We have some friends who've organised a long haul holiday for a special birthday, taking place early next year. We were invited, it was a fairly small group who we get along well with and we agreed to go (not really the type of holiday we would normally choose but thought it would be fun for a change). We've paid a deposit.
Found out today that there is another couple of people have decided to go that I'm not keen on (they're only really acquaintances of the person who's birthday it is but they've adopted a more the merrier approach)
I just don't know what to do now. I feel like I was invited to one thing and it's developing into something else that I wouldn't choose.
Would you just go ahead and see how it pans out/do your own thing (opportunities for this will be limited as it's a resort type of holiday) Or make an excuse and cancel? I don't feel like I can just say to my friend "we don't fancy coming now because X and Y are coming".