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To think you don't quite realise how badly the NHS is suffering until you witness it first hand

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DaisyCat33 · 01/02/2024 20:40

My parents are sitting in A&E today. They've just hit 12 hours. My dad was sent there by his GP for severe neck pain this morning. He's had morphine and an MRI scan, but they're now endlessly waiting to see a Dr about results. He hasn't even got a bed to lay on, despite debilitating neck pain. Many people are standing or sitting on the floor.

The couple sitting next to them have been there since 3am, for difficultly breathing.

I'm shocked. Honestly I knew the NHS had it's issues, but this bad?! It's frightening. I also had an email the other day saying my NHS dentist is closing, and it's basically a "well sorry no dentist for you any more, bye bye"

I don't really know the point of this thread really, I just feel shocked and upset that this is how it is. And I think a lot of people don't even realise? My parents definitely didn't until today. They are losing the will to live sat in that hospital.

Does anyone else just feel utterly helpless and anxious about this?

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ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 02/02/2024 11:39

https://twitter.com/DaysofNHS/status/1670869585858265116

I hope this is a satire account. Or is it?

https://twitter.com/DaysofNHS/status/1670869585858265116

AppleLights · 02/02/2024 11:39

user1497207191 · 02/02/2024 10:03

Yes, they increased GP pay and removed their need to work unsocial hours "to save the NHS" - well that worked well didn't it? All that happened is that GP reduced their working hours because they could afford to work fewer hours because of the higher pay, and out of hours GP provision is virtually non existent. Well done Blair!

Re bursaries, pay, etc., medical universities/medical schools are vastly oversubscribed and it's ever more difficult for prospective students to get places, so the number of "willing" students applying isn't a problem. It's retention once qualified, vast numbers only working part time, etc.

Blair and his ilk were all for "family friendly" hours for GPs to encourage more women and older GPs to stay working for longer on a part time basis, but completely forget that we need to train 2 GPs for every "full time equivalent" role when so many are only working part time hours. Medical school places should have been doubled about 30 years ago just to provide enough doctors to cover family friendly hours. And then increased even more to cope with the population increase.

It's been a fundamental planning failure for several decades.

I finished my training in the mid 90s. Friends who went into GP training were paid almost double what we were getting as hospital SHOs. And they didn’t have to do any out of hours work. I couldn’t quite believe it!

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Rosscameasdoody · 02/02/2024 11:40

peakygold · 02/02/2024 11:20

So, basically yet another timewaster then? A stiff neck? Seriously?

Would you consider someone going to A&E with a stiff neck and subsequently being diagnosed with meningitis a time waster ? Because a stiff neck or shoulder can be a symptom of serious underlying conditions - lung cancer being among them. My late uncle was visiting his GP for months with a stiff and painful shoulder and was fobbed off with painkillers and anti-inflammatories as it was diagnosed as a trapped nerve. He was referred to a physiotherapist and on the first visit was told to go straight to A&E - the physio rang ahead to tell them to expect him. Didn’t take them long to diagnose advanced lung cancer. The physio had detected lumps under the skin on his neck which the GP had missed. Had he visited A&E earlier things may have been different, but as it was, he died a few weeks later.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 02/02/2024 11:41

Beautyofthedark · 02/02/2024 11:37

Exactly. People need to make better use of the most appropriate healthcare, starting with pharmacists.

Last summer, I went to minor injuries for a potentially-fractured foot. It was busy, but I was seen, x-rayed and discharged within about 45 minutes.

I also went to minor injuries with a potentially fractured foot and was home in around 2 hours. Unfortunately they didn't have a clue what they were doing - x-rayed my ankle instead of my foot, asked me if I thought I needed a boot and referred me to the 'virtual fracture clinic' instead of actually seeing me who told me I had fractured 3 metatarsals. I hadn't. I had fractured my navicular, cuboid and heelbone and had tendon and ligament damage.

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Gwenhwyfar · 02/02/2024 11:42

"But seriously, get some perspective."

Why the aggression? I didn't complain about the waiting lists here. I just noted that there can be a wait.

