We are technically ok because our combined salary is 90k and we have savings.
However, month to month we are absolutely haemorrhaging cash. There is nothing left by the end, and this month the car repairs, broken boiler, extra childminder bill and roof repairs from Henk mean that we are overdrawn and pretty much living from stuff in the freezer. And we got a surprise £500 bill off EDF two days before Christmas. Thankfully they've let us spread that but added 200 a month on to our direct debit.
I blame this wholeheartedly on Liz effing Truss - our mortgage went up £600 a month because of her 🤬
I never thought it could be like this when we both work flat out. There seems no end in sight. We can't come with all these increments in the hundreds we are having to fork out, we lie awake at night worrying about whether to sell the house and completely downsize.