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To think this isn’t normal for a fifteen month old?

102 replies

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:22

My baby can only say ‘cat.’ That’s it. He does make other noises like dada but no other words. My niece could say around ten words by 14 months! I have been to the gp and they just dismissed it as him being too young still. I don’t think it’s right?

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SummerFeverVenice · 06/02/2024 17:51

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

It’s not that he is less bright, or that boys are usually ‘behind’ girls, it is because baby girls are treated differently from baby boys by adults playing with them so baby girls focus more on learning communication while baby boys focus more on motor skills.

Maray1967 · 06/02/2024 17:51

Younger was no further on with words than yours. He’s predicted 8, possibly 9, for English GCSE. How many words they can say as toddlers is no guarantee of future achievement, so don’t listen if a parent of a more ‘advanced’ baby tries to claim it is..

Maray1967 · 06/02/2024 17:53

SummerFeverVenice · 06/02/2024 17:51

It’s not that he is less bright, or that boys are usually ‘behind’ girls, it is because baby girls are treated differently from baby boys by adults playing with them so baby girls focus more on learning communication while baby boys focus more on motor skills.

This isn’t universally the case -I did loads of talking and singing with mine.

AngelaBB · 06/02/2024 17:54

Don't worry. It's very common, especially with boys. He will get to two and be speaking in n sentences, he will just have missed out that one word phase.

SummerFeverVenice · 06/02/2024 17:55

Maray1967 · 06/02/2024 17:53

This isn’t universally the case -I did loads of talking and singing with mine.

Nothing is universal, a generalisation is based on majority population.

Musicaltheatremum · 06/02/2024 17:58

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

My daughter was 26 months before she said much. Came out in sentences and like many people say hasn't shut up since. She's now a trainee solicitor so very much no evidence of less intelligence.

EdithStourton · 06/02/2024 18:03

One of mine didn't string two words together until she was almost 2. Otherwise she hit her milestones.

She knows has a master's from a RG uni....
Don't panic!

Crochetedtractor · 06/02/2024 18:04

Until he was about 18 months my son literally just said "juice" and until he was 2 really didnt say much at all. Just turned 3 and he has just explained to me why a backhoe loader is a much better vehicle choice for shifting his marble run tubes than a forklift "because it has hydraulics". Honestly, don't worry. They all learn at their own pace - very, very few kids don't end up every being able to speak.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 06/02/2024 18:09

MixedCouple · 06/02/2024 15:29

My HV was fantastic and did a 1 hour assessment as she has worked closely with special needs kids. She directed me to SLT helpline and I spoke to a therapist we started a SLT group. But HV said he is engaging and doesn't show any signs of problems.

I was concerned becuase he started talking at 9 months he could say 6 words but at 11 months stopped and in the enr all was clear for him he just took a break and started again at 19/20months.

We cancelled his SLT appt as he surpassed what was ideal for his age. And now he is 2 years he sings whole songs and speaks in 10-15 word sentences, ABC in 2 languages and counts to 30 in 2 languages. So yeah I had nothing to worry about. Stressed myself so badly.
But from 11 months - 19 months I was so worried and googled and watched every youtube video. But everyone all the HCP said he is fine.

Gps pretty useless contact SLT helpline and speak to HV for assessment referral snd see how things go.

I don't want to worry you but that sounds like gesalt processing, can be a sign of neuro- difference.

https://www.assistiveware.com/blog/gestalt-language-processing-aac#:~:text=Gestalt%20Language%20Processing%20(GLP)%20is,word%20to%20reach%20our%20meaning.

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Gestalt Language Processing (GLP) is a form of language development that starts with whole memorized phrases to single words. Read more on to better understand gestalt language processing and how to support gestalt language processors.

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Rosejasmine · 06/02/2024 18:14

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:25

Ok thanks everyone, I feel much more reassured now as the gp was quite dismissive. Thank you

No it’s not a sign that he’s not bright - from my personal experience.

My bright but not exceptionally academic first child babbled constantly from early on. My very academic super bright second child didn’t babble or speak early which was strange after the first one.
Both are now adults with different talents and personalities.
The former babbler can still talk and talk, the other sits back and listens more before she contributes. Just my limited experience.

romdowa · 06/02/2024 18:19

My son definitely couldn't say much at that age. He's 2.5 now and he talks in sentences. I actually paid for a few sessions with a speech therapist and she told us to use something called descriptive commentary and it really helped. So did Ms Rachel actually, she was great for his speech development

Sawitch · 06/02/2024 18:26

My DS, youngest of 4, could only say one word at age 2. Now an adult and no difference in ability between him and his siblings, even the DD who could talk fluently at that age!