AppleLights · 02/02/2024 11:42

Winberry · 02/02/2024 10:13

Thanks for that link. Wow. I see the vote was very narrow in favour. It’s so recent, 2008, surely there was some prediction of future need then. Looks like they were voting in a total bubble, self interest, and without a workforce plan against which their decision could be made.

I have never felt like represented by the BMA. Both as an individual and as a collective.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 02/02/2024 11:42

I think the lack of knowledge regarding the urgent care services the NHS actually offer is a big issue. A&E is for emergencies. Minor Injury units and walk in centres are for minor ailments and illnesses. MIUs usually have fracture clinics now. These facilities are not properly utilised by the public who often see A&E as the first port of call when unable to see a GP.

Bookist · 02/02/2024 11:44

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Thank you. Though Prague isn't in Austria.

whatistheworld · 02/02/2024 11:45

ThisIsMyHappyFacee · 01/02/2024 20:59

We need a rebellion. It's just so so terrible and disgraceful how the NHS treat people, purely the government's fault and NOT the staff. Please stand up and refuse this disgraceful treatment!

THIS!!!! the greedy/ rich have been taking for years!!! The UK is literally falling apart, from pot holes, to the NHS, children living in poverty, to schools, to the property crisis to even the union itself!!!

We need to rebel and stand up, we can't take anymore. 6th richest country in the world! where is it?????

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Chucklecheeks01 · 02/02/2024 11:46

Are we really still asking why it's like this? We all know why... Systematic underfunding and mismanagement by the current government.

Chucklecheeks01 · 02/02/2024 11:48

They were sent by a GP. Would that have been your first port of call?

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 02/02/2024 11:51

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 02/02/2024 11:42

I think the lack of knowledge regarding the urgent care services the NHS actually offer is a big issue. A&E is for emergencies. Minor Injury units and walk in centres are for minor ailments and illnesses. MIUs usually have fracture clinics now. These facilities are not properly utilised by the public who often see A&E as the first port of call when unable to see a GP.

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Our minor injuries isn't great so I can see why people would avoid it.

There is absolutely no privacy and when I went with an issue I didn't really want the world knowing about the receptionist rolled her eyes as I had everything in notes in my phone. I was then sent to A&E who weren't happy and asked me what I was doing there! There's no joined up thinking between our A&E and minor injuries.

Some of the staff also leave a lot to be desired. I took DH a few years ago and the receptionist was rude, asked me what I expected her to do when they didn't have the blood thinning injection he needed and laughed and called us timewasters when I said we'd go to A&E. Needless to say I complained and got a wishy washy apology.

Dibblydoodahdah · 02/02/2024 11:51

ZeldaFighter · 02/02/2024 11:31

We are European and we have a nationalised heath service. What kind of system do you mean, please?

I think you will find that France, Germany, the Netherlands, Belgium etc all have far superior healthcare systems to the UK. They differ from country to country but they tend have co-pays, a mixture of public and private rather than being 100% free. Our obsession with the NHS is holding us back. Yes, the US system is shit which is why I don’t want it - even though I personally would have a much better standard of care under it.

Beautyofthedark · 02/02/2024 11:51

Bannaandcustard · 02/02/2024 11:38

The after care after my C-section was pretty much non existent due to severe staff shortages. It was over a year ago and I still feel sad about it

What do you mean by after care?

After my two, as part of the post-birth checks, the midwife and then the HV had a quick look to make sure it was healing okay and there was no infection. Did you not have that?

Or do you mean in hospital? They made sure I was up and walking around as soon as possible (helps recovery to be up and about), checked I had been able to go to the toilet, etc

LookItsMeAgain · 02/02/2024 11:58

DaisyCat33 · 01/02/2024 20:55

I also just want anyone reading to know I absolutely do not blame the staff. They are doing all they can. My SIL is a healthcare assistant in children's A&E. She's a hero honestly, I couldn't do it.

I hate to say it but if the British Government would pay their medical staff what their medical staff is really worth (and by the sounds of it they are worth their weight in gold), then a lot of this would get sorted. How many pay rises have the politicians given themselves in the past 11 years (I genuinely don't know) vs how many pay rises medical staff have had?
How much money was wasted on faulty equipment during the Covid pandemic that could have paid for more doctors and nurses?

