lower monks were permitted to eat fish ( lowly food not as posh as meat ) But they were allowed to eat Beaver ! Because beaver swim and have a flat tail like a fish therefore must be fish ! ( science not a strong point amongst theologians )
it’s why the beaver population in Britain was decimated and had only been re introduced here about a decade ago. It’s also why we eat fish on Friday . Personally I love fish and would eat it every day of the week.
Once attending a barbecue on Good Friday my very Catholic mother insisted on eating fish as a a penance . She had salmon , the others had cheap sausages!

Interesting re: beavers - I didn't know that. Thank you.

Abhannmor · 10/02/2024 12:48

If beavers are kosher - so to speak- why not otters? I bet fishmongers were well naused off when the Vatican said ' hey lads that no meat on Fridays is a bit dated, so it's not a mortal sin now'

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 10/02/2024 12:54

Abhannmor · 10/02/2024 12:48

If beavers are kosher - so to speak- why not otters? I bet fishmongers were well naused off when the Vatican said ' hey lads that no meat on Fridays is a bit dated, so it's not a mortal sin now'

No idea why not Otters but there may be some truth in what @Fink said re rearing young in the holt
No need for fishmongers since anyone was permitted to fish for their dinner in rivers and streams hence it’s reputation as a paupers food

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 10/02/2024 12:55

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