Molecule · 06/02/2024 18:28

They are all different. “Comparison is the thief of joy” is very applicable here. Dd3 didn’t talk until she was three, came out with a complete sentence, and has never been quiet since. Also managed to get into Oxford, get a decent job, and continue to talk.

I think the main thing to worry about is communication. If they can communicate with you, and understand you there is not too much to worry about. Having said that, with four young children, I really had no time to worry - it was dd2 who pointed out that dd had actually spoken - “mummy did you hear what she said?” If it had beenDD1 failing to talk I would have been very worried, as I had read all the books and knew exactly what she should be doing each month.

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 06/02/2024 18:32

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

Complete nonsense! My BIL was apparently a very late talker, didn't say much at all until he was about 3, then moved onto full sentences very quickly. Knowing my BIL I joke that he just wasn't going to embarrass himself in public by getting anything wrong so waited until he was sure he could get it right! He is a very clever man.

Hankunamatata · 06/02/2024 18:35

If he gets to the age of two and doesn't have many words or not clear words then Id ask for a referral to speech and language or hv check. Until then I wouldn't worry

RoyKentmyhero · 06/02/2024 18:35

spiderlight · 06/02/2024 16:39

Has he had his hearing checked?

They do all develop at different rates though. Mine talked very early but walked very late.

I was going to ask this too.
My youngest had glue ear and we didn't realise until that age. His speech was pretty nonexistent and what he did say was unintelligible.

MatildaTheCat · 06/02/2024 18:37

DS1, high achieving young man who spoke only gibberish until he was over 2. Walked early.

DS2, high achieving young man who spoke clear sentences around 18 months. He was like carrying a loaded gun around. ‘Look Mummy, there’s a very fat man.’ He didn’t walk until 17 months.

All normal and all different.

Talkamongstyourselves · 06/02/2024 18:37

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

DD didn't said her first proper word at around 16 months. 22 years later she was awarded a 1st Class Honours Degree so don't fret about him not being "bright" because he's not talking yet.

Takacupokindnessyet · 06/02/2024 18:40

Very normal

CocoPlum · 06/02/2024 18:49

MatildaTheCat · 06/02/2024 18:37

DS1, high achieving young man who spoke only gibberish until he was over 2. Walked early.

DS2, high achieving young man who spoke clear sentences around 18 months. He was like carrying a loaded gun around. ‘Look Mummy, there’s a very fat man.’ He didn’t walk until 17 months.

All normal and all different.

🤣🤣

Ophy83 · 06/02/2024 18:52

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

Not at all... my son only said a few words before 3. Swiftly progressed to full sentences. Has always been top of his class/ passed the 11+ etc. Is your son communicating, albeit without words? My health visitor said that was the key thing to look out for by age 2.

TheShellBeach · 06/02/2024 18:54

Fllorqip · 06/02/2024 15:24

@Flatleak ok so it’s normal but he’s just likely not as bright as those already talking?

Not at all.
My DS didn't say much until he was two and a bit, and he got a university degree.

Don't worry about your son. He'll catch up when he does start talking.

Raffaell0 · 06/02/2024 18:55

MatildaTheCat · 06/02/2024 18:37

DS1, high achieving young man who spoke only gibberish until he was over 2. Walked early.

DS2, high achieving young man who spoke clear sentences around 18 months. He was like carrying a loaded gun around. ‘Look Mummy, there’s a very fat man.’ He didn’t walk until 17 months.

All normal and all different.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Raffaell0 · 06/02/2024 18:59

Much like the other posters, absolutely nothing to worry about at this age. Does he go to nursery? SIL’s son barely said more than “mama” at 20 months. He then started nursery and came on leaps and bounds.

BobbyBiscuits · 06/02/2024 19:03

Sounds fine to me, I'm no expert but this is no indication of how intelligent he is/ will be. Keep on talking to him and reading to him and he will pick it up, some children that age don't say many actual words. If he understand instruction to an extent like you say I'm sure he's fine.