Hi everyone sorry for the long post. I don’t know if ibu or in the right here so could really appreciate some advice as I don’t want to confide in family or friends about this. I’m with DP 3 years now. We have a beautiful 4 month old daughter and he has two lovely children from his previous marriage. Before our dd arrived I did most of the house work made breakfast lunch and dinner for him and his two kids washing cleaning shopping etc. since dd I haven’t had as much time to do everything I was doing before but I’m really trying my best. But it’s not enough for dp. He gets very frustrated if I don’t have lunch or dinner ready for him and kids even though he sees me feeding dd or cleaning house. He keeps telling me it’s the way modern women are now a days and that’s just me. He also keeps informing me that his ex wife never stopped after having kids but I feel I’m the exact same and he just doesn’t see it. He told me in the past he would take the two kids on weekend mornings so ex could have a lie in but when I ask him he tells he does a enough and I wanted a baby so I should be taking her in the mornings. He tells me as well that because I’m not working now (maternity leave) that I have no reason to be tired.He doesn’t help with night feeds or in general anything to do regarding the baby. He is now taking his two kids abroad next week for mid term. DD passport hasn’t arrived so we’re staying at home. I don’t mind about that I’m almost happy to have a break from him which I feel terrible about. He gets frustrated very easily and shouts at me putting me down. He shouts at me in front of his kids and I feel they are different around me recently.
Sorry for the long post. I just feel I’ve no one to talk to about this. I feel like I’m going crazy and a horrible person.