There is an awful lot of bureaucracy in all health services but there seems to be management layers in the NHS that could probably be shelved and the process be more streamlined.

@DaisyCat33 - I am pleased that your dad was finally seen and then able to leave the hospital but watching programmes like "Ambulance" or "24hrs in A&E" really do open eyes to just how tough it is on the front line of the behemoth that is the NHS.

Anyway, I'll pop off now but I think the NHS should be treasured and the sentiment behind why it was set up (health care free to all at the point of delivery) means that every single person can get top notch care (eventually) no matter their circumstances and it won't bankrupt them.

Keep on keeping on!

spanishviola · 02/02/2024 11:59

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 02/02/2024 11:42

I think the lack of knowledge regarding the urgent care services the NHS actually offer is a big issue. A&E is for emergencies. Minor Injury units and walk in centres are for minor ailments and illnesses. MIUs usually have fracture clinics now. These facilities are not properly utilised by the public who often see A&E as the first port of call when unable to see a GP.

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We don’t have these facilities in my area. It is A&E for everything.

RosyappleA · 02/02/2024 12:00

I agree that the worrying thing is we have been conditioned to think this is the new normal. The same way we don’t bother reporting some crime because the police won’t bother.
In my experience the nursing staff were fab but the wait was awful and I had to beg for pain relief whilst waiting. The consultant tried to make me believe it was all in my head. Well it wasn’t. They just don’t have the time to do a thorough job. Many must just go home and die.

Carriemac · 02/02/2024 12:01

Roadtripwithkids999 · 01/02/2024 21:22

My dh used to work in a hospital. He said honestly compared to back home its shambles. He also commented that there's a lot if sitting and tea making and chatting compared to the hospitals He worked in in his home country. GPs don't want to see anyone.
I'm not saying that's the reason why the NHS Is failing. Buts it's not great

GPs don't want to see anyone. Getting an appointment is gold dust. Dentists are closing etc. I went to the gp for a lump the other week. It had gone down by the time I got my appointment. She scolded me for bot coming when it was there... I explained a called straight away but I couldn't get an appointment util now. She then just said oh it was probably from shaving... it wasn't! This is the second time she's dismissed me. I'm not going back to her again

That's untrue and unfair about GOs they work extremely hard and are seeing more patients than ever.

Notonthestairs · 02/02/2024 12:01

"I think you will find that France, Germany, the Netherlands, Belgium etc all have far superior healthcare systems to the UK. They differ from country to country but they tend have co-pays, a mixture of public and private rather than being 100% free"

How many of those countries spend less overall on healthcare?

I'm not against a (well thought out and fully explained) change of system. But that means looking in far more detail at the costs. What I have read indicates that European models still require significant investment from their governments, individual insurance payments are in addition to and do not replace that funding.

PBJsandwich123 · 02/02/2024 12:08

I agree with you - someone was telling me how much money they hide from the taxman by getting their business done in cash and that they'll hide it from the inheritance tax man by getting their kids rolexes worth £100k's - it made me want to punch them in the face. I told them if the NHS fails I'll send them poo in the post.

Iwasafool · 02/02/2024 12:08

slightlyslumamama · 02/02/2024 11:19

this! I have to have my bloods checked regularly - one lot for the hospital (rheumatology) and one lot for the GP to check for some other medications... they cannot read each other's blood results! It is insane. Not joined up care whatsoever.

Ironically I am on hold waiting to talk to GP surgery regarding DS13 who has terrible kidney pain, history of kidney problems. Second time in 3 months and he has missed 1 month off school...

There is 1 GP who works on a Friday as apparently they all like Fridays off. New recruitment drive will employ top level staff to work on Fridays apparently. How did that happen?!

Not all the government's fault (and why do you think Labour's plans are any better?)

Whole system needs a shakeup

Everyone does seem to work pretty hard and most of them are excellent however, please do not strike - it isn't helping your own cause nor is it helping patients.

I don't understand this, I can log on to the nhs site, can't remember what it is called, and I can see my blood results. When I went to physio on Wednesday he logged on and he knew what meds I was on and my bone density scan results. Isn't that nationwide?

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